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I am really close to this guy, and we use to always be like bestestest friends forever and like i love you (in a bestest friend kinda way) and always text and talk and call and aim eachother and stuff
but now he barly talks to me
like i dont want to over talk to him and get him anoyed but i dont know what happend
any ideas on anything
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There is a number of reasons why he would stop talking to you. It's probably something small that you wouldn't even think of.
He could have developed romantic feelings for you and felt nervous around you and just didn't want you to find out by his acting weird.
He may have heard you say something about him in a joking manner but he didn't comprehend it as a joke and he is hurt.
He could also have heard a rumor about you from someone and felt weird/hurt/angry.
Since I don't know him personally I can't know what's up with him for sure, but you should ask him straight up to be sure.
Just ask him why he's acting distant and doesn't want to talk as much anymore.
Hope I helped.
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Recently I was out on a date with man and at the end of the date he kissed me. It was a french kiss. Its been three weeks now and the kiss was all the contact we have had. Unfortunatly I just found out through a friend that he has herpes.
There were no sores present when we kissed, and I havent had any sores develop. I've also made an appointment with doctor, however I can't be seen for another two months. Whats the likely hood that I have herpes? (link)
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It's probably a 50/50 situation. Although he didn't have any sores on his mouth when you kissed you still could have contracted it. But that is only likely if he has oral herpes. He may have genital herpes without oral but it's a good thing that you're getting checked out anyway.
Hope I helped.
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what do you talk about on dates... and where is a good first date. (link)
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Well, you're trying to get to know the person, so you talk about yourselves. Your life, family, friends, school, jobs, hobbies, etc. A good first date with someone you don't know that well would be a movie and pizza after. You should do dinner after so if there's any awkward silences you can at least talk about the movie, lol.
Hope I helped.
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Hi, im going to ask a girl out tomoro and i only see her once a week. can someone gimme some tips on asking her out? im a bit nervous please supply me with any information asap!! thnx! (link)
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All you really need to remember is confidence. Act like you already know she's going to say yes and it will be more likely that she will.
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i have this boyfriend and he really likes me. He wanted to have (you know what starts with a "s") i said no. we are too young! he said ok and it was fine. a couple weeks later, he was at me house and we were the only people there. We were studying for a big test. He said lets take a brake. i said ok. i started to sit on my beD AND eat some popcorn. when my back was to him, he jumped on me! i almost screamed. he was flat faced on top of me. He said "how does this feel?" and he started to have it! i kinda liked it at the time. He was very vigerous with me but gentle too. after, he slid off me and pull all me clothes off. EVERYTHING except my bra/underwear. then, he put himselft close and tore it off. he said "oops!" i pulled away but he had me. then he took off everything and he started again. kissing and touching me everywhere. Even me private spots then he sucked on me breats like a baby. and puuled his arms in between my legs. naked. and said like this? i didn't answer. he started to touch his under private part with mine. while still sucking on me. then he said this is boring. and stopped. then he pushed me into the shower. by now i was getting into it believe me, this is not rape. he turned on the shower me got us wet and went out on my bed and he started sucking on my underprivate part and feeling my breats. I started to love it. it felt tingleing. he stayed like this for a long time. then he took my hand and putit on his private part and kissed and everywhere even my parts. now, i can't face him.. what should i do? (link)
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If you can't TAlK about sex, you definitely shouldn't be HAVING sex. If you can't face him after having sex, [technically considered rape because you didn't consent (even some rape victims feel pleasure)], then you aren't ready to be having it. If he attacked you once and you forgive him for it, he's going to think that it's okay to do it again because you let him off without even a warning. You should end your relationship with him because obviously he doesn't respect you enough to let it go that you didn't want to have sex.
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me and my bf are ready for sex, but whenever he tries i go all tense and my vagina goes tight, and i really cant help it. when hes fingering im not as tense and tight but then we try having sex and its way too tight to get his penis in. its really embarrassing and i realy want to have sex.
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Well, first you need to relax. When you're relaxed your vagina will be more likely to expand to fit his penis inside. Also, you should try using a lubricant so it will be more comfortable when he starts to push in.
Okay, one more time, RELAX.
I know you may be nervous since it's your first time but it will be less painful and tight if you're not as tense.
Try more foreplay to help calm your nerves. Make sure he's kissing you or caressing you as he starts to enter so you stay calm.
Hope I helped.
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Well I have big boobs for my age and theres like light colored stretch marks on like the top of them. Do those ever go away? Oh and is it normal for your boobs to have like tiny hairs on them? (link)
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The stretch marks won't ever completely go away but you can fade them with cocoa butter or a prescription scar fading cream. As for the hair, yes it is normal. If you're self conscious about them, it is okay to pluck them. They don't grow back for about three weeks.
