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age diffrence
okay my motto is that I'm young wnough not to know and old enough not to give a ....(fill in the blank)
and u see.. with me that pretty much means that I'm leagle... even though I'm 16
So.. is it bad to have a crush on someone who is like 7 years older than me? And what if it possibly happened 2 turn out to be something in like a year or so... is this wrong?
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I think a lot of the time, we have crushes on people we shouldn't have because it's convenient and we like the feel of it. That's perfectly fine- but don't let things go further than a crush. Older guys can be manipulative, first off, and that's not fair to you. Also, it would be illegal, and if you are truly in love with this guy and he loves you too, then wait it out for the next couple of years.
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Its ok, as long as it stays a crush, but nothing more. You're a minor, and that guy is like 23, theres no way you can need that. You need to stay away from him, because if you ended with that guy, your motto would change completely, you'd have sex before reaching 17, because older guys move faster. You can't have a good relationship with guys that old, sorry, its just horrible and nasty. That guy is a big fat pervert if he wants you. So you won't be the same 16 year old girl if you dated that guy.
-TheTeenGirl
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It's definitely not bad at all to have a crush on someone who is older than you. It's not your fault that you like him. Make sure this guy likes you too and that you trust him. Since he is older than you, he's probably been through a lot so you don't know what to expect in a relationship with him. If you love him and if he loves you, go for it and ask him out. It's not wrong to start a relationship with him in a few years. Just make sure you know what you are doing and that you love this guy. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well,at your age,a 7 year age difference is a BIG deal.You will change so many times over the next few years as you grow up,and come into your own.You'll find that someone who is 7 years older won't be able to relate to you in the way that you need someone to right now.This is all aside from the fact that it's illegal as well! :( When you turn 18,you are a legal adult and can make your own decisions,just be careful about them and put a lot of thought into something like that before you leap into it.For now,I think it's best to avoid being with this person romantically.I have a close friend about your age,and even tho I've told her the same thing many times,she had to learn the hard way,that those kind of relationships typically don't work.Who knows,maybe in a few years when you're an adult,you two will be able to make it work.But also in those few years,maybe you'll meet a nice guy that's closer to your age!It's not wrong to have a crush,but I most definitely wouldn't act on it now,and he should respect that and do the same.Hope this helps you some!
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It's not wrong, not at all. You can't help who you like, nor can you stop just because of age. If you like this guy, you like him. There's not much you can do. If anything does possibly happen in a year or so, make sure you can trust him. Make sure that he loves and respects you and isn't in it to get some skin and such. If he isn't and all goes well, that's great! Even if he's 7 years older, he could be the best guy in the world. So when you are ready, go for it.
♥ Krissy
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well age is jus a number..but if you really like this guy and everything and you trust him and dont think you'll get hurt then go for it... i mean you cant help who you like its jus a number..um i wouldnt think it would be wrong but maybe you should wait til your older to hook up and if you do hook up make sure it stays on the low cause that could become a problem with parents neighbors and of course the law.. and nah its not bad to have a crush on somebody much older..alot of girls like movie stars singers and rappers that are much older..and we all know we dont care bout they age..much luv dez
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