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How do you resist
Hi, im 14 years old and im still a virgin unlike some of my friends. I want to wait till marriage to have sex. But how do you resist temptation. Also if you dont do any sex related acts(including oral) What could you do with your bf? Thanks for ya'll advice.
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you are a sensible girl have sex when your fully committed wait resist temptations by wooing yoursel self service so you could masturbate sex isnt everything
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Just be honest with him and explain that you are abstinent and he needs to respect that. Then you shouldnt have to worry about 'what you should do with him'.
But there are PLENTY of things you can do with your boyfriend.
Go out to movies, ge rent movies, play videogames, go on a walk, goto the park and watch the sunset/rise, walk the dog, write a poem together, dance funky to music, just learn to get comfortable with eachother.
Goto the gym, go swimming at a pool or the beach. Shopping :D
Find ways to connect and have fun.
*Board games too, like scattagories*
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About the resisting temptation? Very hard, I know. But it is possible. If you're afraid that you won't be able to one day, try hanging out with your bf in a group of mututal friends. If you want to be alone, try doing something outside, where it would be hard to do something sexual with strangers there. You could go for picnics in the park, play frisbee, go the beach, etc. If you want to resist temptation, try not to spend time in a secluded area where it is very intimate, like his or your bedroom. But make sure that he knows where you stand on the subject of sex. If he knows you don't want to have sex until marriage, there will be less pressure coming from him. If he does try to pressure you into caving, spend a little less time alone and more time with a group.
Hope I helped!
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