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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
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I have been crushing on my friend Eddie for two months now. I've known him since June when I asked out his friend James. At first he was supportive towards us but always more towards ME. He would tell teachers,students,etc. we go out. And the first day I went out with James I was about a foot away from him n he shouts"JAMES U BETTA WATCH OUT SHES MY GIRL NOW!" jokin tho. Then he told James's mom we go out, he FOLLOWED us to her car. And whenever we talk he is intetested in what I say. And I went by his house late at night with a friend*THEY FIGHT ALOT AND ARE NOT FRIENDS*n he was staringat us from a window so my friend goes EDDIE! n he comes outside SMILING but hes hiding from us only his face is showing n my friend starts yellin at him to come downstairs we want to ask him something and hes all no... n then we said bye n he was STILL smiling. I need advice on if he has a crush on me too. I mean should I ask him out? Or is it a bad idea? Hes not that popular but hes rich and he knows im not as wealthy as him n is nice about it because he told me he doesn't care about the stuff he has he cares more about his family n i told him aww thats so sweet n he blushed.
Ok....get up right now and call him and ask him out!!!! OMG this kid likez yu soo0oo muchhh!!! yu can tell!!
i wuld DEFINATELY ask him out girl!!
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*ash*
ahhh god i just downloaded DeadAim or whatever and i cant figure it out! I just dont know whats like suppose to happen. Sorry this is really dumb but I NEED HELP!
thanks a lot! ill rate!
[[raushelle]]
haha instant message me on AIM:
xmiszashx
and ill be GLAD to walk yu thru it ALL!!!
i have dead aim so jus IM me!!
ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16
Yes, you have to do what you know is right. dont ruin things for his pregnant girlfriend. she needs him more than anything right now, so let him worry about him and his baby and girlfriend right now. dont distract him and make him spend time with you which will take away time from the baby and his girlfriend. plz dont try and break him and his girlfriend up..thatz the saddest thing in the world bc she needz him right now and shell need him even more after she has the baby.
i kno itz hard to let him go, but just remember that you're helping someone else..and yull be helping the baby have a happier life if you let him go.
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*ash*
my bestfriends mom is kinda phyco and when i went to my friends house her mom lik yelled at me and i told ma parents and now i cant go to her house n e more....what do i do????
i think yu shuld hang out with yur friend without being at her house!! ..just have her come over yur house or hang out somewhere else(mall, moviez, pizza shop, etc.) ..dont worry about it..yuz dont have to stop being friendz just bc her momz bein mean...
also, have yur friend talk to her mom and find out why she yelled at yu and maybe yur friend shuld explain to her mom that it wuz sorta messed up to yell at yu..
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*ash*
im sooo bored and all my friends r goin 2 the creek to drink but im affraid 2 go cause last time i got in a fight wit this kid n i was drunk i couldnt defend myself n my friends just stood there n watched n i lost my $300 cell phone n my zippo! but i wanna go out so bad n this girls goin that i like and idk wut 2 do cause every1 there is from north n im from central so if i get in a fight every1 will be against me so idk wut to dooo no1 else can hang out cause donald n adam have work n every1 else is goin got gabbys party which i wasnt invited to ahh
go out to the creek but dont drink:) or if you do ...limit yur drinking!!
Hi im shandiebaby11 a columnists but i have a question of my own ! Does anyone know of any good web sites where i could check out a high school diploma program ? I was homeschooled but i want to get finished quicker ! Thanks !
http://www.worldwidelearn.com/courses/online-high-school-courses.htm
http://www.citizenschool.com/
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*ash*
hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0
ok first of all, yur at a pefect wieght!!! but here are sum sitez that can get you help on eating disorders and other sites that will help you with healthy diets and such:
http://www.something-fishy.org/
http://www.anad.org/site/anadweb/
http://www.edauk.com/
http://www.4woman.gov/BodyImage/BodyImage.cfm?page=125
www.am-i-fat.com
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*ash*
ok im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet... lately i have been really emotional like the other day i was at my friends and i called my mom to see when she was gonna pick me up and i just like broke down crying... and like my friend said how i curse alot and like idk why but i felt like i was gonna cry... is this a sign that im going ot get my period? and what are some other signs that im goin to get my period soon... thanx alot... i will rate!
There may be signs. There may not be. For some girls, the signs that their periods are going to start are: tender breasts, feeling tense, and swelling of the abdomen or other parts of the body. Sometimes there's a crampy feeling in the back, legs, or abdomen. Some girls get pimples a few days before. As you get older, you will become more familiar with signs that your period is coming. This will help you be prepared.
ps..being moody and emotional is another sign of expected period!!!
go to this site..it will help ALOT:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teens/period2.html
it will answer all the questionz yu have on periodz.
