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Is it possible?
Is it possible to get used to love? I mean i've been going out with my bf for about 8 months and i dont know if have the same feelings for him anymore or unless im just used to love i mean i know i like it when i see him i get excited and get ready for hours and i make sure things have to be perfect my house has to be clean and smell good when he comes over. I have to look good i like to tell him about my day i like to hear about his. So is it just possibly that im just used to him loving me? That i dont feel it anymore. I feel it when we are together.. but not when we are away
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i can relate to you on this one.. like sometimes i wonder like if i have the same feelings for my baby.. but when i'm with him im like how could i think that cause i know if i lose him i would go crazy...so i think you might be used to it and you probably most likely have the same feelings for him they jus aint new so you dont get that feeling as easy inside or your heart beat fast when he says he loves you but you most likey would also go crazy if you lost him..much luv dez
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Why dont you break up with him, and when you feel terrible that you broke up with him, yeah then its love. If however you feel fine, then you didnt love him at all.
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Sounds like the excitment of a new relationship is beginning to fade. This is normal. This is also when many young couples break up. Likewise, this is also the time when you might find that love can change in ways you didn't expect, and the two of you can develop a more "mature" form of love that could last a long time.
It would seem that by talking to each other and sharing about how your day went, that the two of you continue to bond and build your friendship that must always underly any romantic relationship, so that is clearly a good thing. ;)
Just continue to communicate openly with him and try to see eye-to-eye on matters of love and friendship. Love changes, it is just up to you on how you let it change and how you deal with those changes that are inevitable.
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