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so lonely
i want a boyfriend i want someone to hold me and kiss me. take care of me. talk to me and all of that.
but it seems that they dont exist or im invisible. all of my mates are loved up so i guess im not pretty enough or invisible or both.
thats a depressing thought
just so lonely
Let me ask you this. Would you be attracted to a lonely, depressed guy? Probably not. Quit moping around and being lonely. Start loving life, and showing it! It's not just about what you want, it's about what he wants too. Guys want someone to care about them, hold them, and talk to them too. No guy is going to be attracted to you the way you are acting now. If anything a guy will go out with you out of pity. And that's no way to start a relationship. So, my advice to you is to loosen up and be confident. The less you let this get to you, the more guys will be interested in you!! Good luck. :)
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well to start off my name is samantha b and my x-boo dana is dating 1 of my friends and i'm ok with that kinda, but they have been going out for the past four months and he wants to cheat on her with me but i don't know what i'm going to do, we have already made out once, and we have walked together like to class and every thing, but our hint word for cheating or us wanting to see each other agin is "do u want to play the game" and its like that on and off. but the hole reason why hes doing this is b/c shes always saying "i'm going to brake up with u and date some one else" i resently tolled him that (the guy that i'm trying to get with)him and amanda were talking about going out and having sex with each other and he didn't like that to much,and thats one of the other reasons why he wants to do this, but what should i do, do it and say fuck you to my friend or tell my friend that me and him are doing this behind her back? and i really love him and want to be with him and she doesn't give a flying fish about him, so what should i do please help me out i really need to know what i should do?
help me please
samantha b.
Don't let your feelings count more than his. What I mean by this is, if he cared about you as much as you care about him, he wouldn't still be with your friend! Making out with him is only making you more attached. Until he is ready to commit to you, and only you, he is NOT worth the heartache no matter how much you like him or how perfect he seems. A perfect guy is someone that likes you back. No matter what he says or how he acts, he can't like you that much if he's still with another girl. I know it's hard, but give him an ultimatum (choose your friend or you) and if he doesn't break up with your friend within the week, it's over between the two of you. Don't let yourself get strung along. He's totally using you. Have more respect for yourself than that! Good luck.
okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age??
First, I want to congratulate you on the choice that you've made. It's not an easy one and things will get harder and harder for you. I can tell you have the willpower though, and you're going to stick this one out. I'm waiting until marriage too, and I think it's the best decision I've ever made. It's definitely worth it. I know my current relationship is so much better for it. Good for you!
A little about my situation. I'm happily engaged. It was HIM that was actually the one that wanted to wait until marriage, so there are guys out there that feel the same as you. I always thought that waiting would be kinda nice, but never really, seriously committed myself to it. I actually told myself that I would start having sex when I got engaged.
I would suggest that you look for Christian boys. Even if you aren't that religious yourself, if you want to get in on the dating scene and don't want to have to worry about guys pressuring you for sex, this is where you will probably find a guy that feels the same way as you. I'm not saying that all Christian boys feel this way or that no non-Christians do. Christians value waiting until marriage, so this is a good place to look to find like-minded people. So, start going to church if you don't already or figure out which guys are actively religious at your school. Remember that being actively religious doesn't mean they wear Jesus shirts every day and pray before eating their lunch. It just means that they go to church regularly.
Don't worry too much about this. If you can't find a guy now, it's okay. You'll find someone. At this age, it is hard to find people that don't want to have sex. Be optimistic though, lots of people want to wait. They're just hard to find because like you, they are being cautions about dating.
Don't go around set on finding a guy that doesn't want sex. Even guys that you "know" aren't virgins may have changed their minds about sex. Just go out and find guys. How awkward is it to ask someone if they want to have sex with you before you even date them? A lot of the time you may get a certain vibe from someone, but you could be completely wrong. My fiancee tells really inappropriate jokes all the time and everyone except our really close friends are convinced we're not virgins. Even our families think we're doin' it!