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*ash*
whats a really good way of telling when your going to get your period
There may be signs. There may not be. For some girls, the signs that their periods are going to start are: tender breasts, feeling tense, and swelling of the abdomen or other parts of the body. Sometimes there's a crampy feeling in the back, legs, or abdomen. Some girls get pimples a few days before. And, you may even get moody or upset more often(PMS)..As you get older, you will become more familiar with signs that your period is coming.
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*ash*
Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!!
dont worry..sibling rivalry always sorts itself out...by tomorrow you guyz will be good as new..this happenz all the time with me and my sisters and there isnt even apoligizing necessary bc by the next day thingz are better ..bc chances are one or both ppl forget about it or didnt even see it as that big of a deal..
if this doesnt happen, then just simply go to her and tell her that yu were in a bad mood er sumin or jus tell her yur sry if yu feel comfortable doing that.
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*ash*
I'm sorry this might sound strange but my friend is very nervous about her first time.
Any guys and girls that could reply to this would be awesome!
Do girls have to shave before they do it the first time? And if they do...how so?
Girls do NOT have to shave b4 their first time having sex, although it would be a nicer view for the fella that will be seeing it;)
And, first and foremost dont shave because a guy/guys prefer. Shave for yourself. This is what works for me when it comes to shaving....
If it is your first time shaving them trim the hair very short with scissors or a beard trimmer(if one is handy). Then get in the shower and let warm water soak the area. Take a new razor and shave with the hair growth(downward) dont shave over the same area more than twice. Then you can shave against the hair growth(upward) for a smooth feel. After that I put on nonscented lotion and then avoid putting on clothes for about 10 mintues or more. This is the way I have been doing it for years now and it workz pretty well. There is a product called Bikini Zone that I have also been using over the past few months instead of lotion and I love it.
But again dont shave just because it is something guys prefer. There are quite a few guys who do prefer that a girl not shave. It's your personal choice..whatever makes yu feel better about yurself.
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*ash*
I notice that people always write at the end of there entrys. well where do you go to see your overall ratings? not that i would have any lol i would just like to know thanks!!! yeah im a newbie at this sorry haha
go to "your advice column" under "Welcome,(your username) on the left hand screen. then click on "view feedback" and that will show you all the ratings you have had so far..and to see your overall average rating ..go to "your advice column" and it will be on the left hand side along with all yur info that yu put in such as yur email address, yur age, how long you have been a member, and so forth.
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*ash*
my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents?
Yes!!! DEFNIATELY!!!! plz tell yur parentz bc if you dont .. then the next time she babysits..she could really hurt him and scare him!! plz tell!!!
A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
thanks!
Tell them to mind their own business and stop worrying about other pplz livez and worry about their own ..
wenever they start to make fun of the girl..jus start being sarcastic and say "yeh (girlz name), my god yu have a kid..wut the hell were yu thinking?!" and then yuz 2 start laughing..
it will show the ppl that it dont bother yu and theyll eventually stop...
they jus need tah grow up a lil ..forgive em for bein soo immature and having no life that hey have to jump into yur friendz life !! ;)
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*ash*
Does anyone know of any side effects of the Birth Control Patch? The pill makes me sick, the shot made me gain 50 pounds and took away the urge, and I really want something that is low maintenance.
Side effects are uncommon in healthy nonsmokers. Birth control patches have side effects that are similar to those experienced by users of oral contraceptives, including a slight risk of blood clots in the legs or the lungs and hypertension. A woman who shouldn't use oral contraceptives probably shouldn't use a birth control patch either.
Other side effects associated with patches are relatively minor and may include:
Minor skin irritation at the application site
Headaches
Breast tenderness
Irregular vaginal bleeding
Moderate weight gain
Nausea and vomiting
Bloating
If you smoke or have high blood pressure, breast or uterine cancer, a history of blood clots, uncontrolled diabetes or a history of heart attack or stroke, don't use birth control patches.
