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hey my lips are always dry and i dont know why. i have to lick them all the time to keep them wet. they arent chapt so i dont need chap stick, but what should i do? i rate high (link)
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Still use chapstick or lipgloss (if your a girl).
-Brianna
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ok sry this is long but i really need help. ok im in 7th grade and this year i met my best friend ever hes likt the best person you will ever meet. his name is james and he is in 8th grade. we have been so close since the begining of the year and like we would call eachother evry day and talk for like an hour. and liek he is a realy hott guy so yeah he has had gf's like only 3 this year so far bc they r long relationships but recently he asked out one of my friends and like now if they get in a fight they blame it on me and all this other junk and like now he hardly calls me nemore liek maybe once a week if even that and liek if they r together then he like barley talks to me he ignores me and he never did that with any of his other gf's and like i dont noe wat to do bc im losing my best friend and i honeslty can live without him. so pls help me what do i do. thnks (link)
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I am soo sorry to hear that. That must really suck. Maybe his girlfriend is having some sort of influence on him. Maybe she doesn't want you guys to be friends and he is listening to her. Talk to him or her or both (whoever) about it and tell them how you feel and that your upset you guys are drifting away. Hope I've helped! Good luck!
-Brianna
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I have just came back to school after my 2 weeks off and these girls are pushing me around and calling me names, they only ever stop when my friends are there im not fat nd spotty im just small is there a crime in being small?? caz i feel lke dere iz... and soon my m8s are all going on a holiday to france wiv the skool and we didnt have enought money as my mam and dad have just split up, plz help me i am down and depressed :(! (link)
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Aww, being small isn't bad at all. As long as you eat and whatever, there is deff. nothing wrong with you! Just ignore those girls, they sound like bitches. Get a job to try to pay for the trip to France. I'm sorry to hear about your situation!
-Brianna
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One of my best friends has been dateing this guy for a year. we are both 14. well i have always thought this guy wasnt good for her, i mean he has kicked her, black mailed her, and even sent threats. the threats were jokes, but they wee serious at the time. like there was one rape one. well lately she has been ignoring me for him. it is true that he hasnt been so bad lately and it seems like her does love her, but i still cant take it. it doesnt seem fair that i have always TRIED to be with her, and he hasnt and she takes the side of him. what should i do? should i tell her? should i just let it slide? (link)
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OMG you sound just like my situation. I hated my best friends ex boyfriend. She used to take his side too. It pissed me off. I think friends should come before boyfriends. Boys come and go friends don't! Tell her how you feel, that's what I did. I told her that I hated the way he treated her and it could get pretty serious one day (the threats and shit). Someday hopefully she will realize that you were right. If she doesn't just let it slide. She will find out the hard way!
-Brianna
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I've been friends with the same group of people since I moved here(8th grade). I'm not a junior in highschool and just about fed up with the way they all act. I mean, don't get me wrong, they're great friends but well...act pretty slutty at times. Actually, they don't act like sluts...they are sluts. They are they typical "popular slutty cheerleaders" and I don't want that to reclect back on me becasue I'm not like that. I want to stop hanging out with them but I don't want to just be like "hey, I don't like you guys anymore...see ya around." What should I do? (link)
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Find some new friends and start to slowly drift away from the "sluts" or, you can just tell them that you don't like the way they act. If they don't listen then go with plan A and find some new friends! Hope I have helped.
-Brianna
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the other day i was on my advice column abd it said i'd been rated 9 times with an average rating of 5. today i went on it again and it said i'd only been rated 5 times with an average rating of 4.8. what happened? (link)
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Your ratings get deleted after 30 days.
-Brianna
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Well yesterday i sae my belly button had a few small black hairs around it so i decided to but some hair dye on it and i did it started itching and left a lighter skin tone to the rest of my body!! the black hairs have gone now but i have my belly button pierced and wondered if it would have got infected or anything please help lush me xxxxxx (link)
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You shouldve just shaved it. I don't know maybe because the bleach in the dye got on your skin? But I would tell your mom or go to the doctors or something to make sure it's not infected. Good luck!
