♥[?]♥ I see in many people advice thing that they have music and cuter back grounds with pictures and words floating by.. How do i get that?
They use HTML codes!
---You can get music and cuRsoRs and a few otheR codes at:
* http://www.starlightmks.com
and
* http://www.diamondrains.com .
---ColoR codes can be found at:
* http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/color_codes/
and
* http://html-color-codes.com/
---Text HTML codes can be found at:
* http://webmonkey.wired.com/webmonkey/reference/html_cheatsheet/
and
* http://www.web-source.net/html_codes_chart.htm
---As foR backgRounds, you just have to find them online.
Lemme know if theRe's anything I can help you with!! :D
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend is eventually going to want a havdjob but i dont know how to give one.
It's Really not that difficult. Just don't think TOO much about it befoRe hand, as this will only woRk you up and make you neRvous.
-- TO GO ABOUT IT: it's pRettie simple. FIRST, I suggest you ask him HOW HE DOES IT.. just to get an idea of what he likes. And noooo this won't make you seem lame oR inexpeRienced at all!! DiffeRent people peRfeR diffeRent things, so even if you've given 3243475 handjobs befoRe... ONE PERSON might not do it the same as ANOTHER PERSON, so always always ask!! But you just gently gRab ahold of it, and slowly, at fiRst, move youR aRm up and down, in time incReasing the speed.
-- TIPS: they like if you'Re naked, oR at least topless... it's a gReat visiual and helps keep them eRect. They also like talking diRty. So don't hold back on that. Just tell them it's nice, it's big, how good it looks, and how bad you want it. Then you could tRy talking about how much you want theiR load, and wheRe it's going to end up [meaning: napkin, youR mouth, youR face, etc.]. And theRe's absolutely NOTHING wrong with putting youR mouth to it and swallowing his 'finishings'. NOOO, you CAN NOT get pRegnant, and NOOO you will not get sick; it's actually healthy -- high in pRotein. And the taste honestly DOES vaRy fRom peRson to peRson, so no one can tell you how it will taste. OR, if you'd RatheR.. just let it come out as it does... like on youR hand wRapped aRound him foR instance; theRe's definitely nothing wRong with that!
-- It's pRettie simple. The only pRoblem you might Run into [which you moRe than likely will] is that youR hand will get tiRed; and this is fine. Guys can do it foR long peRiods of time, because chances aRe that they've had yeaRs of pRactice, and this would be youR fiRst time, so they won't be suRpRised oR disappointed. Just if that DOES happen.. don't give up oR keep saying "I Can't", that's a BIG tuRn off!! Keep tRying, and if needed, have him do it foR a couple seconds while you stay Right theRe and watch. It's honestly not a big of a deal oR hassle as it may sound.
*I seaRched online foR you if you feel you need moRe infoRmation. PeRhaps you might like to check this site out: http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/ht/handjob.htm It goes into a tad bit moRe detail on HOW TO DO IT, I suppose.
You'll do just fine, Really -- no woRRies!! If you have any fuRtheR questions oR would like some moRe infoRmation, don't be afRaid to contact me. Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe! :D
♥[?]♥ ok on the picturetrail website....how do i change my landing page?? i really need help. thiankyou! on and the landing page is the picture that you see on the main page and it is in the little album to show you what all is in that particular album....thankyou!
Heyyyy, it's easy:
--SIGN IN
--GO TO EDIT OPTNIONS
--EDIT VISITORS PAGE
--CHANGE PHOTO.
Goodluck!! :D
♥[?]♥ Okay so I'm thirteen years old and I just got my period yesterday. I was at a pool party that day and my friends gave me a tampon, instructions, and locked me in a bathroom trying to get me to put the damn thing in. It was ''regular'' size (Tampex with the yellow code or w/e) and it hurt soooooooooooooooo much! I had the tip in and then after that it hurt soo much, it wouldn't go in. I just bought Playtex ''Lites Junior'' or something and I'm too afraid to put it in. Help!
Wow!! Hun, use pads!! You'Re OBVIOUSLY NOT Ready foR tampons!!! Some people have theiR peRiod foR YEARS and STILL aRen't Ready foR tampons!! Pads aRe quick, simple, painless and gReat pRotection!! TRy getting the ones with wings foR a moRe secuRe gauRd!!
and for you ... how long does it last befor black dots appear?
Okay, foR *ME* peRsonally, they DO disappeaR Right afteR I shave, yes. And this is just because that's the way *MY* haiR HAPPENS TO BE, ya know? Just got lucky theRe. And it takes about two days befoRe they come back, and about thRee oR fouR befoRe haiR RetuRns. And don't woRRie about botheRing me, theRe's nooo need to feel "soRRy" at all!! I'm heRe *ANYTIME* you need me!! :D
♥[?]♥ I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do?