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go here for more info:
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/PR/00075.html
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*ash*
haha what asshole?? who is hee?? i wanna know lol i pretty much told u everything..
well i dont know i really like mike n i kinda wanna see what hes like 1st n if he turns into a bigger asshole mayb i should juss move on but thanks to ur advice im gonna drop kevin n try out mike..
thanks babe ur the best advice person so farr..but i wanna know some stuff bouttt uuuu ;-)
*MisTy*
sure, the asshole i wuz referring to is my boyfriend lol ..weve been together for 2 years and hez the guy i love til the death of me and vice versa..but hez an asshole sumtimes too lol but i guess since we were together for 2 years its okay for him to be an asshole sumtimez bc sumtimez im moody too yu kno?? lol ..but that wuz the asshole i wuz talkin about ..my mannnn lol but i love him tah death .. and his namez mike too!!! haha
[sorry this is so long]
I'm a 14-year-old girl, and I have this guy who's been my best friend for over a year. Me and him have gotten SOO close lately, and I really REALLY like him. I told him that I like him, and he just kinda pretended I didn't say anything, so I just didn't know what to think. Then all my friends tell me that when they talk to him one on one, I'm all he talks about, and he always puts my feelings before his. They say that he's always very sad, and then I walk into the room, or call his cell phone, or he even just talks about me, and that really brightens his mood. I really don't know what to do, because I really like him, can't tell if he likes me, but I kind of get the impression that he does, but he kind of seems scared. HELP!
Maybe he's just scared bc he doesnt want to ruin yur friendship but then again, he likes yu soo much that hes stuck so hez confused bc many realationshipz that dont work out dont end in staying friends...and maybe hez afraid of that.
you should definately sit down and just explain to him that your more than willing to give it a shot with him and if it doesnt work out, youd also be more than happy to stay friends with him afterwards..make sure you reassure him that one way or another, your friendship with him will always remain!!
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*ash*
how can i get rid of my razorbumps? i have some down ..there n sometimes on my armpits help! thanks
There are several steps you can take when you want to find out how to get rid of razor bumps. You've taken one of the most important steps by logging onto the Internet. Online you can find all kinds of information about shaving related problems such as razor burn, shaving razor bumps and ingrown hairs. You will also find a large selection of products that treat and prevent these bumps from coming back.
When you want to know How To Get Rid Of Razor Bumps it's always a good idea to ask your barber. Many barbershops carry a line of products to treat shaving related problems. If they don't they can make recommend products that might help you control and heal razor bumps
Asking Your Doctor How to Get Rid of Razor Bumps
You can also ask your doctor how to get rid of razor bumps. In the most severe cases he may suggest a process called laser hair removal. This is a way of stopping the growth of hair in a particular area. When you no longer grow hair, you no longer have to shave. Many doctors prescribe soothing ointments for razor burn treatment. These products contain things like benzyl peroxide to fight the formation of tiny pustules on your skin. They also contain cortisone, steroids and other anti-inflammatory ingredients.
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*ash*
How come people rate u all 5's but not me, my advice is just as good, give or take, look at my column and tell me what u think, i dont know whats wrong, help me please. I want to become a level 1 mod.
yu have to give me yur name so i can look at yur column and then id be happy to!!
im soo confused I REALLLLLLLLLYY like mike but he seems so nice he tells me he loves me n stuff n i really felt a connection today at his house...but i dont know about kevin i didnt really kiss him that much but kevin was bein really sweet one day at roller kingdom...n i startd to see another side of mike today at the mall he was acting kinda asshole..ishh...but i really like him should i juss go wit mike n forget about kevin n if i dont like mike juss forget about itt..?? have u been in a situation like this b4?
ive been in tonz of bad situations with guyz .. and i really think that you shouldnt be with kevin cuz he can be an asshole and yu dont need that!! and with mike, seeing that other side of him today that yu didnt like mite be a bad sign..if hez already starting to be an asshole wut does that tell yu??...itz just early starting signz of a bad realationship down the road ..AND wutz up wit him tellin yu he lovez yu already?!? hasnt it only been a few dayz?!?..i dont lyk that idea AT ALL..yu cant really love sumone without knowing that much about them!!! ...so how culd he already love yu??..think about it...maybe mikez jus tryin tah be a "playa" and get into yur pantz...i dont lyk the sounds of this mike guy either...i really think yu shuld look for a new guy or no, jus wait for one to come to yu!!! bc wen yu look, yu dont find....i think all us girlz no that lol .. but wen yu dont look, itll come to yu..i kno yu prolly heard that alot but thatz only cuz itz true!!! itz happened to me pleenntty of timez ..but all at the wrong timez wen i had a boyfriend already lol .. sotra lyk yur position rite now!!!..but i didnt have the same situation as yu....
so i think yu shuld forget em both and jus hang out wit em and have fun!! NO commitmentz wit either of these dudes...it dont look good at all with wut im hearing..itz only gon get worse wit their "asshole" sidez im tellin yu .. i shuld kno..i got an asshole sittin on my couch watchin tv rite now that i got stuck wit lol..
write bak!!