-Brianna
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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate? (link)
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I totally agree with you! It hurts my eyes. Especially when people are like.. i hav a problim wif muh bf n itz driven meh crayzii! Lol, it pisses me off because they probably don't write like that in real life, so why write like that on the computer?! It takes more time too!
-Brianna
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Like any other annoying question...here it goes..
There's this guy..Scott..wow what a hottie..I've liked him since forever..7th grade..he gave me my first kiss..It wasn't even a kiss..more like a makeout session..but hey, that's even better! ..Turns out, I was just a stupid bet he won against the other guys..He said he was sorry..I accepted..we went out...broke up..went out, broke up..All this time while we broke up, I still had feelings for him...He said he still liked me, too...A couple of months ago, we went out..and this time, my feelings were even stronger..It felt like love..(I'm in 9th grade now) but he broke up with me because he said we weren't spending enough time together and that we were just "friends with benefits" I still like him..I really do. I am jealous when I know he's hanging out with other girls..I become depressed. I don't know what to do though...I live so far away from him and we don't even go to the same school...What do i do? (link)
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Sweetheart, there is not alot you can do. Yeah sure, maybe you like him alot maybe even "love" him but still, I am sure you will find a diff. guy. Maybe you should start hanging out with him again and spend more time with him. Don't get jealous over the girls he hangs out with if you know that he likes you. Good luck!
-Brianna
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ok well my b/f was sapose to come over to my house on fridy and he seemed like he really wanted to come like when i was on the phone with him he was looking up my house on map quest and he was telling my friends that he couldn't wait to come to my house but he also told my best friends thta he was scared..in the hallway i was like when r u comeing over and he go well my parents are goign to my grandpas birthday soo their gonna drop me off then and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party b/c of me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year and ive been waiting all week to come to your house then later he called me and told me that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party so i was like ok and hes liek i really wanted to hang out with you though and was like i promise well do it over break so i was like ok well its his grandpas party...later that night i even drove by his house and there was no lights on but today someone told me that they saw him at a laxcrosse game on the same night..this really doesn't sound like something he would like im soo surprised that he did it b/c we have been going out for a whille and he acts liek he really likes me i dont know what to do please help me!!!1 (link)
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Well, whoever told you that they saw him or whatever, could be mistaken or even lieing. Maybe they don't want you two to be together. But anyways, maybe he really did go to his grandpa's party or to the lacrosse game. You have to talk to him about it and ask him straight up. Maybe he didn't want to tell you that he was going to game (if he did) because maybe he thought you would be pissed because he was suppose to be with you! Good luck!
-Brianna
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Okay, so I'm relationship challenged. I've never had a real relationship and I'm 18. I actually just got kissed for the first time a month ago tomorrow. Well, the guy that kissed me is kind of confusing. I've liked him for a while and he seems to like me. Anyway, over spring break, I asked him to prom, even though I knew he wanted to ask another girl. He said he didn't know if he was going yet, but if he did, he'd definitely go with me. Well, he hadn't said anything about it for a long time, but we'd been hanging out a lot, so Friday I asked him if he'd decided whether or not he was going. He said he was leaning towards no, but he still hasn't decided. However, my friend said she heard that he asked another girl to prom on Thursday and she said no. I still like him, but I'm just confused. Why does he keep leading me on and giving me dumb excuses? (link)
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Ugh! It seems like he isn't into you as much as you are into him. I might be wrong but he doesn't want to lead you on. He is going to go to the prom just not with you, he will try to find a diff. girl and ask her. If he gets turned down by the girls he asks, he is going to tell you that he won't go. He keeps giving you dumb excuses because he doesn't want to hurt you. Sorry!
-Brianna
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I just got my report card this past friday. It said that my grade point average is 3.95 which is really good. but when i started look at what i got (A A-) it said I had straight A's, A-'s A+'s and I was confused. I get to see my grade a week before they come out, and my science teacher said i was getting a B- then, on the report card it said A+...i don't understand that..can someone explain?