Anyway, my point is that sometimes you have to take a small risk and just get into a relationship. Many couples start their relationships by making out or other such acts. If you don't do this, many guys that are looking for sex will look elsewhere. Put yourself out there and be spontaneous about dating guys instead of so calculated. It's better to try out a relationship than to miss an opportunity altogether. Good luck. :)
hi well this is about me & my boyfriend.. we both have trust issues..but weve been dating 7 months so we trust each other with everything..but im very paranoid bout him going thru my phone..bc, well my parents split up & now my mom & i are dirt poor, & i cant afford my phone. so, im REALLLY not proud of this, but i send this guy..pictures..& he pays my bills. so he text me last night saying "hey sunshine" & my bf saw it..& he kept asking who that text was from & i was drunk so i said idk then i deleted it. & then he saw i deleted it..& now he says he doesnt trust me anymore bc of me not telling him (he doesnt know about the pics..) & i feel so hurt bc he doesnt trust me anymore (but i would feel the same if the roles were reversed) but i dont have any money and i dont consider it cheating bc idk this person, theyre on another coast, & i have NO feelings for him. but it kills me inside whenever i do it & i want to regain my bfs trust but i just dont know what to do..about any of it..please help??
I want you to do something for me. Take a look at this website and try using your phone number in some of the searches it mentions. http://ezinearticles.com/?Reverse-Phone-Numbers:-How-To-Find-Free-Reverse-Phone-Numbers&id=472938. If you can find your own address, or one of the sites says it knows your address and requires you to pay to reveal it, this man can EASILY find you. If not, check out what the article says about private detectives. How easy is that? Phones can be tracked. They put out a signal and use towers to make their calls. If you watch crime shows, you would know that when someone makes a call with a cell phone, the call can be tracked almost to an exact location. Anyone can find out anything if they have enough resources and enough desire. Information is everywhere. If you'd done your own research you would know you are not safe just like the rest of us know it. If this man wants to find you he WILL. It's clear that everyone on this website is concerned with your safety. You came here looking for advice and when you are given it, you choose not to believe it. Get a grip and listen up to what so many people are saying. How can you disagree with us all? You need to start listening to some sense. How can you trust your own judgment after what you've already done? YOU ARE NOT SAFE and you need to do something to change that immediately. Bad things happen to people and you've put yourself in a really precarious situation.
You are really naive if you think he can't find you. Phones can be tracked.
You know what, unlike what another columnist suggested you do not need a cell phone. End of story. You can't tell me that you are that materialistic and so reliant on a luxury piece of technology. What would life be like if you didn't have a phone? Honestly, it would be fine. Now, yes, it's a great idea to find a way to make money to pay for your phone. That shows that you're responsible and hard working. However, are you serious? Is this really the only possible way you could think of to make money? Get a job! Mow people's lawns for crying out loud. I hope you realize how dangerous it is for you to be sending these pictures to this man. You must have given him some kind of information about yourself in order for him to get the money to you. BAD MOVE. If he doesn't already know, he could easily figure out where you live. You are in this too deep now to just quit what you are doing. You need to confide in an adult. If not your mom, a counselor at your school. You need to make sure that you are going to be safe if you all of a sudden just tell this guy that he's not going to get any more pictures. Which you need to do. I'm not even advising you on this one, I'm telling you. I'm being completely honest here, I don't think that you are safe. If he has your phone number he can find you. That is why it is especially important to let an adult know and let them help you with this. Now, about the boyfriend, if you stay with him you will have to tell him eventually. I agree with you in that I don't consider it cheating. It's still pretty bad though and something he should know about just the same if you end up marrying him and stuff. That's pretty far down the road and lets be honest here, anything could happen between now and then so don't bring this up just yet. He may not be mature enough to understand yet. If you're still together in your early to middle twenties, that would be the time to let him know. The text, why not just tell him it was a wrong number? That's pretty understandable. It happens all the time to me, that's for sure. Overall, you have some crucial decisions to make here. You can either continue living a life of prostitution and lies, or you can get off your butt, go out and earn your money how everybody else earns it. If you don't pick the second choice, sorry, but you are going to be poor for the rest of your life and you're going to look back to this moment and wish you had made the right decision. Please get help. You may think that nothing bad could happen to you, but you are wrong. Don't put it off either. End this today.
okay well i went out with this boy a few weeks ago. We broke up because he wanted to make out after one day and i said sure tommorrow when we hangout he said okay then he couldnt hang and we broke up the next day to make out with another girl. They madeout like 20 times and i didnt like him until today when i saw him. I have also seen him like a million times before and liked other boys. Now i like like him again and i want to makeout with him or go out with him. But i dont know if he likes me and i dont have the guts to ask him. so please give me tips.
and i dont care if i sound whorish.
and sorry its realy long.