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Hi, im 14 years old and im still a virgin unlike some of my friends. I want to wait till marriage to have sex. But how do you resist temptation. Also if you dont do any sex related acts(including oral) What could you do with your bf? Thanks for ya'll advice. (link)
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About the resisting temptation? Very hard, I know. But it is possible. If you're afraid that you won't be able to one day, try hanging out with your bf in a group of mututal friends. If you want to be alone, try doing something outside, where it would be hard to do something sexual with strangers there. You could go for picnics in the park, play frisbee, go the beach, etc. If you want to resist temptation, try not to spend time in a secluded area where it is very intimate, like his or your bedroom. But make sure that he knows where you stand on the subject of sex. If he knows you don't want to have sex until marriage, there will be less pressure coming from him. If he does try to pressure you into caving, spend a little less time alone and more time with a group.
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I'm thinking about adding Instant Breakfast into my diet (its that protein drink).
if i added that to my diet plan, i was thinking of eating:
breakfast: instant breakfast w. bannana/apple
snack: Special K bar
lunch: turkey wrap/sandwhich with miracle whip and lettuce. applesauce. carrots. mini-ricecakes.
dinner: usually a Healthy Choice Dinner meal. or a Burger or whatever.
then i was thinking of working out around 4x a week for forty minutes.
what are some fun workouts i can do?
what kind of foods should i add or subtract to my diet to make it healthier? i kind of want to give the Instant breakfast a try. (link)
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For breakfast, that would be a good plan, bananas contain healthy fats that you need.
For lunch, miracle whip isn't all that healthy. It has a gazillion calories in just one tablespoon. For the lunch, instead of real bread you should use soft taco shells. They actually make those for that specific purpose, but I can't remember what they're called. You should put peanut butter on the rice cakes. They'll give you energy until dinner time.
The snack: okay, special k bars say they're fat free but they contain calories that will turn into straight fat as soon as they enter your stomach. You should have celery with peanut butter or if you're craving soft junk food, try pretzels or a popcicle.
For dinner, healthy choice dinner meals probably won't fill you up and you may just end up hungry again before you go to bed and you could end up snacking. So you should try adding an apple to it.
As for the workout, you could try: biking, dancing, krumping (if you're not sure what it is, google it), etc.
If you need more help, my aunt is a nutritionist so I can help you plan more healthy meals.
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THere is a trend out there I guess its spelled emo. Anyways my son has been talking about it for two years but never really acted on it. Two days ago he started dressing im all black and yesterday he puts on eyeliner. I love my son very much, he has always MARCHED TO HIS OWN DRUM AND IVE ALWAYS SUPPORTED HIM. HE IS MOSTLY ANTISOCIAL AND LOVES MUSIC AND THE COMPUTER...HIS NEW FOUND LOVE IS THE CURE. I JUST WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT BEING EMO. NOT TO DOWN HIM BUT TO SUPPORT HIM.....PLEASE HELP (link)
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Although ViLily has a point about releasing emotional pain through physical pain or by using drugs and alcohol to numb the pain, not all 'emo' kids express pain in that way. Some release emotion through music, art, writing, etc. Emo is an 'in' trend right now, what with all the new emo bands, and also revived bands such as the Cure. But to be sure that he doesn't fall into that pit of Van Gogh-ness, let him know that you're always there if he needs to talk and if he can't talk to you about something, to find someone who he can.
Hope I told you what you needed to know.
If you need more help, I'm always here.
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I was wondering, how would a German person refer to their girlfriend? I once heard a guy refer to her as his "friend." Then I heard another person from Germany refer to someone as a "friend."
I assumed that he just meant the girl was a friend. But now I think "friend" means girlfriend. I looked up the German way to say girlfriend, and its Freundin. (Spelled just like Friend.)
So I was wondering, to German people, does "friend" mean boyfriend/girlfriend? (link)
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Actually, Germans refer to everything as feminine, masculine, or neuter(which essentially means neither). Freundin would mean girlfriend and Freund would mean boyfriend. Freund also means just 'friend' because the article is in masculine and neuter form.
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what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old? (link)
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I'm sixteen now and it depends on what I'm doing and what time whatever I'm going to starts. My parents think that three hours minimum is a good time space to stay out. But it also depends for me whether my chores are finished.
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ok i have really really hairy legs and like my mom won't let me shave them! I hate it I get made fun of by my older bro all the time, he calls me a monkey! i HATE it! he goes the whole nine yards too one time i walked into the room and he was watching king kong and he said ooo king kong can i have an autograph! it's sooooo annyoing. (link)
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First of all, you should tell your mother exactly how you feel about the situation. Make sure she knows why you want to shave your legs. Just don't say that all your friends do or something like that. It never works. If that doesn't change her mind, ask her if you can possibly use hair removal cream such as Nair. There is no razor involved. But it may itch when you take it off because it gets in your pores and makes them all red. Rubbing an orange, lime, or lemon on them, or some other citrus fruit will slough off the remaining residue from the cream. Apply some sort of lotion after or the citrus fruit will dry out your skin. Your legs will be super soft and hair free.
