one of my GOOD guy friends that i am extremely close w/got a girlfriend. this girl has been on and off with this other guy 15 times and she cheated on him twice. and now that my friend has a girlfriend i'm almost jealous of her. i don't think i like him, but when i see them together i kinda feel ignored or something. but he's not ignoring me... i don't know if i actually do like him b/c i know they wont last long and it'll be a 1-2 week thing, but when he was single i didn't feel this way...
__STACEESxoCOLUMN__ answered Sunday August 28 2005, 11:32 pm: Hahah...looks like someone's a little jealous. ;) No big deal. These sorts of things happen. Once the guy is off the market, it makes girls like him MORE, which is what's happening to you. The #1 thing to do is to NOT let this affect your friendship. He's your bud, and in his opinion, nothing more. Which is okay, cause he has a gf, and he shouldn't want to be anything more, so you can't blame him there. BUT, maybe point out to him that this girl is cheating on him, but be SERIOUS. He may get mad, or say you're just jealous, but he'll eventually realize you're right, and come around. BUT, don't tell him to break up with her, cause that typically gets a guy mad, or offended. Hope this works out for you! ♥ [ __STACEESxoCOLUMN__'s advice column | Ask __STACEESxoCOLUMN__ A Question ]
XXkaiiOO answered Sunday August 28 2005, 9:37 pm: well.. if you ask me.. i would say that i think that you like him you might just not realize it as much when he is single.. you realize it when he likes someone else and you become jealous.. tell him how you feel.. talk to him about it.. from experince dont do anything stupid that will mess up your friendship with him tho... hope i helped... [ XXkaiiOO's advice column | Ask XXkaiiOO A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Sunday August 28 2005, 3:52 am: You probably feel this way b/c you are just used to getting all of his attention, or atleast more than you are probably getting now. Tell him how you feel, and don't be afraid to! You might not like him any more than a friend, you are just jealous that his g/f is getting more attention from him than you are. Don't worry about it too much tho, b/c you are rite..it probably will only last a few weeks. [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
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