He does not like you. Period. Don't bother with him. If he couldn't wait for TWO DAYS without getting with another girl, he couldn't care less about you. Do not try to get into a relationship with him. It will not work. Don't be his makeout buddy. It will cause more pain that it's worth. I know you can't just forget him, but you really do need to let this one go. There will be other guys. Guys that actually like you.
if my nipples are hard and tender for absolutely no reason, could I be pregnant?
Anyone "could" be pregnant, well, except for guys. This can be a sign of pregnancy, but it doesn't mean that you are pregnant, nor does it mean that you are not. By itself it doesn't mean a thing. Most likely, you're probably just about to get your period.
There are a cOuple of answers i wanna ask , but please [ guys reply Only].
- What makes a guy " want " a girl , like say your in a relationship but what would make you just " lust " or want a girl bad.
- How come guys dont care as much as girls do
- & why do yall not like to express yalls feelings like we do?
Please answer those 3 questions , thanks :)
1. I would say that when a girl just acts like herself, what the guy actually fell in love with, that's what makes him want her. Wearing clothes that show off your body will help, but don't overdo it. Wear stuff that you look good in and tease a little, but don't leave nothing to the imagination. Go for cute, not slutty.
2. Guys do care as much as girls do. Half the time, they care more. Just because you may have had some bad experiences with guys or have observed this in other relationships, doesn't mean that you can know what someone else feels. You can't. Not everyone expresses themselves in the same way, which leads in to your next question.
3. Not everyone expresses themselves in the same way. I don't know about you, but I've certainly seen guys express their feelings. I see guys shout, cheer, dance, swear, hug, high five, and carry on a whole lot more than girls. I would say that girls hold in their feelings more than guys. A lot of girls put up appearances and hold everything all in until they burst out crying because they are just filled with too much emotion. Now when it comes to getting emotional, crying, showing vulnerability, well, lots of guys do this. You are right about this one though, a lot of them don't. Unlike what another columnist suggest, it's NOT genetic and it's not because of any differences between the genders. It's because of how we are raised. Boys are raised not to cry or show sensitivity, while for girls, it's okay to do that. Guys let their emotions out all the time so that it doesn't come to tears, but let me tell you, there's not a guy on the planet that hasn't cried before about something, even if nobody saw. It's all because of society, not because of how people are. What you need to do is let your guy know that it's okay to be sensitive around you. That's not enough though, you need to make him feel comfortable in doing so. This has a lot to do with patience and empathy. Don't push him and when he does open up to you, which he will, if you don't respond in the right way, he won't want to do it again. It takes work from you as much as from him if you are with a guy that doesn't show vulnerability. I'm guessing you're a young teenager. When emotionless guys get older, they tend to stop putting on a show and will be more sensitive around you. In a few years, you probably won't have such negative opinions about guys.
As you get older, you will realize that problems with communication aren't just the other person's fault. They're just as much yours as they are his! You need to understand a guy as a person instead of just a guy.
The condom broke today...i dont know exactly if he got stuff in me but whens the earliest possible signs of being pregnant? I need help
Please.
Family lifes not real good right now.
