I'm getting my nose pierced on Saturday, and I was wondering if anyone got it done, like did it hurt? & If it did how long did the pain last for?? Also. What side should I get it done on?? Left or Right?.. Whats a nice color to start out with? Your favorite color or, a noticeable one. Thanks :)
I have my nose pierced and actually it did hurt but it was okay and it wasnt that bad i had a lil bit trouble sleepin the first night but it was like bruised around it for a couple hours..i have my right side done.. and most people i know got it done on the right side.. but it will look cute on either side.. um i would get a little diamond.. that what i got the first time.. i dont think colors are too cute or noticeable because it wont match everything you wear.. hope i helped rate me please..~*DEZ*~
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ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx
Well alot of people do it.. and glad to hear your a real friend and worried bout her.. well you cant do much bout this except be there for her.. or you could tell her parents but you probably dont wanna do that..tried my best on it..~*DEZ*~
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14/f Hey well there is this one guy who i serioulsy really really really like...everyone knows I like him... even his friends most likely...well the problem is I have liked him for a really long time...and alot of ppl want me to get over him... but I dont know how... i tried looking at other guys but for some reason when i start to like another guy I suddenly stop and go back to likeing him...i have never gone out with him which really sucks cause i really want too... ok well we dont talk that much at school but we talk on the phone...ok usaully when i talk to him we talk for at least a half hour at least unless he has to go... well the other day i called him and i think he was being kinda rude...(i havent told anyone especially my best friends cause they dont really like him and if isay something that will just make me sad cause they will say good get over him and i dont wanna cry...cause that will make me cry...)ok back to where i was he said something that hecka made me sad...so i like hung up the phone and like started crying.... i wanna talk to him again but i cant tell him that he made me cry... cause i dont think he has realized how much i do really like him... also i know he doesnt like me cause i know who he does like and know that he wants to go out with her..(she has everything i want)ok so heres another thing i havent called him since then and yea its just been like 5 days and i dont know if i should even talk to him anymore on the phone cause he makes me hecka sad what should i do???
Sounds like your friends are right.. not to be rude but your not gettin anywhere with this guy.. nothing has happened with you and him except talk on the phone and you dont even talk bout hookn up.. sounds like he is a waste of your time hun.. i can understand he's a crush and ya like him alot but try to hook up wit somebody so you can try to move on..hope i helped rate me..~*DEZ*~
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I am soo horRny. I have been very sexually frustrated and idk what to do. I have not had sex but have done other things and I havent gotten any action or anything in like 6 months. Its very depressing bc I want it. I have guy friends but I am not a slut and I dont like messing with just anyone. But my guy best friend and I ARE very comfotable with eachother and we kiss and I wanna do more with me. What should I do? I want action!
Well jus take.. he's a guy.. guys are easy.. and jus show that you want it..dont get depressed over not gettin action from somebody.. jus show this guy you want it.. shouldnt be too hard..~*DEZ*~ Rate me please..
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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant?
yes its okay to have sex with your wife while she's pregnant. as long as she not dont something like lifting you or something lol.. but other then that everything should be fine.. my sister had sex while she was pregnant both times.. and the doctor said it was ok.. but if you aint sure and i didnt help much ask a doctor..~*DEZ*~ rate me
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okay theres this guy i like and he likes me.. this saturday night... we're supposed to do "something". i no what it is because we talked about it. Well... to get me out of the house.. he's gonna say that we're going out to eat then to the movies. I think we still might go to the movies. im not sure yet. But then all weekend we're hanging out. I just have to let him know what time i have to work.
Well this morning.. he asked me if i was seriously ready for it.. i told him i am. i just keeep getting nervous when we talk about it. Like yesterday... my older sister rode with us.. i knew he wanted to talk bout it becuase i saw the look on his face.. so i made her ride the bus today.. and we did talk bout it. Mostly the whole way to school. Should i go through with it? I mean we both want to but we're both scared too. Because he's 18 and im 15! and as u know he can get introuble for it. but i dont want him to get introuble. We both want to go through it.. i definately want to. I never did n e thing with a guy b4. i knew him for 9 years so its not like im gonna do it with a complete stranger....
please let me know....
