Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 4:05 pm
ok.. i have 3 friends. 2 of my friends hate my other friend because they claim she is lying about them smoking weed when they told me they didnt. The one that claims they are smoking weed is like my best friend. And i got into a huge fight with her because I told her i didnt believe her and I believed the other 2 guys. But shes my best friend and now shes really pissed at me.. i tried talking to her and telling her i wasnt going to believe anyone because i dont care anymore. I just want to settle this. plus the other 2 guys arent helping. They keep IMing her on AIM and calling up her bf. I told them to stop but guys like never listen and they didnt.. what do i do?
Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 5:03 pm: Well, if they're treating your best friend that way, you need to stand up for her. Guys before girls! Just ignore them and act pissed and don't talk them again until they stop the immaturity! Tell her regardless of whether the weed thing was truthful, she's still your best friend, and your going to stand up for her through thick and thin. Give her a thoughtful phone call, or go over to her house where no one can intervene, like in school how people will get involved or overhear. Just tell her that you really wanna be there for her, and this is all teenage BS drama and it's bound to pass. Comfort her, and remember, don't go being the guys friends if they're going to be mean to her! Actions speak louder than words, and if you act like a good friend, you won't have to worry about the rest, she'll just know that you're a good friend. Good Luck! And know that all things like this pass sooner or later! [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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