Yes, definitely get a day after pill as get it as soon as possible. It certainly shouldn't cost you $75 though! I'm pretty sure it'll only be about $20-30. The sooner you get it, the higher the effectiveness, so no matter how convenient it is to wait, don't! The earliest signs don't happen for about a month, but a home pregnancy test will work after about 2 weeks. There's certainly variation in that though. I wish you the best of luck and again, get a pill as soon as possible. If they aren't sold over the counter where you live, go to a hospital or other type of health center. You should be able to get one there.
whenever im with a guy, i always shave right before i go and hang out with them because you never know if your going to get touchy feely with eachother.
the thing is, i dont know if its my razors or what, but i never ever get a good shave.
people have said to shave the way your hair grows, not agaisnt, and ive tried every way possible to shave. but its still always prickly.
can someone please tell me how to get a smooth clean shave. ive been shaving for as long as i can remember, and ive never been satisfied with how it turns out, and i get self conscious when my guy feels down there.
thank you~
Try using hair conditioner instead of shaving cream. Seriously! Sometimes it works much better. Make sure that you are using a sharp razor and try pushing down a little harder too. Good luck. :)
okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.
I'm surprised people are being so mean to you. You're not a terrible person so don't take what they're saying to heart. Yes, what you did was wrong. You need to admit that. What was he supposed to think or do after getting those calls? You know that you didn't kiss those guys, but he doesn't. Since you already kissed a girl, he had every reason to believe that you were kissing other people too. What you did probably tore him apart inside because he trusted you. How would you feel if it had been the other way around? If you had gotten calls from 3 girls saying that he had been kissing them? It would hurt so bad. Just because you have been hurt in the past doesn't mean that you can now hurt other people. Unless you have Autism or something, there is absolutely no excuse for what you did. What you need to do now, is try to patch things up with this guy. Let him know what you did and make sure he realizes that it was because of some issues that you are having, not because of him. If he doesn't accept your explanation or apology, which he may not, that's okay. After what you did, I would be surprised if he did. Even so, it's still important to let him know what happened. You owe him that. Next, you need to take some time off from relationships to think about yourself. You can't have meaningful relationships with others if you are having personal issues. It's really hard to think about your boyfriend's feelings when yours are so messed up isn't it? It seems to me that you have two main problems. One, is that you have major commitment issues. I believe this is why you did what you did to him. Since you have been hurt in the past, you can't fully commit yourself to someone because of your fear of being hurt again. Even though this guy was probably really great, you couldn't muster up enough trust and felt that the relationship had to end before he hurt you. If that meant that you had to hurt him, you probably believed that was okay because at least you didn't end up hurt. Well, it wasn't okay. You could have ended the relationship in a much nicer way. If you ever find yourself having commitment issues again, don't panic like you did this time. Try talking it over with your boyfriend and if things still aren't working out for you, tell him the relationship is over, don't hurt him so that he ends it instead. There's no reason to turn it into something that it's not. He wasn't a bad guy that hurt you and dumped you. He wasn't like the others, only you made him so through your actions. It's so cruel to do that to someone and let me tell you, what happened is your fault. He wasn't the bad one in the relationship this time, you were. That's why taking some time off would do you some good. It would allow you to straighten out your feelings and get your logic back on track. Secondly, you need to deal with your cutting and suicide attempts. That's a big deal. You need to get help for that. The good thing is that you can get help for both of your problems at the same time because they are very related. Once you can feel good about yourself and take control of your life, you will begin to have better relationships. Right now, you are letting the actions of others dictate how you feel about yourself. That's not control and if you keep living that way, you will have a hard time finding happiness. My advice to you is to again, take a break from relationships for awhile, and to seek help from a professional. There are people out there that can really help you! Start with a counselor at your school. It can be completely confidential if you want it to be, just let the counselor know. As long as you take the right steps and get help, things will get better and your life will turn around and become really awesome. If you're afraid to talk to a counselor yet, there are lots of hotlines you can call. It's a good place to start if you want to take it a little slower. Here's a link to a huge list of them so you can pick which one would fit you best. A lot of them won't apply at all.
http://www.coolnurse.com/hotline.htm
I wish you the best of luck and remember, you're not a terrible person, just a person that has had some terrible experiences you haven't gotten over yet. :)
i'm having my sweet 16 next month and i still don't have a dress i'm looking for something really cute but not that expencive...like under 150...i'm tall and thin i guess and can't do strapless. I'm really girly and would like something shortish and flattering to my body...can anyone recomend any websites?