If you need more help, let me know.
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Im sorry if this is long. But, i like this guy ,and im good friends with his best friend. The guy i like, is in the group of people i hang out with, its just i talk to everyone in that group but like him. and he talks to like everyone but me.
Hes cute, and i would like to get to know him better.
But its weird, he treats everyone so much different then he treats me, like he joke-endly makes fun of them and like talks to them more. But never me ? i dont get it.
I dont think he likes me like i like him though.
i dont know , im just confused.
and whenever we do talk its for like 2 seconds.
HELP ? please
does he hate me you think ??
im sorry if this confused anyone, or anything
xox melissaa. (link)
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I doubt he hates you. He may not talk to you and joke around with you as much because you don't talk to him that much. He could think you don't like him (he could get this theory by you ignoring him for the most part). Or it is also possible that he treats you different because he's shy around you because he likes you. Guys usually know who their best friends like or don't like, so ask his best friend since you're good friends. If this guy likes you and these two guys are best friends, the friend would know who he likes. And if he does like you, you don't really have to do anything because his best friend will tell this guy you like him and the ball will be in his court to ask you out. But if he does like you and he doesn't ask you out within a week of finding out you like him also, you should ask him out or he may think you were asking for a friend.
For future help, you know where I am.
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Okay... I am like.... in love with one of my really good guy friends. But I don't know if he likes me. I recently had a friend-M.- who I hate now, and she told him she likes him... and he didn't like her. Now they're not friends. I have two best friends... A. and L.. A. likes him as much as I do and he knows she likes him cause he figured it out but I don't think he likes her. I'm debateing wheather (sp?) or not to tell him.... I'm worried if I don't I'll burst... and I know he thinks I don't like him because he saw a note I passed to A. about how I like a guy with gold/brown eyes and he asked me if it was him and I chickened out and said no like 12 times. I'm so upset. I'm torn. And he sort of likes my best friend L. but he would go out with her to make M. jelous. I'm so torn and upset.. but I think I'm in love. And if you think I should tell him... how should I go about it?? WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????? (link)
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This is a question almost all my friends have asked me at some point in time. Well, first I think you should plan something where you can be alone with him, even if it's cut off from a group. Just start talking and eventually get around to the subject of you and him. When you get there, say something like, "You know, I was talking to *insert name here*, and (s)he said that (s)he thinks we should date/would make a great couple." Or something along those lines. And if he reacts with a smile, a nod, a "maybe we would" or just a "maybe", it's good sign. Say something like, "Well, maybe we should." (As in date if you say the first one). If he says something about being friends or messing up the friendship, I'm sorry but he's not into it. He may like your friend after all.
If you need any more advice, you know where I am.
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14/m me and my gf were fooling around and i put my penis against her panties, i think most of my precum got wiped off when i took it out of my pants but its there any chance of her being pregnet? (link)
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Actually there is a slight chance but it is only about a hundredth of a percent of a chance. See, although most of your preseminal fluid wiped off, there was still probably some on your penis when you rubbed it against your girlfriend's panties. It is possible for it to soak into her panties and get inside her vagina. There is an extremely low chance of this happening in the first place, especially if it was more on her lower abdomen instead of near her labia and vaginal opening. I wouldn't worry about it too much, but if she misses her period by more than two weeks, make sure she takes a pregnancy test or sees the doctor. But remember that if you both stress about it, her period may be late just because of that stress so don't worry until you're sure you have to.
Hope I helped!!
If you need any more info, let me know.
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i've been wanting to do a performance (singing and dancing) to one of those songs that are like "hat and cane" style i don't know how else to describe it! like where you could dance w/ a chair and stuff too... the only songs i've come up with are jennifer lopez's "get right" and alicia keys's "heartburn"
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Christina Aguilara's "Candy Man" would be a really good one.
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After i turn to the side i just do a pushup...? With my legs straight on the floor?
Thanks soooo muchh
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Yes, the back of your knees should be touching the floor. If they come up a little, it's no big deal, but try to keep them as straight as possible.
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this is about waht guys find attractive in girls.
what are turn offs - phsyically and personality wise
what are some turn ons - physically and personality wise (link)
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Turn offs:
bad body odor
hairy legs and underarms
too much makeup
bad breath
rudeness
Turn ons:
nice smell
sense of humor
fresh breath
responsible
sense of fun
reliability
ability to be comfortable with new people
If you need more help, let me know.
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I hate it when girls look at me like a teddy bear and not dating material. Like they pat me on the hea and stuff. How do I make myself seem more mature or whatever (link)
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I don't think it's so much not being mature, just the way you handle yourself. Embrace your "smallness". Find a cute girl that is also small. That way you won't feel like a waif with a girl but you don't have to be a sumo wrestler either. Act confident and talk to girls like it doesn't matter whether they like you or not. When you do that, you won't seem desperate, like you NEED girl to make you feel big.
If you need any more help, let me know.
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