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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ok here s my questoin , i come from an arab society and its not like we dont have girls in my college . . .its that i dont know what happens to me when i m with a girl i wanna get
when i am with anybody else i keep on talkin and talkin i mean that i m not shy and i have lots of casuall friends
what can i do , whats your advice for me 19/m

the more pratcie you get at it the more you used it and simple it will get. if you are having a hard time talking to girl then askt hem to hang otu with you one day and talk to them and get to know the. if this isnt what you are askign then i am sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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15/f

listen to your heart. if you love him so much then be with him. i am in the same sistuation as you i am going out with a guy which my friends dont approve of but i have a had a great 8 months with and want to go on.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am a girl. 1 am 26 yrs. I allready have sex with somebody. but not very deep. but i am not sure i am still vergin. now i am going to married with differen person. now i am very up sad because if the person know that i already sex with somebody else mean sure this person dont want me. my questions is the person can find out that i already have sex with somebody else? please advise me?

honesty and trust is the most important thing in any marraige or realtionship. i would think about it. if this guy loves you enough it wouldnt matter to him. but other wise you really cant ell unless you as someone if they are a virign or not.
*~Stephanie~*

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this girl act like she my friend and i dont like her there lots of rumors saying she give head e.t.c this girl in my school shes a hoe and she flirts with my everyone man especially my mines she always asking him do you still go with her everyday im been going with him for 11months june will be a year and i trust in my friend dont like her at all some of the girls dont like her becasue she flirts with tere man she hipotize them with her eyes and i said to myself if she touch him im going off. and i dont know what to do

you need to striaght up tell this girl the truth. tell her that you dont like and to back off. get all the people that hate her to go with you and you guys need to tell her in a serious way that you guys arent playing around when you say dont mess with my man. i noe violence isnt a the best soultion but when someone trys robbing your stuff away from you(right now it would ur guys men) you need to fight to keep what is yours.
*~Stephanie~*

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so, a random question bout sex. i was just wondering, since statistics show that the average teen loses their virginity by the age of 17. well.. is it possible to have sex (when the guy uses a condom) and NOT get pregnant? cuz like, other teens have done it and they havent got pregnant riight? but what im scared of is that my sister had an unplanned pregnancy and she already had a baby. she said she used a condom and i guessed it broke.

questions:
is it common for a condom to break?
can a girl get pregant if a guy uses a condom?

thanks in advance.

there is like a 90% chance you wotn get pregnant. but if you are still scared you can also get birth control so the risk will be less.
*~Stephanie~*

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What is the advantage of having a Chi hair straightener over a ceramic straightener you could get from Target for example?

chi i guess is more ceramic and doesnt damage your hair as much as others. for isntance some striaghtener say they are ceremic but not one hundered percent of they are fully ceramic just some parts of it is.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay, up til 9th grade I've had great grades. None have been below an 85. Now, Freshman year I've failed one, and had low 70's in two others. I honestly don't know what to do. I turn in all my homework, I listen in class, my parents have had meetings with the teachers. My biggest concern is Algebra 1, it ahh is so confusing to me. But my teacher also helps in the confusion, she doesn't know how to teach!

Anyway, I'm just wondering if anyone their first year of highschool experienced a difference in grades, or had the same situation as me. Thanks.

i am in the same situation as you. i am a freshman and i ahve gottne A's in all my classes except alegra 1 yes it is confusing. if it is because you cant seem to get it and need extra help on try to find otu if there is anythign afetr school, like a tutorail thing or another teacher that will help you witht he subject. my teacher is the same. and all year i havent passed any of my math teast but he lets up fix all of the for each half credict.
hoep this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it normal to start your period in gr.6? another question. If your start having periods in gr.6 and don't have one till gr.8 is the normal?