DEB. They don't have that great of a website, but if you go to an actual store they have really, really cute dresses. Hopefully there is one in your area! There is a store locater at the top of the site.
http://www.debshops.com/home/default.asp
If there isn't one in your area, try going to a local bridal shop. You'd be surprised at what you may find there. Good luck! :)
I'm 14 and I don't know why but for 3 days now it hurts to walk. Like above my butt (where the jeans would touch) at at the right, there's nothing there. but when i walk it hurts as if someone has a voodoo doll and just keeps poking me there when I walk.
Does anyone know what it could be and how I can fix it?
I'm not saying you should freak out or anything, but whenever you have unexplained pain on your lower right side, it could be your appendix! If it is your appendix and you don't get it taken care of, you could die from it! Before you get really nervous, even if it is your appendix, it's not a problem yet and I'm sure you have enough sense to go to a doctor if the pain gets extremely bad. My suggestion to you is to call your doctor and explain what's going on. There's no need to rush in if everything can be resolved over the phone. I wish you the best of luck! :)
http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/appendicitis-topic-overview
My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.
It's not about losing your virginity and if he's the right guy or not. It's about whether you really need to do it, which you don't. At this point in your life it's not worth the risks. You and your boyfriend can still make each other feel good sexually without going all the way. Intercourse is unnecessary! You can and should bond on a sexual level, just not through intercourse. Sex isn't something to be impulsive about as a teenager. Even though you feel very close to your boyfriend, who knows what will happen within the next year. Teenage relationships tend to feel really good, but be very unstable and not last for very long. Teenagers have a hard time with sex, love, and relationships because they haven't fully matured emotionally yet. I'm not saying you're immature or anything, you're actually being quite mature about this. Even so, it's a fact that people continue to mature emotionally throughout their teenage years. It's easy to mix up your feelings, but lust and love are two entirely different things. Don't have sex just because you're in love or you're ready, those aren't good reasons. Wait until you're older so that you can fully appreciate and understand the experience! I'm 21/f. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and have still not had sex. There really is no point for us to risk pregnancy when there are other sexual things we can do for each other. Sex at a young age is more trouble than it's worth. I'm not saying you need to wait until you get married like I am doing, but at least wait until you're out of high school. You will be glad that you did. I recommend that you check out this website to help with your decision.
http://www.coolnurse.com/sex.htm
Good luck!
Why is it that TV shows and movies make the smart kids look ugly and the pretty kids be stupid? That's so not the way it is. In my school, the prettiest people are athletic, smart and beautiful. At least two-thirds of our Honors classes are beautiful. Is it like that everywhere else? I mean, I know smart kids that are ugly, but I also know athletic kids who are ugly too. If that's the way it is, then why do people assume smart people are ugly/nerdy? Or why beautiful people aren't smart enough to do anything? Where did everyone get this stereotype?
I totally agree with you, I'm just going to tell you the reason why it is this way. I do not in any way believe what I am about to say. :)
Beautiful people can use their looks to get what they want. They can get by just by being beautiful. They can get great, high paying jobs that don't require you to know much like modeling or acting. Since they are beautiful, they don't have to learn anything or be smart. Everybody wants to be like them and they have a very active social life, which takes away from studying. Their social lives become much more important than their academics. Ugly people though, have to work really hard to get by in life. They need to make up for what's lacking in the looks department with brains to win out a job over someone that is attractive. They don't have much of a social life since nobody wants to hang out with them because they're ugly so they stay home and read, study, and learn. They don't have to deal with drama or relationships that social lives bring so they have less going on in their minds making more space to learn stuff like math.
ALL of what I just said is untrue. Why? Because it doesn't apply to everyone. Sure it may be true for some people, but definitely not all. It does kind of make sense though if you think about it. All stereotypes do. Remember, though, that just because something makes sense, of course, doesn't mean it's right. The media is very far from real life and the truth. Most characters on TV, etc. are beautiful and attractive. Following the stories of people that have interesting social lives is more of a pull to the audience than people that are smart. Strange social problems and dumb people makes for good, funny TV. Anybody that is smart that appears in a TV show won't make that great of a character. They add contrast to the dumb people, which is good, but they're rarely main characters. They're just not that interesting or funny. They make those people ugly to accent the fact that they're different from the other characters. They're weird and not really supposed to be liked by the audience. In other cases, smart people that are supposed to be funny, likable characters are made ugly just to make them funnier.
