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Like any other annoying question...here it goes..
There's this guy..Scott..wow what a hottie..I've liked him since forever..7th grade..he gave me my first kiss..It wasn't even a kiss..more like a makeout session..but hey, that's even better! ..Turns out, I was just a stupid bet he won against the other guys..He said he was sorry..I accepted..we went out...broke up..went out, broke up..All this time while we broke up, I still had feelings for him...He said he still liked me, too...A couple of months ago, we went out..and this time, my feelings were even stronger..It felt like love..(I'm in 9th grade now) but he broke up with me because he said we weren't spending enough time together and that we were just "friends with benefits" I still like him..I really do. I am jealous when I know he's hanging out with other girls..I become depressed. I don't know what to do though...I live so far away from him and we don't even go to the same school...What do i do?
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Do things you love to do and things that make you happy so you can get over him. Remember that no boy is worth your tears (and those that are WILL NOT make you cry). Despite the fact that he obviosly doesn't know how to treat ladies (fwb's don't exist, it's a male ploy to get in your pants without the responsibility of a relationship), long-distance almost never works.
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You should try to make plans with him. Go see a movie or something like that. If you get to know him better he may realize he's missing you as much as you're missing him.
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In the beginning, you forgave him, and you seem like you never were together for a long period of time. I think what you need to do is try to find someone else that can fill his place. He isn't treating you very well, and you deserve better. I'm sure a nice girl like you can find someone that you have feelings for. Good luck!
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Sweetheart, there is not alot you can do. Yeah sure, maybe you like him alot maybe even "love" him but still, I am sure you will find a diff. guy. Maybe you should start hanging out with him again and spend more time with him. Don't get jealous over the girls he hangs out with if you know that he likes you. Good luck!
-Brianna
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Awwwwe.
I know the feeling, I'm going through that right now too. All you can do is wait! That bet thing was pretty low but I forgive too so hmm. If it's meant to be, and your feelings really are true love you'll end up being together some how. It's fate! You can't ruin fate and you can't change it either. You could ask him about how he feels for you but be expect the worse, okay? Don't get hurt if he tells you he only wants to have a sexual relationship. You have to figure out what you want out of it and if you want that then you're on the right track but if you want more you need to tell him that and maybe you two aren't meant to be. I wish you the best of luck!
Love always,
Lauren
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Well, just like any other annoying question asked by retards thatt gets an annoying answer taht will piss them off...here it goes!
You're dumb! 2 words to explain it. Dont you think that if you broke up 3-4 times, its probably not going to work the next time? Hmm, lets put 2 and 2 together.
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I would suggest a long talk about everything so you too both know eachother's feelings. REMEMBER guy's are assholes (not all the time, they are great,i do love them) but they don't understand feelings as much as girls do unless there gay or somthing. But anyways, tell him how you feel and before you call him, know what you want to say. Then hangout possibly and do the things you want. When he says he thinks you guys are just friends with benifits, then hold back on the sexual play. Its good to not do that stuff a lot because when you do its a specialer (no matter what it is) and its not just like an everyday thing, you'll want it more when you don't do it as much. Also, if you guys live far away then it is sorta harder to see him lol, so i think your maybe right on that one, and if he's giving yoou problems try to be like 'well its sorta hard seeing you a lot, i mean i Love to, but its hard' . Sence you too have gone out and broken up twice and have had some things in the past, you could look at it 2 ways- 1. its not worth all this stuff, and breaking my heart with the stop go stuff Or 2. the reason we keep going out is becuase we still have those feelings that keep us coming back. .. soo its tough but you need to also think- is he worth it? I mean i went out witha boy for 9 months and i was in love with him, but shit happened and now we have other boyfriends and girl friends because we had to move on. It was so hard but trust me- there are other people out there. I DIDnt think so at alll, it took me a long time to get over it, but it happed. You have all of high school to look forward to. But anyways, talk to him, hangout with him. tell him you get jealous of other girls becuase you still have feelings. But hangout with your girlfriends and try not to get caught up on this guy. Good luck, hope i helped
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Well, in my opinion, you need to move on...if you two have already broken up twice and he is with other girls now, you need to forget about him. If he was just using you as a bet in the first place, i wouldn't trust him anymore. So sorry if my advice didn't help... send something in my inbox and tell my what happens please. hope i helped
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Gurl..Its like this..To me it sounds like love...I wouldnt be friends with benefits for the simple fact the more you do the more you'll like him the more it will lead to heart break. IF I WAS in your poistion i would leave him alone before i got hurt but thats just me
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