Honestly, I think you should go to Phildelphia. I KNOW it'll be difficult to leave heR, but you need to do what's best foR *YOU*. Philadelphia seems like a window of oppoRtunities, and it would be unfaiR to youRself if you let this slip by without taking advantage of it.
♥[?]♥ how many calories do u have to loose in order to loose one pound???
A weight loss of aRound 3,500 caloRies equals a weight loss of one pound. FoR additional infoRmation and suppoRt, check out: http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1865.html Hope this helps!! :)
♥[?]♥ Does anyone know a good website to find cute cursors for my advice column? Thank you! I'll rate anyone well who knows one.
You could tRy:
-- http://www.diamondrains.com
or
-- http://www.starlightmks.com
♥[?]♥ Last night I went to the movies with my guy friend & my friend (who he used to like). I have a crush on him but I don't know if he feels the same way. Some stuff happened last night that made me want to believe he might like me too.
-For example, my friend sat down, I sat down on one side of her & he decided to sit on the other side of me.
-We flirted the whole movie, throwing popcorn at eachother.
-We shared the armrest & I had my head rested on our arms.
-He kept talking to me during the movie.
-He let me take sips of his drink.
-When I said I was cold, he said if he had a jacket on him, I could have worn it.
I'm not sure if it sounds like we're just "pals" or could possibly be more? I really can't tell so I was wondering if someone who was more experienced in relationships could help me out. Thanks! Sorry it was so long!
JaMiE x3
Aww!! That is the most adoRable thing eveR!!! Seems like a pRettie fantastic night! Aww, haha.. I'm jealous!! First, think about this: does he fliRt with eveRyone?? Is he seRious about Relationships?? If so, this COULD have been nothing moRe than a noRmal day out foR him, ya know?? I mean, *obviously I don't know this kid, but if you ask me, it DEFINITELY seems like he likes you!!!!! :D
♥[?]♥ i was wondering if VEET bladless shaving actually works?? and if so how long do your legs stay smooth?
PeRsonally, *I'VE* neveR tRied it. HoweveR, my fRiends have.. and say it's PATHETIC! Hope this helps!! :D
♥[?]♥ well if it grows thicker, wouldnt it leave like weird scratchy feelings on your leg?
i cant really explain it buts its its like when your hair doesnt get shaved all the way and stuff...
wont it seem like you have weird black dots on your leg?
It would be thickeR, yes.. UNTIL you shave again. And if you DON'T plan to shave again, it'll only feel REALLY stubbly foR about a week oR two. AfteR that, it will have gRown in long enough to staRt getting back to noRmal -- though the feel of it will NEVER be back to "noRmal" exactly. OTHER PEOPLE won't be able to notice the new feeling, because they don't touch youR legs all the time, but I'm shoRe YOU'LL feel the diffeRence.
And I DEFINITELY undeRstand what you'Re saying about the black dots that aRe theRe afteRwaRds. Honestly, theRe's sometimes no stopping that. You eitheR have them, because you didn't get a close enough shave, and the Roots aRe still veRy appaRent... OR.. foR some people.. no matteR HOW WELL they shave.. these black dots simply won't go away; and that's all dependant on a peRson's individual haiR gRowth. UnfoRtunately, I can't say whetheR you'll have these oR not. :)
♥[?]♥ Does anyone ever get questions in thier inbox???
I RATE WELL!!!!
I do all the time, yeah. To get A TON of questions in youR Inbox youR chances aRe incReased if you: give good advice, have a cool column, aRe a good peRson, oR aRe pRettie. All of those will scoRe you a bunch of mail. :P
♥[?]♥ ok this is the thing. i've read about the veet thing. if it doesnt work for anyone, well it might not work for me.
this is the real question.
if you shave your leg, does it get thicker?
i kno this sound so stupid cuz i wasn't allow to shave my dang legs. and just in case i have to do it behind my mom's back...
well i heard it does and gets thicker and stuff...
is it true?
and if you shave, how long does it last?
my friend says her legs only last for like 8 hours
**PeRsonally, I've neveR tRied 'Veet', but my fRiend's have. They told me it was the BIGGEST JOKE... ALONG WITH the 'Intuition' RazoR!! I've neveR heaRd ANYTHING but bad Reviews on those two pRoducts.
**And foR ME, yes, the haiR DOES INDEED gRow back THICKER; many of my fRiends have complained about this to me, but peRhaps it doesn't happen to EVERYONE?????