I've been trying to get healthier. I'm cutting out junk food and caffeine [except for coffee]. I just lack the motivation to do things. I'm finding it difficult to force myself to exercise, but it also goes into other parts of my life. I just lack the energy and motivation to do anything. It's effecting my schoolwork, relationships with friends and I'm tired 24/7 it seems like. Is there any way to change this?
Eating healthier is different from eating less. Eating healthier should increase your energy and improve your life. If you eat less though, you will have less energy because you're not eating enough food to keep your energy up. So, my guess is that yes, you may be eating healthier, but you are also eating less, which isn't good. Eat healthy, but make sure you are eating enough, eating balanced, and getting the right nutrients. It might be beneficial for you to see a dietitian about this so that you can be sure you're getting everything you need in your diet. Good luck. :)
Do you guys think its weird for 16 year olds to go trick-or-treating? I dont do it to steal candy from little kids, I do it because I am a kid at heart lol and its fun! PLUS ITS FREE CANDY! But some people give me weird looks when I knock on their door and say "Trick-Or-Treat!" I guess its because I look like I'm about 20. Several houses last year gave me just one piece. But I dunno if they did that to everyone or JUST me. So my question is this: Do you think there should be an age limit to trick-or-treating? Why or Why not?
Eh, by that age you really should leave it to the kiddies. That doesn't mean that you can't go to family member's houses or see friends. By age 16, you usually start going to Halloween parties instead of trick-or-treating. My last year was when I was 15 or 16, but that's because I was forced to go with my little sister who is 3 years younger than me. It got kind of awkward though and I wish I had stopped sooner. I now have memories of trick-or-treating being weird and people giving me dirty looks instead of just pure bliss. The only way you should be going trick-or-treating now is if you have a younger sibling, you go with a little kid, or you go with an exchange student that wants the experience. Yeah, it's fun, but you really need to move on. Good luck and I'm sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.
Im in a nursing class at my highschool. I know Im very luckly to be able to be taking this class in high school for free. Its 300$ to take a class like this outside of school. I got into this class to learn about physical therpy, but today in class, something else that my teacher mention, caught my attention. A nurse that takes care of people that have like bipolar, many personalitys, and so on. What is this nurse called? OR what is that field called. I think that would be a very good job, Im soo intersted in what makes people do surrent things, such as being bipolar, or why people hears voices and so on. Im not smart enough to become a doctor for this, but I think being a nurse in this field would be like Whoa, to do.
So again, what is this field called, and is there anyone on here that is this kind of nurse that could tell me about their job and if they like it. Thank you!* =D
First, never say that you're not smart enough to become a doctor. Even if it's too hard to begin with, if you are a nurse for awhile you will learn a lot through your experience and will be able to become a doctor someday. Aim for what you really want and if you miss the mark, it's okay. The great thing about America and most other countries today is that you can continue to move up in your life if you're dedicated to it and passionate about it. Just don't give up before you even begin! That's silly. Next, what you are describing sounds like the field of psychology. If you are really interested and want to know more, who better to ask than your teacher? Your teacher will have all the information that you could want and more. Plus, you'd be sure that it is correct information. It's hard to trust anything that you find on the internet these days. Good luck! :)
When a guy tells you "I love you so much, it hurts."
what does that meann!?!
You know how when you are really happy and laughing a lot that sometimes your face starts to hurt from smiling so much? It's a big irony that being so happy can actually cause you pain. In this particular case, the guy loves you so much that he can't think of good enough words to describe it. It's not something he came up with on its own, it's a common saying, but it's very meaningful. His feelings relate to the example above because after spending time with you and then not being able to see you for awhile, he starts to hurt. So, the way he feels about you doesn't hurt, not being with you and missing you is what hurts. It's definitely a good thing for someone to say to you. :)
I am a senior in high school and I'm trying to prepare for college. I already know that I want to attend ASU if I get accepted (I have back up schools ready though). I want to go for education (high school math). I'm looking for websites with scholarships I can apply for or any financial aid information. ASU costs a little less than $10,000 per year and I am paying for college myself - no parental help.
