i would continue to bond with her..she has nobody else she trusts but you..and you apparently are a lil attached to this girl..and you dont wanna stop seein her and you want her to get better..and if you leave and not be there for her she probably wont get better and do what she is suppose to..um also i know thats not your responsibility cause she's not your child but you have her trust and everything she'd probably be hurt.. im not tryin to make you feel guilty if you decide to do what they said but im jus tellin you how this will also effect this girl.. and she will always remember you for what you've done and in the end you'd feel good and know you helped this girl..and if you jus leave her alone and everything then she probably will think everyone she trusts will jus walk out on her like that too...much luv dez
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okay my motto is that I'm young wnough not to know and old enough not to give a ....(fill in the blank)
and u see.. with me that pretty much means that I'm leagle... even though I'm 16
So.. is it bad to have a crush on someone who is like 7 years older than me? And what if it possibly happened 2 turn out to be something in like a year or so... is this wrong?
well age is jus a number..but if you really like this guy and everything and you trust him and dont think you'll get hurt then go for it... i mean you cant help who you like its jus a number..um i wouldnt think it would be wrong but maybe you should wait til your older to hook up and if you do hook up make sure it stays on the low cause that could become a problem with parents neighbors and of course the law.. and nah its not bad to have a crush on somebody much older..alot of girls like movie stars singers and rappers that are much older..and we all know we dont care bout they age..much luv dez
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what are the major symptoms, and is there any physical appearance with a yeist infection?
Well it burns and its itching and it hurts to have sex or using a tampon..um also you have a discharge.. much luv dez
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Srry this is so long.
ok i broke up wit my boyfriend last month , cuz he moved to florida, nd for his birthday this month i sent him a plane ticket, bak to new jersey to visit som friends, nd when me nd my family picked him up from the airport , he tld me he was goin out wit my best friend, nd he said he still had strong feelings me tho, nd i tld him i still had strong feelings for him. nd the other night he slept in my room , nd me and my best friend slept in the guest room , nd when i went to get my clothes out of my room , he kissed me , nd my friend came in the room while he was kissin me , so now she's mad at me, nd he wants to go out wit me again. Wut should i do? Should i go out wit him again? or Should i jus let him nd my best friend go out? Wut Should i do bout my best friend bein made at me?
Talk to your friend bout what happened.. and tell her how you feel bout him.. but i think since you guys care bout eachother you should go back out..but if it wont work cause he lives in florida then dont do it cause you could always worry what he's doin cause thats kinda far ya know...? but anyways whatever you do be real with your feelings with your friend and your ex boyfriend..jus tell em both how you feel..but maybe talk to em at different times.. i hope you get through this okay..much luv dez
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My friend Alex (male) was dating this girl who was a year younger than him. She was a freshman, and he was a sophmore. He finally got sick of her and he broke up with her. No one liked her at all, she was a slut, the ugliest girl he has ever dated, and a bitch. She played a joke on him and told him that she was pregnant. She wasn't even planning on telling him until a month later that it was just a joke. So, he did the dumbest thing he's ever done: he got back with her. Every single one of his friends freaked out on him! And he had this in his info: to everyone againsts my decisions , i cant make everyone happy and i wont , i gotta go with my heart , and i wont ignore it anymore. He told me after he had broken up with that girl that he had found this amazing girl and he said that she was perfect in every way except for the fact that she lived an hour away. Lord only knows what happened to her. He knows I can find him a decent girlfriend! This girl is no good at all. She's always hitting on his best friend who happens to be my boyfriend. What can I do to convince him that he's making the wrong choice? He's going to ruine his life with this girl! Please help! I don't go to the same school as my boyfriend Alex and his bitch and a half girlfriend. But they all do.
Well this girl sounds like she like drama..and if she'll lie bout something like that who knows what else she'll lie bout.. she could really mess this guys life up.. um tell him that you care bout him and love him as a friend of course but tell him how he deserves much better then that girl..and that he should get out there and search for a good female that will not lie to him bout things like that..or maybe you can write him a note or get one your friends to tell him how he can do better and everything.. dont let your friend think he cant do better or anything..jus make sure he knows he can get somebody that isnt like that cause all females arent like that..and also if i was you i would tell this bitch how it is.. cause she shouldnt do that kinda stuff..and if she also really is a slut she could get pregnant and then say its his then turn out not to be and then that would really mess him up..but i hope i helped..much luv dez
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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...
i guess its okay if you like it and you think you look alright in it.. but i wouldnt wear something like that.. but im not judging you jus wear it if you think its cute and maybe ask somebody if you look alright in it cause i would think it also depends on the person wearing it..much luv dez
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I have really curly hair that I used to chemically straighten a few years back, before it damaged my hair. It's now grown out curly again, but I can't wear it that way because it won't lay in defined curls and it always frizzes in the back. I straighten it with a ceramic iron that I bought through my hairstylist, and I love how it looks when it's straight!
