Hi i went out with a guy and i dont know if he likes me. when we broke up i acted cool and collected but inside i died. ws it the right move to act like that? Also i need a way to make me his girlfriend? PLEASE HELP IM DYING WITHOUT THE HELP ive asked friens but they dont know!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskAliceMadisson answered Monday November 21 2011, 2:49 am: I don't know allot about you, so I can't answer this accurately.
I think you shouldn't have acted cool, you should have told him how you really felt.
This is the problem with us women we try to never express our selves.
Don't try and be his girlfriend, after he hurt you so much.
If he care about you he wouldn't have done that to you.
Forget him, forget the past move on to the future and start seeing new people.
It is best for you, you don't want to get hurt again.
nascarfan1987 answered Sunday November 20 2011, 10:32 pm: I can't give you great advice, because your not very detailed. If you want, you can send me a message to my inbox, and answer these questions:
1. Why did you guys break up?
2. How old are you, and how old is he?
3. How long were you guys together?
4. Who broke up with who?
But if you do not want to send me a message, here is the advice I can give you,
Usuaully when you go through a break up, people tell you to act like it doesn't bother you, and/or treat them with kindness. In some circumstances that doesn't always work. When I broke up with my boyfriend, he pulled the "I'm going to act like it doesn't bother me card", and yes, it hurt me to see he was just fine, while I felt like I was literally dying inside, but I figured since he was acting like that, it was really over between us. Turns out, he was hurting too, and he wanted me back.
Him acting all fine and dandy really made our breakup/ getting back together harder.
Guys on the other hand, when they see someone is doin just fine without them,
1. they try to get them back
2. the say screw it and let them be.
You need to figure out what type of boyfriend he was.
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