I'm already a member of college board, fastweb, and cfnc.org. I live in NC if that helps. My gpa is a 3.3 and will more than likely go up by the end of senior year. I'm an honors student (english, math, history) and I'm in Multi-Culture club and Interact club. I was in FCCLA for about a year and a half. The only club I'm an officer in is Multi-Culture (public relations officer). I'm 17, Caucasion, Italian and French.
I'm not really sure if all of that matters though. I've googled a lot of websites and my school councilor gave me some. I was just wondering, from experience, if any of you have any really good websites for scholarship, grants, financial aid, etc. I was going to apply for teaching fellows but the deadline passed so it's too late for that (redundancy, I know). I have applied for about 10 simple scholarships on fastweb but that's about it (I don't think I got any of them, I would have heard by now). I'm good at writing so anything with an essay won't phase me. I'm not trying to talk myself up because, despite my difficult classes, I'm not really that smart. Also, if I don't get scholarships than I would like some information on student loans and such. My parents can be really frustrating and I really ike being independent and hate having them help me. So now they're being really in-my-face and refusing to cosign any loans so I don't know what I'll do without scholarships. I have about $3,500 in the bank right now and if I'm lucky I may have up to $5,000 by the time school would start next year So that will cover about half of tuition. I know that once I get there I can get some sort of student job to help myself out but until then I really don't know how I can get the other $5,000. My grandparents say that whatever I earn in scholarship money they will give me half (so if I earned $1,000 they would give me $500 making me half $1500 total... )
I know this was a lot to read and probably confusing so I do appreciate any help given to me! Thanks!
I would recommend contacting the financial aid office at ASU. Helping you pay for college and letting you know of all the financial aid opportunities that you have is their job! They will be able to give you information on scholarships that you are eligible to apply for, let you know all about work study, and give you recommendations on student loans. I think that setting up a meeting and actually going in and talking to someone will help you the most, though phone and e-mail are always options too. Talk to your guidance counselor at your high school as well. There may be local scholarships that you can apply for. Good luck! :)
i wasnt sure if this should go under health or sex.. os anyways
is i was pregnant and only in the first month stage of being pregnant could it kill my baby to do a forward roll?
im on a competition cheerleading squad and in our routine i have to do a forward roll.
could that hurt the baby?
thanx in advance.
First, this isn't what you want to hear. If you were looking for a nice, happy answer, you might as well not read any more.
You're pregnant. Cheerleading should be the last thing you are worrying about. You probably shouldn't even be on the team. You should be working to earn money to make a good life for your baby. If you're too young for a real job, there's still plenty of things you can do to earn money, like babysitting. I'm not trying to be harsh or mean, but come on. If you're going to be a parent you need to grow up, and fast. Parents don't cheerlead. I mean, what are you going to do when your baby is born? Not spend time with him/her because you have cheerleading? What money are you going to use to pay for a babysitter with? Start thinking about how your life is going to change and prepare for it. If you don't want your life to change, put your baby up for adoption.
And yes, a forward roll puts your baby at risk. From now on, ask your doctor these questions. Don't you want professional advice? I am not a professional. I may be wrong about whether your baby could be hurt or not. Asking a doctor is the only way to be as safe as possible. Please start thinking like an adult for the sake of your baby. No mature adult would come on Advicenators and ask such a question.
I'm assuming that you're in middle/high school. If this isn't the case, well, you should have included your age! Let me know your age (if you're older than 18) and I'll revise my advice. I had to make a lot more assumptions too as you may have noticed. If I was wrong in any of them, remember that it's not my fault. I don't know everything about you. All I know is what you included in your question, which wasn't very much. Please don't rate me low just because I made an inaccurate guess. Let me know the guess was inaccurate, tell me the accurate information (add information to your question) and I will revise my answer! If all my assumptions were correct, or nearly correct, and you were otherwise offended/etc., I'm sorry, but I felt that you really needed to hear that. Feedback is for rating the quality of advice given, not for attacking back at people that hurt you because they're right. Please do the right thing here. You're not the only person you have to think about anymore.