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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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so theres this girl, we both like eachother and all and theres this dance coming up at our school and were both 15 and shes really like cute things so i was just wondering like alot of cute different ways i could ask her cuz she would really like it thanx

Maybe like broadcast it onto the school announcements or put it into her lunch or write her a letter telling her how you feel. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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16/m

i need a way to get back at my friend. The dam SOB is stealing everygirl that i manege to hook up with, this is drivin me mad!!!. its like he doing it on purpose. I meet a girl, i go out with her, then outa nowhere she meets him and she wont talk to me and the next day i see em 2 hangin out or what ever. I WONA FRIKIN KILL THE DUDE!!!! and i would if only i didnt know him for like 5 years.

any help/advince?

Go talk to him and let him know that you don't appreciate him taking EVERYTHING away from you. If he's a friend, he'll understand. He just needs someone to talk some sense into him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Is there anyway i can find out if my ex still likes me? because I still like him a ton. & hes been IMing me a lot lately & saying like some of our old insiders. Is there anything i should do? & i Dont know if he has a girlfriend because in his profile it said i LOVE U SO & SO. & Now he took it out. So im not sure if they broke up or whatever.

Just let him know that you still have feelings for him and ask him if he feels the same way,. If not, don't cry, you'll get over it. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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im 14,and i have been dating this guy that i think im in love with he wants
to have sex, 9he isent making me) , i want to but i got raped when i was 12
and im scared..what should i do?.

OK first of all, you're too young to have sex right now. A plan to be abstinant is the BEST way. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok.. i have 3 friends. 2 of my friends hate my other friend because they claim she is lying about them smoking weed when they told me they didnt. The one that claims they are smoking weed is like my best friend. And i got into a huge fight with her because I told her i didnt believe her and I believed the other 2 guys. But shes my best friend and now shes really pissed at me.. i tried talking to her and telling her i wasnt going to believe anyone because i dont care anymore. I just want to settle this. plus the other 2 guys arent helping. They keep IMing her on AIM and calling up her bf. I told them to stop but guys like never listen and they didnt.. what do i do?

Well believe your best friend. We are only human after all, we do make mistakes. The important thing is for those girls to never do it again because it could get them into serious trouble. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok... for neone who has a clue out there-

if a guy plays with your hair, WHAT does it mean?

It means he may like you or just like playing with your hair. You may try flirting with him a little and see what he does. Maybe it'll keep the build going. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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does any body want to be my diet buddy? if you are on a diet then we can do it together and stuff. so we IM eachother when were bored, etc. also, we can give eachother tips and stuff. itll be fun and helpful. dont think im a weirdo, my friends just dont think i need to b on a diet, but i just dont want to GET heavy. so yea. lol. k later babes

Drop your AIM in my inbox and I can help you!!

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There's this kid , and he's in my junior high class. He hangs out with all the biaches in my class, and his "girlfriend", but all they really do is make-out at parties and stuff. But anyways, in other words, he hangs out with the popular crowd. He never talks to me, and now he's acting wierd. Opening doors for me, just stuff like that. i'm getting really suspicious. Can anyone tell me what he might be up to?

Maybe he's getting around to liking you. You never know. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey, major question i have. Ok, i went to a softball game and i was sitting on the bleachers...and on the other side of the field i saw 2 people...the one of them looked like a guy from were i was sitting and the other one...was a girl, and i thought they were friends or somthing...so, then i started thinking, wow that guy is pretty cute...so then, i realized i looked at him a bit longer...and realized it was a girl...a very tomboyish girl,so...does that mean i'm like...lesbian or just made a common mistake?
~Brina

You just made a common mistake. It happens. Hope I helped!

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I am in a tough thing right now I am going to have to pick where i wanna go to school next year and for kindergarden i went to a public school then i switched to a catholic school and was there for ALOT of years. Now next year for high school i have to decide where i want to go. Do I want to go back to public or go to another catholic school?? everyone from my catholic school wants me to stay at a catholic school and ppl and public skools want me to go back to public. What should I do???

Well its your decision on where you want to go. I would go for a catholic school because you were there a lot and you know how it is. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Is it wrong for me to be a little jealous/upset that my boyfriend just left my house to go out hang out with his "Best Friend" [which I've never heard of] who happens to be a girl?

