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Same guy?
I'm 21 and dating a guy right now. He reminds me of an axboyfriend of mine that died. He was my first and my first love too. This new guy reminds me of my ex so much. He acts the same, has the same mannerisms, dresses the same--as in neither of them ever wore blue jeans---and I'm falling so hard for this guy. I'm afraid of losing him again. I think it's a sign that I was supposed to meet and hook up with him. We're taking things real slow..and that's because we like each other so much...what's your imput?
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You need to be careful and make sure that you are falling in love with this guy and not just the memory of the one that passed away. You can't expect him to be exactly like the other guy, the more you get to know him, the more differences you're bound to find. Make sure that you keep your heart open to the prospect of truly falling in love again and don't let a memory hold you back. I'm sure that your first love would want you to move on and be happy.
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Do you like him because he reminds you of your old boyfriend or in spite of that. No matter how close the match is everybody is different and it wouldn't be fair if you just liked him because of who he reminds you of.
Make sure you are in love with the total package and not just the similarities. Your wise to take things slow.
Good Luck!
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Don't do any comparisons or tell new guy, just how much he reminds you of your late boyfriend. This is one lucky guy, because you'll treat him so well. Keep things slow, like 2 dates a week. You may learn more about him that's different, but definitely never tell him or compare him. He wants to be a special individual in your life, not the reincarnation of your lost love.
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i think you should not be afraid to take a chance with him... maybe this time it was meant to be. he may remind u of your ex for a reason?! i dont know! still take it slow, things may work out better that way. best of luck
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I'd say your dong the right thing going slow! If you liekd the other guys before then maybe this is tyhe right choice! If you lose him then it's a lesson to go for different people!
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i think that you should keep letting things go slow and i think it means the same thing you think..keepin things slow is good so things dont go old for you guys.. so i hope my input helped.. sorry if it didnt much and hope you dont lose him...~*DEZ*~
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i think that you should keep going out with him because your ex dident die cuz of you so dont be scared that you might lose him because you probertly wont.Hope i helped you.<3 alex
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It's fine what you're doing. There's always a chance of losing somebody, but it's a chance you have to take if you love him or think you do. Tell him how you feel and say you don't want to lose him. He'll understand. Keep taking things slow and don't do stuff until you're sure you're ready for it. Not many guys do that for girls. Hope I helped =c)
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