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Maybe you got a B- when your teacher told you that but it could be possible that they didn't add the rest of your grades in there. Don't even worry about it, you got an A+ anyways!
-Brianna
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I have a cousin who puts my probles on here for the world to know! It's really annoying me..what should I do..I don't want to seem mean though.. (link)
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Tell him/her that you dont appreciate your private life being displayed on the internet. Tell them that it upsets you or makes you angry (however it makes you feel). If they don't stop, don't tell them any of your problems.
-Brianna
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ok if a guys likes you and you like him ALOT.. but he hasnt asked you out yet.. how can you get him to stay liking you until he asks you out..cuz what if hes not poitive he likes you.. so how would you get him to kno for sure and get him really into you??
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Be really nice to him and flirt with him. Make sure he knows that you like him, maybe he is just to shy. Or you can even ask him if he likes you! Just be yourself around him and if he really likes you, he will deff. ask you out. Be patient and good luck!
-Brianna
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ok, my legs are so white right now! Im embarrised to wear anything other than sweat pants or jeans! They say italians tan fast,but that dosent happen with me! [[im also portuguese.]] Theres this sunblock that attracts the sun to get a tan with out burning,dose any one no where i can get that/what its called/and if it works?
**rate to 5's** thanks :) (link)
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Go to like Walmart and look at the sun tanning lotion. Don't get oil, especially since you are really white. Find one with sun block in it already. Then go outside on a sunny day with like a bathin suit on and tan. Or you can just go to a tanning booth. It will take a few times there, but you will tan.
-Brianna
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well, some stuff just happened and my crush asked me out. so we're gonna try the whole dating thing.
before, we went out for a day but he broke up with me. he told that it was cause he wasnt sure what i wanted out of the relationship and was worried about how to handle things.
anywho, now he told me he wants something "more" and not like..an occasional see him at school and hug in halllways. so now i'm pondering. the next time i see him and spend time with him should i make the first move or wait for him to?
i'm afraid if i wait he might break up with me again, but if i don't and kiss him or something, he might take it as i'm too eager and such.
so, should i be the one to make the first move? (link)
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It sounds like he just wants to do sexual things with you. Don't get pressured into something you do not want to do. If he breaks up with you because you don't do anything, then he is DEFFINETLY not worth your time. Good luck and follow your heart!
-Brianna
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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?
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You will never forget your first love. You might still have feelings for him, I cannot determine that... Only your heart can.
-Brianna
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I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go? (link)
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Dont break up with him because you live 30 minutes away. If you love him, stay with him. Just try to explain to your parents that you really want to see him, or pay his parents.
-Brianna
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Okay.. I will admit.. i'm a stoner.. I like drugs.. I'm just starting to wonder what these drugs will actually do to me in the long run. If you can get me any sites or information on the drugs listed .. Please tell me... I rate high
1. Cigarettes
2. Marijuana
3. Crack/ coke
4. Acid
5. Meth
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http://www.druguse.com/definitions.html
http://www.addict-help.com/drug-addiction.htm
http://kidshealth.org/PageManager.jsp?dn=familydoctor&article_set=22660&lic=44&cat_id=20140
Good luck. They are all very bad for you!
-Brianna
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OKay well i just got myself into a lot of trouble with my parents... see i got a cell phone last year and i was text messaging and got charged a lot of money. well they tol me not to do it and i did it again... and yet again they told me to stop. well today they approached me and found out i had sent over 100$ worth for last month. i apoligized... but im grounded til school is let out... they guy i like just asked me out yesterday so im kinda in a bad situationi called hima nd told him and he seemed cool with it... but #1 how can i keep from losing him? (bc like all we ever did was text) and #2 what are some ways i can apoligize tio my parents? thanks--i rate!! (link)
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Same thing happened to me, i went over my texting limit by 560 text messages. It was bullshit! But anyways, you have to learn how to control yourself! Lol. Why would you not having your text messages and being grounded lose him. If he liked you, he wouldn't dump you or whatever because you are grounded. Just tell your parents that you are really sorry and try your best to stop going over the limit. Or, get a job and pay!
-Brianna
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