What I wanted to ask was, what hairstyles can I try? I usually either wear it down, or some up and some down, or in a ponytail. Are there any other cute styles I could try? Btw, I don't have bangs, if that gives you any other ideas.
um you should through it all up ponytails are like what i did in kindergarten and some up and some down.. you need to be into more today.. maybe like through it up in a clip and keep some hair hangin down in the front.. but even when its curly that would look cute too.. um i also think maybe you could get twisties those are always cute with straight or curly hair.. so i hope what i suggested was help and sorry if i got a lil rude at the beginning..much luv dez
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i’m asian, and my eyes are on the small side and i don’t have a double eyelid. what kind of eye makeup do you suggest? most fashion magazines just ignore asian eyes when dealing w/ eye makeup which is kind of annoying. also, i read ‘bobbi brown and teenage beauty’, which has a section that deals w/ asian beauty, but bobbi brown just suggested skin-tone eye makeup (tan, beige). colors like that are low-key and good for everyday wear i guess, but what if i want kind of a punk-rockish look? with dark makeup? and what if i want to wear (dark) exotic colors like violet and turquoise? serious answers please.
Well i like how asian girls eyes are they have a great shape.. you could get eye liner to bring out your eye shape and eye color.. but only wear it on your bottom.. and wear eye shadows of your choose you dont have to wear beige or tan colored eyeshadows.. wear regular colors..asian eyes look good with color too.. jus dont put the eye shadow on real real dark..jus put enough on to be noticed.. hope i helped much luv dez
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I am 17/f 220lb and like 6 foot tall, I was wondering if you think it will be posiable to lose like 50lb by august if i work out (go 2 curves) and eat right and diet? cause when i went to curves before I lost 20 lb in a month. or can you give me any good diets or things to do? thanks alot i will rate you
Yes i think its possible... you can do it most likely again.. and you lost twenty lbs in 2 months so im pretty sure you can lose fifty in 6 months..jus watch your carbs and what you eat..work out.. maybe look on the internet under something and see what you can do to eat and make yourself healthier..much luv dez
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I came to a new school this year and i hav a couple new friends and i eally miss my old friends and hardly ever hear from some of them. I kind of feel like my new friends are replacing my old ones but i know they're not and they are great friends. Every time we go to the CVS in my old neighborhood i think it would be the coolest thing if i saw them. Someone please help me.
Well get ahold of your old friends and hang out sometime.. jus hook up and chill like you use too... its really not that hard to pick up a phone and say what up what you doin this weekend ya wanna hook up... jus give em a call... and your not replacing your friends if you keep in contact with em and continue to hang out with em..much luv dez
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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared
Nah..
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OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?
thanx
No jus buy real silver earrings.. like buy one pair you really like.. i cant wear fake earrings either..much luv
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My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!
Bust it up.. your cd most likely wont break but maybe jus buy a new cd and new cd player..much luv
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i have this friiend at school that really likes this guy... but i do to what should i do? i want her to be happy and we still should be friends but i want him!!! plz help me!
Well what ever you do dont let a guy mess up a friendship.. so talk to her and tell her also you like him..maybe she'll respect that and wont like get with him..much luv
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Okay, so theres this guy that i really liked and then he asked me out so we're going out. Then there was this other guy that i really liked but then i kinda didnt and now i do and now all these guys are like asking me out and flirting with me and stuff..they dont know i have a boyfriend but yeah its annoying cuz they didnt when i didnt have a bf..why does this always happen that when i actually have a bf THEN the people i like start liking me or whatever..? ugh!
Well sounds like your young and everything so do what you want.. dont play the guys or anything..but like you can go around and see which one you'd like to have a relationship with..much luv dez
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Well here is the thing see im 14 m and i have never had a girlfriend is that weird or wrong or anything please help.
no its normal as well..much love dez
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i've been going out with this boy for like 6 months now, but my friends want me to stop going out with him and they the ones who wanted me to go out with him in the first place.they say i'm spending to much time with him and i hardly get to see him.
I need advice
forget what your friends say..stay with him your friends cant control over who you go with and who you dont..in the future dont get with somebody they want you with cause they'd probably think they can tell you when to stop goin wit him..much luv dez
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hey i have my periuod but i dont know how to use a tampon... im afraid im going to get it this weekend and im going to this club for teens. I need to wear a thong so i have to wear a tampon. But how do you use it... is it hard?? Does it hurt? what should i do..
nah it shouldnt hurt if you do it right...read the box it shows and tells you.. you should be okay much luv dez
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Is it possible to get used to love? I mean i've been going out with my bf for about 8 months and i dont know if have the same feelings for him anymore or unless im just used to love i mean i know i like it when i see him i get excited and get ready for hours and i make sure things have to be perfect my house has to be clean and smell good when he comes over. I have to look good i like to tell him about my day i like to hear about his. So is it just possibly that im just used to him loving me? That i dont feel it anymore. I feel it when we are together.. but not when we are away
i can relate to you on this one.. like sometimes i wonder like if i have the same feelings for my baby.. but when i'm with him im like how could i think that cause i know if i lose him i would go crazy...so i think you might be used to it and you probably most likely have the same feelings for him they jus aint new so you dont get that feeling as easy inside or your heart beat fast when he says he loves you but you most likey would also go crazy if you lost him..much luv dez
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this is prolly odd and gross but...
what is the best position to lie in when your on your period (like when ur asleep in bed) to stop leaks? forget pads and stuff, i oviously have them, but is it best to lie on your back or side or what to prevent leaks?
Maybe your stomach.. i would think even tho your layin down you shouldnt leak anyways but i guess its different with everybody.. jus try and see.. Much luv dez
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