i had mine in the 6th grade. so that is normal. and i dont think not havin it for 2 years is normal. you might want to go to the doctor about that.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok.. so my boyfriend looks at porn. ive never had a problem with porn with any other guy ive been with, but lately its been getting to me. I just cant bare the thought of my boyfriend fantasizing about other women. even worse; their bodies are perfect && mine are far from it and i just dont want him comparing me to them. So my question is:
-Is it ok for me to feel this way?
-Is looking at porn considered cheating to some people?
-Should i say something to my boyfriend
-If so what?
(hes very stubborn)

for most guys when they cant get any ass from any girl the looka t porn and it some how turns them on. i go through the same thing you go except my bf doesnt watch porn more then half the time he watches movies that lead to sex. if you get me? i personally dont get affened by it because it is a pron star and there really isnt a chance that they will meet and have a realtionship. hun dont worry about it. porn is porn it isnt cheatin on people because physically he isnt doin anythin except watch. if i were you i wouldnt say anythin unless he brings it up and askes you how you feel about. but i would watch my words when answering him. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey
iv heard that if u straighten ur hair it falls out....... is this tru?

no it doesnt make you hair fall out but it kills your hair. and yes if you do it everyday it will damage your hair and it will start to fall out more then it is supposed to.
*~Stephanie~*

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can you get pregnant if sperm is outside the body?? ex. you use a public bathroom & sperm is on the seat, you have sex & sperm is on the area you had sex on, er juss sperm anywhere??

thanks!!

nope. it wouldnt work. sperm dies in half a second when it touches air.
*~Stephanie~*

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16/f. my boobs feel a little sore. does this mean they are growing?

yup. or it can be because you hurt them. or because your period is coming u. it all depends on your body.
*~Stephanie~*

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Should guys who aren't that "muscular" shave their chest/stomach? How about their arms? Thanks!

personaly i dont liek it when guys save i think everything sound be trimmed. =)
*~Stephanie~*

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Sorry this is so long! Okay, I'm 13 and i'm a female. So I've had this boyfriend for about 3 and a half months now and I really like him. We're both in the school play & at first I was so happy that I would get to see him so often. But, after a while, it seems like he is always hanging on me. Like, the first 10 times it was cute, but now it's just kinda like, "i need my space." My friend told him and he said he was gonna back off a little, but I'm still not sure, and when I am with him, just me & him it seems like all he wants to do is makeout. Also, there's this other really sweet kid in the pla who I flirt with all the time and he definitely flirts back. Like, he's my "best friend" and all.. but I'm not sure what to do! Help?

LiStEn To YoUr HeArT! if you feel that it isnt right between you and your boyfriend then i suggest to just leave him. go with some other guy that you feel more comfrontable with. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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well right now my hair is short and blonde heres the pic: http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/121212.jpg but it has more blodn highlites in it now

would it look bad this color? :http://photobucket.com/albums/a92/Linds1819/?action=view¤t=yuvthishaircolor.jpg

with maybe bleach blonde highlites over it or underneath? orrr dark brown underneath? thankss

total. the color is beautiful and with blonde it would look gergous.
*~Stephanie~*

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I like this guy who is kind of a teacher at my college. Is there a rule against dating the staff?

i dont think so because my teacher is gettin married to another teacher on campus.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok..so I want to get my hair done and my freind told me i should get mini highlights.
But i dont know what they are...so does anyone know?


thanks xo

they are regualr highlights excep small and thin. you get ti. there not thick.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a math teacher and theres a bunch of girls that likes him. So I found out that they call him on his cell phone and they talk to him on the internet. I find this very strange
because he is like 25 and he lives with his parents and he's single. Half the girls that has his number is between 12-13. I have a bad feeling about this teacher because he goes to ball games and sits with those girls. Does anyone have any idea's on what to do?

you need to tell someone before one of these girls get molissed or even raped. he shouldnt come a teacher if he thinks he can get girls that way. if the prinicple doenst do anything about i suggest talking to your parents about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my boyfriend were just talking and stuff (we've been together for a lil over a month) we went out before in the summer and that lasted almost 4 months but anyways he told me im the only girl he ever loved n stuff and how much i mean to him and he told my best friend one of his wishes and its nothing gross or anything but idk is this a weird wish for a guy to want?

he wants to marry me when we are older... like 6-7 years from now.

Is that weird?

its total normal. i mean i do that wit my curremt bf. dont worry about.
*~Stephanie~*

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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal?

yea but you think you want to ruin your whole life for a kid?? i hope not.
*~Stephanie~*

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