**And as foR HOW LONG it will last... that vaRies fRom peRson to peRson; it's just all a matteR of youR peRsonal haiR gRowth. So foR youR fRiend it may only last 8 houRs, sometimes NOT EVEN!!! FoR me, peRsonally, I had a good thRee days of being peRfectly smooth. The only way to find out is to shave YOURS.
If you *do* decide to shave youR legs, heRe's some tips:
--- NEVER dRy shave.
--- Find a shaving cReam/gel you'Re happie with.
--- If you can't go out and puRchase shaving gel, use a baR of soap and latheR youR legs up REALLY good, but keep it moist and latheRy.. don't let it soRt of dRy out.
--- If you CAN puRchase shaving gel, I Recommend 'Skintimate's Shaving Gel' oR 'BaRbasol Shaving Cream".
--- Always, always, always shave upwaRds, peRiod.
--- Use a good RazoR, and change it often, if not EVERY time.
--- Yes, disposable RazoRs aRe fine.
--- Apply shaving, apply lotion to help moistuRize, and help pRevent RazoR buRn.
--- DO NOT shave daily!! TRy eveRy otheR two days oR so.
Hopefully this was of at least SOME use to you! :D
♥[?]♥ Kenzie..Its Alli, I have a question, i know you answer questions the best out of anyone. this ones hard, and i need the best answer. here you go:
Ok first sorry if this is sorta long. Anyway..Theres this girl and iv'e been friends with her for 8 Years. Since we got into Highschool she dramatically changed her personality. And is currently hanging around people TOTALLY different from me. For example,my friend used to be a classic beauty queen, a beautiful girl, With a wonderful personality.. Now she dyed her hair red + black (from blonde) and is wearing all black, shes sorta goth/punk. And her and I did everything together, i loved her with all my heart as a bestfriend, and i know she loved me as much .. or maybe even more :) But now all of a sudden, i cant hang around her because she tells me to go away, only because im different than her new friends and she told me she doesnt want me to get judged by them. (for the reason of she doesnt want to see me get hurt). And, i really get depressed because i miss her so much, her and i were so alike, and we had a friendship that you honestly would never expect to dissapear. So i had to talk to her, she told me she doesnt want me to change to become friends again, or the same for her. But i honestly dont want to lose a bestfriend like her, because i love her too much. I know this is hard, but what should i do?
Thanks Always,Alli xO
UnfoRtunately people change, ya know? You can't expect this giRl to be exactly the same ALL of heR life. I wouldn't say she's GROWN UP, because it's completely appaRent she has not. She obviously lacks the social gRaces and willpoweR of that of an "adult's". This is obviously a "stage". She just staRted high school, that's a BIG change fRom Middle School and just a whole new level of LIVING entiRely, if that makes sense? High school is Rough foR eveRyone; we all just deal with it in ouR own ways. TheRe's many pRessuRes and peRsuasions that can quickly get you questioning youRself, and who you aRe as a whole, ya know? But you *HAVE* tRied talking to heR -- which is gReat, definitely the fiRst step. UnfoRtunately, if she says she doesn't want youR fRiendship, then you just have to accept and Respect that. You DO NOT have to AGREE with it, and why she feels that way, but you MUST accept and Respect heR wishes. Honestly, why a "best fRiend" WOULD and COULD so easily tReat you this way is COMPLETELY BEYOND ME!!! And if she INSISTS on hanging out with heR same usualy cRowd oveR you foR the sake of spaRing youR feelings.. what does that have to do with a fRiendship OUTSIDE of school at least??? Have you tRied asking heR about THAT? I don't see the haRm that could be done theRe. You'Re HER fRiend.. NOT THEIRS, so theRe's no Reason she SHOULDN'T be able to upkeep youR fRiendship. Just make shoRe you tell heR how this entiRe situation makes you feel, and how you appReciate heR and all the splendeR she bRings to youR life. If she's STILL against the idea of the fRienship between you two, I say YOU be the biggeR peRson, and let heR know that if she eveR needs anything, she can come to you; let heR know that just because SHE doesn't consideR it a fRiendship anymoRe.. that she will ALWAYS have a fRiend in YOU!!!!
SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help, Alli. I Really *DO* wish things woRk out. Know that I'm always, always, always heRe foR me if you eveR need anything, Kidd-o; you know how to Reach me. Take caRe! :D
♥[?]♥ O.K. I have this friend... an unusual friend... he's a marker. We did all kinds of things together like going fishin' and riding bicycles. He was my BEST firend! HE WON'T WORK! I THINK HE DIED!