Maybe... maybe not....
Well you have told us what you guys wanna go through with but i can pretty much guess its sex.. well age is jus a number kinda stupid to say but if you guys have sex keep it between ya'll so he wont get in trouble for having sex with a minor.. that would be the best thing to do.. um if you think your for sure ready to do this then do it.. and its good your not doin it wit somebody you dont know..Hope i helped a little please rate..~*DEZ*~
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I don't know why, but my stomach always hurts. It hurts at LEAST once a week. And it's not cramps, it's just like a stomach ache. But I get them all the time! I hate it, and I don't know what to do. The other day I got one in school and I had to go to my next class and I was afraid I'd get sick. I mean, I never do, but it feels like it. Does anybody know what this is, and what I can do?
Im not sure what it is.. but i know what you should do is go to the doctor.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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ok ive been asking questions about my boyfriend...like me not thinking he cared about me and stuff well yesterday i passed out and couldnt breathe and i think it scared him and i think he relized how much he loves now that it happend to me...he is constantly telling me how much he loves me and how much he needs me...
do you think that becasue of what happend hes relizing how muhc he loves and cares about me???
thanks a bunch!
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he probably realized he does.. but he probably always knew he did and now wants to tell you more often cause he got scared that he was gon lose ya or something.. but he probably is realizing how much you mean to him now.. hope i helped and answered good..rate me please ~*DEZ*~
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this friday I am goin to sleep over my friends house and she has her bf sleeping over too. I dont have a bf and their probably gonna make out and other stuff. I'll probably be WICKED bored! Should i invite someone for me or just be bored?
Well dont jus sit there being bored...INVITE somebody...~*DEZ*~
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what should I do I had this friend named Matthew and latly he has not been acting like a friend he sits around and let people talk about me like I am nothing right in front of my face he try to play stuff off but I see right thru him and he talks about wanting me to be his girlfriend. he show off in front of people like that inpresses me he acts like a jerk
plz help me Christine15 I am 15 and a female
Well he aint your friend.. you need to tell him that you dont wanna be his friend and that you dont appriciate that he lets people treat you like that.. so jus tell him how it is.. and he'd probably wouldnt be a good boyfriend if he's not a very good friend in the first place.. and tell him he's makin himself look like a fool by tryin to impress you cause your not impressed at all.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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i really really want a boyfriend. im so annoyed that every girl, ugly and pretty, has had a boyfriend. im way too shy to ask a guy out myself and i cant rely on my friends to hook me up with someone.please help!
Well you should loosen up and try it.. you'll eventually will be okay with askin a guy out.. but maybe you should jus try and make some guy friends first and see if any of em interest you more then friends then it would be easier to get wit em because you are already friends and it will be easier for you to ask or show that you want more then jus friends.. thats how i do it cause i get along with guys much better then girls
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Im a male. Theres a Girl I really like. I don't think theres a possibility that she likes me back. I don't want to do anything wrong to get her to like me. I dont even know how to act around her. Do you have any suggestions on how to get her to like me?
Just act yourself and be nice and sweet to her.. and and do things that she likes and talk to her and be there for her when she seems like she needs someone to talk too.. jus try to get to know her and get in her head so you know how to act round her..Hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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hey,
well ok i am 18 years old and i have a boyfriend that i really like but lately i cant stop thinking of my good friend and its weird cuz shez a girl but i think i might really like her but then when i think of what would happen if i did go out with her well i'd be scared because how would my family take to me liking someone of my own sex? i really need to know what i should do plz help and fast
well sounds like your bi and i am too and it took a long time for me to tell my family.. well it bothered me a long time cause i didnt tell em..but wait til its a right time and when you think its okay for your family to know.. well if you think you should go with her.. hop i helped..~*DEZ*~
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I am sexually frustrated. I havent gotten any kind of pleasure in over 6 months, when I dated my ex bf chris. Ever since he and I broke up all I have done is kiss guys, only 1 guy. I am really horRny and I need a guy. Idk why I feel this way. Is there something wrong with me? I have not has sex yet, but I love kissing and I love oral even more. I have only ever done everything but sex with one guy and that was chris. So its not like I am a slut. I just want plesure from a guy. Is there something wrong with me? I have this really good friend and he and I are best friends and we always kiss when we are with eachother and we feel eachother up and we have talked about getting closer and more physical but we havent and we both want too. How can I take the next step so that we do? I just reallly wanna have sex! Or oral or something! Even just kissing!
