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He made the worst decision.
My friend Alex (male) was dating this girl who was a year younger than him. She was a freshman, and he was a sophmore. He finally got sick of her and he broke up with her. No one liked her at all, she was a slut, the ugliest girl he has ever dated, and a bitch. She played a joke on him and told him that she was pregnant. She wasn't even planning on telling him until a month later that it was just a joke. So, he did the dumbest thing he's ever done: he got back with her. Every single one of his friends freaked out on him! And he had this in his info: to everyone againsts my decisions , i cant make everyone happy and i wont , i gotta go with my heart , and i wont ignore it anymore. He told me after he had broken up with that girl that he had found this amazing girl and he said that she was perfect in every way except for the fact that she lived an hour away. Lord only knows what happened to her. He knows I can find him a decent girlfriend! This girl is no good at all. She's always hitting on his best friend who happens to be my boyfriend. What can I do to convince him that he's making the wrong choice? He's going to ruine his life with this girl! Please help! I don't go to the same school as my boyfriend Alex and his bitch and a half girlfriend. But they all do.
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Well this girl sounds like she like drama..and if she'll lie bout something like that who knows what else she'll lie bout.. she could really mess this guys life up.. um tell him that you care bout him and love him as a friend of course but tell him how he deserves much better then that girl..and that he should get out there and search for a good female that will not lie to him bout things like that..or maybe you can write him a note or get one your friends to tell him how he can do better and everything.. dont let your friend think he cant do better or anything..jus make sure he knows he can get somebody that isnt like that cause all females arent like that..and also if i was you i would tell this bitch how it is.. cause she shouldnt do that kinda stuff..and if she also really is a slut she could get pregnant and then say its his then turn out not to be and then that would really mess him up..but i hope i helped..much luv dez
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Has Alex found out this his girlfriend isn't pregnant at all and that it was a joke? If he hasn't, then you should talk to him and tell him. Tell Alex that his girlfriend is always hitting on your boyfriend, his best friend, and that he can prove that to him by telling him. You can't make him dump his girlfriend, since it's his choice of going out with her but you can still talk to him and tell him about all these "secrets" of what his girlfriend has. Ask him about what happened to this girl that lives an hour away. Maybe he can start talking to her again? Just talk to Alex and tell him everything. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well, forgive me if I had read this wrong, I'm only a bit confused, lol. But, you should tell Alex he is doing something that with effect him for the rest of his life, just spill everything to him. And as for your boyfriend getting hit on, you need to tell her to stop or get him to do it, just have him say "hey, I have a girlfriend, so quit messing with me, because I will not take you over her." And make sure that he won't, if he has interest in her too, then theres a big problem, and he will have to choose. Which sucks, I know, but you'd rather find out now than later.
-TheTeenGirl
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You can try to sway him, but don't expect him to give in easily or at all...he still has a lot of his life left to be single, it won't kill him :P
However, the best thing to do is sit him down and explain how you feel about the whole thing. About what she's done to him, about how she really doesn't love him and is likely to cheat on him the first chance she gets, about how much you just hate her. And just ask him to consider it, beg him to understand.
Beyond that, there's not much you can do, besides give HER a chance to cheat on them.
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Wait, i am so confused alex is your boyfriend, but you let him have a girlfriend that is 1 hour away and another gf that is a biatch? Okay? Whatever, have your tired talking to him? What did he ay? Explain to him that it is the wrong choice and that if he wont stop going out with that girl he can get himself in the worng places.
♥ Michelle
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