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CJ== CRAZYYYYYYYYYY ((urgent))
Okay... I am like.... in love with one of my really good guy friends. But I don't know if he likes me. I recently had a friend-M.- who I hate now, and she told him she likes him... and he didn't like her. Now they're not friends. I have two best friends... A. and L.. A. likes him as much as I do and he knows she likes him cause he figured it out but I don't think he likes her. I'm debateing wheather (sp?) or not to tell him.... I'm worried if I don't I'll burst... and I know he thinks I don't like him because he saw a note I passed to A. about how I like a guy with gold/brown eyes and he asked me if it was him and I chickened out and said no like 12 times. I'm so upset. I'm torn. And he sort of likes my best friend L. but he would go out with her to make M. jelous. I'm so torn and upset.. but I think I'm in love. And if you think I should tell him... how should I go about it?? WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????
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This is a question almost all my friends have asked me at some point in time. Well, first I think you should plan something where you can be alone with him, even if it's cut off from a group. Just start talking and eventually get around to the subject of you and him. When you get there, say something like, "You know, I was talking to *insert name here*, and (s)he said that (s)he thinks we should date/would make a great couple." Or something along those lines. And if he reacts with a smile, a nod, a "maybe we would" or just a "maybe", it's good sign. Say something like, "Well, maybe we should." (As in date if you say the first one). If he says something about being friends or messing up the friendship, I'm sorry but he's not into it. He may like your friend after all.
If you need any more advice, you know where I am.
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Hello!
i also used to like one of my good guy friend(L).
actually it was more than like it was love!
so i asked one of the guys in his class to ask L to describe the girl he likes.
so L described me.
then i asked him out, he said ok and now we've been goin out for 3months!
good luck with that guy1 let me know if it works out!!!!
love dancer_in_trainin
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Ok, first you need to calm down, and take a deep breathe!
Second, if you really want to let him know then tell him. Only if you feel like your going to burst out and because your so torn up about it that you want to get it off your chest then tell him. You can be like, "I lied earlier when i said it wasn't you i was talking about in the note. It was you...etc." or however you wanna tell him.
You don't have to let him know if you don't want but it sounds like you do. It's up to you, it's your choice!
I don't know if any of that helped. Tell me what you're going to do. Tell me how it goes with him. Take care if you need anything else ask me. =) Good luck. <3
EDIT: (answer to feedback): awww! no worries hun. always take a deep breathe!! =) ask me if you need anything <3 take care!
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