Well he's a guy so it won't be hard to get him to do what you want.. jus get him to where he wants it really bad and well im sure if you unzip his pants hell do what you want.. jus show him that your ready to go on with the next step and then things will most likey go your way.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Is there anything wrong with wanting to give a guy head instead of jacking him off?I honestly tink that it is fun and I have only given one guy head, but I still like it even though I am not getting any plesure out of it at all.
i guess theres nothing wrong wit it.. i guess as long as you like doin it then its okay.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
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Tell her that you dont like how she acts.. and tell her that you feel like she isnt your friend when she acts like a bitch towards you.. tell her thats childish what she does and tell her you dont wanna friend like that.. hope i helped.. and wasnt too mean ~*DEZ*~
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I'm 21 and dating a guy right now. He reminds me of an axboyfriend of mine that died. He was my first and my first love too. This new guy reminds me of my ex so much. He acts the same, has the same mannerisms, dresses the same--as in neither of them ever wore blue jeans---and I'm falling so hard for this guy. I'm afraid of losing him again. I think it's a sign that I was supposed to meet and hook up with him. We're taking things real slow..and that's because we like each other so much...what's your imput?
i think that you should keep letting things go slow and i think it means the same thing you think..keepin things slow is good so things dont go old for you guys.. so i hope my input helped.. sorry if it didnt much and hope you dont lose him...~*DEZ*~
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i've been hanging out with the druggies and gangstas at my school. my best friend which is none of those got mad at me because shes going to think im going to do drugs or change my style. i was always hanging out with the gangstas though so shes mostly worried about the druggies. she makes fun of some of my friends and i act like i dont like them but i really do. i dont want her worring about me and who i hang out with but its sorta hard. i've always been the one getting in trouble or bending the rules but shes never really seen that side of me because i act like a totally diff. person around her. what should i tell her so she can stop telling me who to hang out with? and make her stop talking about my friends???
thanx
Well if she's your best friend you should be able to tell her how she shouldnt have to worry about you..but she's only tryin to be there for you like a real friend.. so dont take it too peronal.. but i would talk to her and tell her she dosnt have to worry about you so much cause you've always been this way....~*DEZ*~
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What is the #1 thing a man can do to make himself more attractive?
What is generally the least attractive thing about a man?
Well im not really a looks kinda person.. im more of a personality kinda person.. but i guess for looks you should have a decent body like be built.. alot my friends like six packs and stuff.. and how you dress has to be attractive to and be in style.. and generally the least thing thats attractive about a guy is if they have a bad personality.. Hope i helped...~*DEZ*~
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Ok, so this chick is talking to me.. and we have been talking for a while and I told her that I loved her, so yeah, every thing was cool then she started giving off signs that she feels the same way, we start talking about Sex, and family and stuff like that, then when I finally decide we are really close, I tell her how i really feel, she said its sweet but shes just not ready for a relationship.. then yeah, shes been telling me I'm a great guy and I'm sweet and stuff, but should she really be doing this kind of stuff.. or is she just being a tease.. playing with my emotions?
BTW I'm 17 and have never had someone tell me they Love me :( and she knows this...
what should I do about this.. I really need help! :(
this girl might be a tease.. and no its not right how she is doing this to you.. she must have something more goin on wit her that you dont know about.. cause sounds like you like eachother.. and she dont really have a reason not to get wit you.. and i dont know if i helped much but i tried.. hope thngs get better try talkin to her bout the siuation also.. ~*DEZ*~
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