PLEASE HELP!
I WILL rate high for anyone who answers seriously... P.S. This is a true story, not a prank.
Luv,
Jonathan
Aww; I'm soRRie, Jonathan!! As tRagic as it is, these things happen. UnfoRtunately, theRe's haRdly eveR anything we can do about this. Best thing you can do is move on, no matteR how much to don't want to.. and puRchase youRself a new one...
♥[?]♥ Ok, i'm 15 years old and i've had my period for about two years. It's VERY irregular. I'll skip two months and then get it, and crazy stuff like that. It's never the same time of the month either.. not that i can really remember since there is so much time between periods. I'm 5'6 and i weigh 105. I'm skinny and some websites say im underweight and to go to a doctor. I eat though! I just have a fast metabolism and exercise. Do you think it's because of my weight? Does that sound unhealthy? Why is my period SO irregular STILL after two years? haha thanks.
Well, it COULD be due to youR weight I suppose. OtheR contRibuting factoRs may be an unhealthy and iRRegulaR diet, a lot of stRess, and extReme exeRcize and activities. Of couRse *I* can't Really say if you have a pRoblem oR not, so of couRse consulting youR physician is best. :)
♥[?]♥ My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends.
He obviously doesn't feel anything foR you; even if he.. you'd be too good to give up ONCE.. not to mention time and time and time again...... ditch this clown...
♥[?]♥ ohkay, im a really *challenged person when it comes to my weight. No matter how hard i try to lose weight, i always tend to gain more & more. how do become skinny? how do i control my blubber?
love, shamoo aka moby dick
Aww!! Oh my God, you sooo don't need to be adding extRa pRessuRe to youRself, foR one thing. I know the FIRST thing you MUST do pRioR to losing weight, is admit to youRself that it's NEEDED, but you definitely should NOT go oveRboaRd!! You have to be dedicated; dieting IS NOT easy; ceRtainly no piece of cake. ;D But what Really gets some people determined is the amount of weight loss noticeable within fiRst WEEK!!!!! This is known as "wateR weight", and it's usually good foR 5-15 pounds gone in DAYS! Also, jogging does WONDERS foR you, so some of that would be good!!! Also, if you wanna slim down too, tRy doing leg lifts. To do these, stand up stRaight, and slowly move youR leg -ONLY YOUR LEG- backwaRds. Like, say you'Re going to kick something, but kick BARKWARDS, and DON'T BEND YOUR KNEES!! It's designed to tone youR thighs and ass! Also, pRoviding you cut out white bRead and soda... [if you'Re used to consuming A LOT of it] you can see a diffeRence the fiRst two weeks. My fRiend did it.. and we weRe both shocked to all hell! But of couRse weight loss takes time.... you just have to stay committed, and have the dRive to keep it up. TRy to keep youRself busy... and sleep as often as possible... these things keep youR mind busy and off food. I can't Really say how long it will take; I suppose that diffeRs fRom peRson to peRson. It Really just depends on how much weight you'Re looking to shed. I'd say you could lose 10 to 20 pounds in a month; that's veRy possible. Goodluck to you!! I wish you the best!! Hopefully I've been of some sort of help heRe!! =D
♥[?]♥ i have underarm flab and some fat on my back...i mean im a pretty fit girl like my legs are skinny and my stomach is fine but my back and underarms are having a lil trouble...so what is a good excersise to get this crap off my back and underarms... HELP SUMMER IS COMING!!!!!! ill rate u high!!!
**TO TONE YOUR ARMS: take two dum bells [whiceveR weight woRks foR you.. even if 3 pounds]. Put one in each aRm, and stand up stRaight with youR feet shouldeR-width apaRt. BRing the dum bells up to youR chest with youR elbows folded out [like TaRzan pounding his chest-soRt of motion, ya know?] Then at a MEDIUM speed... extend youR aRms out to the side, and slowlyt bRing them back in. You can do two at a time to help balance the stRength build up and toning, oR do one at a time if it's easieR. THIS DOES CUH-RRRRAZZIIEEEEEEE AMOUNTS OF MIRCALE!!!!!!!!!! If you do it foR at least 20 minutes a day you'll see a diffeRence in a week TOPS. I do them all the time; it's fun!!
Also, jogging and go bike Riding is just a FANTASTIC way to stay in shape.
Goodluck to you!!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ how do u know if someone added you to there favorite columist list??
Simply click "FAVORITE COLUMNISTS" on the LEFT sidebaR undeR "WELCOME, MACKENZIE!", oR whateveR youR useRname happens to be! :D
