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ok well my b/f was sapose to come over to my house on fridy and he seemed like he really wanted to come like when i was on the phone with him he was looking up my house on map quest and he was telling my friends that he couldn't wait to come to my house but he also told my best friends thta he was scared..in the hallway i was like when r u comeing over and he go well my parents are goign to my grandpas birthday soo their gonna drop me off then and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party b/c of me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year and ive been waiting all week to come to your house then later he called me and told me that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party so i was like ok and hes liek i really wanted to hang out with you though and was like i promise well do it over break so i was like ok well its his grandpas party...later that night i even drove by his house and there was no lights on but today someone told me that they saw him at a laxcrosse game on the same night..this really doesn't sound like something he would like im soo surprised that he did it b/c we have been going out for a whille and he acts liek he really likes me i dont know what to do please help me!!!1
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he most likely thought you would get mad if you knew that he wanted to go to the game that's all, boys are weird like that
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If I were you, I wouldn't care so much about what all these other people are telling you. You can never be sure if they are actually telling the truth or if they are lying unless you see it for yourself. There are many reasons why your friends might lie to you, like if they secretly also liked this boy. I would go for it and ask him out if he seems like he likes you back.
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Personally, I think you are over reacting. Your friend was either probably lying or actually telling the truth. But its up to *You* to believer her. I mean come on if he told almost all his friends or however many he told that he was really excited to come over most likely he wouldn't ditch you like that. Just trust him and if he does this again then yeah maybe you should believe your friend when she says those types of things. Hope I helped you can ask me for more advice if you want. Good Luck :)
Shann
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Well, whoever told you that they saw him or whatever, could be mistaken or even lieing. Maybe they don't want you two to be together. But anyways, maybe he really did go to his grandpa's party or to the lacrosse game. You have to talk to him about it and ask him straight up. Maybe he didn't want to tell you that he was going to game (if he did) because maybe he thought you would be pissed because he was suppose to be with you! Good luck!
-Brianna
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well sometimes guys get the idea that you are going to be disapointed if they wanted to go somehwere besides your house...talk to him about it
<3 kayla
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Well, first of all who know's if he really was at the game... Who know's if this person was lying about it or whatever. And who know's if it was even your boyfriend that they saw there. The best thing to do is just talk to your boyfriend about it without getting all worked up about it. You have to make sure you don't point any fingers or make him feel like your angry at him. If you make it seem like your angry at him then he will think you are trying to blame him for something and everything will turn into a big mess.. trust me.
Well, I hope I was of some assistance
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I wouldn't take someones's word for it. They could be wrong. Don't jump to conclusions until you talk to your boyfriend. :)
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