No its perfectly natural to be jealous. Of course, let the boy have his space. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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what are some good scary movies?

The Ring, The Ring 2, Signs, White Noise,The Grudge or The Village are good scary movies. Hope I helped!

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ok i'm going to give you a little backround on my life. i met ben in 5th grade and i liked him a lot. then over the summer i didn't really like him. in 6th grade like halfway through the year i decided that i really like him again. i told his friends that and they told him. he asked me out a little while later. at first it was great. he was funny, and kind of sweet, in a really prude kind of way. then i noticed how weird he is. i mean he isn't gothic, he's just kind of punk, but he likes wearing black. and he makes some really creepy comments sometimes which make me wonder why i liked him so much. towards the end of our relationship we went to a play at my school together and he held my hand, but that's as far as we ever went. then i broke up with him towards the end of the year and his friends are telling me that he kissed a girl he met at a theme park the same day that he met her! i mean i was going out with him for like 3 months and...i dunno i feel kind of weird about that. and now i really like him again, he talks to me online and hes really funny!

Well just stay friends with this boy and you'll never know what will happen. It sounds like you both are too immature to be in a relationship with each other just yet. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I'm in NJHS.
Every year we vote for who is president, vice pres, officer at large, secretary, and treasurer.
I am running for secretary. we were making signs and all happy when my BEST friend said she is running for secretary also. i dont want us to get mad at e/o if one of us wins and one doesnt.
but there might even be a chance neither of us wins. what do i do if one of us doesnt win....
i'm really worried and i rate high

if one of you doesn't win, you can still support each other. Don't risk a friendship for something as unimportant as this. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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one of my GOOD guy friends that i am extremely close w/got a girlfriend. this girl has been on and off with this other guy 15 times and she cheated on him twice. and now that my friend has a girlfriend i'm almost jealous of her. i don't think i like him, but when i see them together i kinda feel ignored or something. but he's not ignoring me... i don't know if i actually do like him b/c i know they wont last long and it'll be a 1-2 week thing, but when he was single i didn't feel this way...

Maybe your getting feelings for this guy. It happens a lot. Act upon them and if he says no, don't ruin a great friendship. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok so theres this girl i like and she doesnt want to go out with me but i really do like her a lot. but i know she likes me but she doesn't want to ruin our relation ship by going out. what should i do?

First of all, its a friend relationship. And second of all, if she likes you, why won't she go out with you???? Doesn't make sense. Wait a little bit and if it doesn't change, stay friends with her. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here...

I think she's giving you the slip. Try again and if she doesn't answer, then she's ignoring you. Hope i hleped!

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hi my name is justin and im 16. i live in the bronx, ny. and im into the oreintal stuff, so recently i bought a katana. (its a sword) its not sharp or anything, but my father hetes it. he said he thinks one day i might get angry at him and chop him to piecies. which makes sense, but my father owns a desert eagle( a gun) thet he brought back from the war( its either the vietnam of persien, im not sure..) so should he complain even though he owns a gun?

signed..
Konfused

No. Those swords aren't made to hurt people. Your dad has a gun and one shot of that could fatally injure you. Hope I helped!

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Whenever i like someone, I get really shy and i cant talk to him in person. Is the any advice that will help me not be shy and accually talk to him in person. i have no problem talking to him on the computer by the way. :-\

Me too. I love talking to people on the computer because it hides your face. Just talk about what you like of your day. You'll get over your nerves. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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okay..i was just wondering. what year was easier for some of you guys, freshman year or sophomore year. cuz like i mean. me and my friend we meet people at freshman and stuff..but we don't have lunch with them..and like its really hard kinda making friends and stuff..but..me and my friend are really outgoing and stuff..and..um..well..do things get better in sophomore year or what?! jeez please tell me!! lol i kno this is such a stupid question..but what i really wanna know is what year was easier for you guys between (freshman or sophomore) and if you guys met more people in sophomore year than freshman..IF YOU GUYS TELL ME I`LL RATE HIGH!! its such an easy question!!

Well for me sophmore year is easier because you know where your going and you have a lot of people you already know. Meeting freshman, introduce yourself and maybe ask if they want to have lunch with you. That shows character. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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