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Srry this is so long.
ok i broke up wit my boyfriend last month , cuz he moved to florida, nd for his birthday this month i sent him a plane ticket, bak to new jersey to visit som friends, nd when me nd my family picked him up from the airport , he tld me he was goin out wit my best friend, nd he said he still had strong feelings me tho, nd i tld him i still had strong feelings for him. nd the other night he slept in my room , nd me and my best friend slept in the guest room , nd when i went to get my clothes out of my room , he kissed me , nd my friend came in the room while he was kissin me , so now she's mad at me, nd he wants to go out wit me again. Wut should i do? Should i go out wit him again? or Should i jus let him nd my best friend go out? Wut Should i do bout my best friend bein made at me?
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you broke up with him for a reason. he lives too far away right? if your friend can handle it, all the power to her. but you need to explain to her that he kissed you, you didn't make him
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You've got to talk to them both, have the guy explain that when he was with her, he was really in love with you, he shouldn't have dated her if he didn't actually want her, and I think that you shouldn't have kissed him, whether she would of saw or not, now she had to find out by you guys kissing instead of words, she probably had it so bad for that guy she can't erase that image from her head. So, now it will be harder for her to trust your words. Thats why you shouldn't tell her he loved you, it needs to come from him, because if it does come from you, it will sound fake and rude, and unbelievable. You have to fix it, and your friend will probably be very angry towards you, but try not to be angry back, because shes got the right to be angry, you can't really blame her. Its not fair to her, so both of you need to tell her everything, and as for you guys dating again, if you still want her as your friend, you can't date him, I kind of suggest that you not, I understand that you love him, but she does too, and she shouldn't date him either. I'm thinking you all sould not date, and go from there.
-TheTeenGirl
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Talk to your friend bout what happened.. and tell her how you feel bout him.. but i think since you guys care bout eachother you should go back out..but if it wont work cause he lives in florida then dont do it cause you could always worry what he's doin cause thats kinda far ya know...? but anyways whatever you do be real with your feelings with your friend and your ex boyfriend..jus tell em both how you feel..but maybe talk to em at different times.. i hope you get through this okay..much luv dez
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Before going out with him again, you have to talk to your friend. Explain to her that you still have feelings for your ex, and that when you kissed him, you were never trying to hurt her. Have a heart-to-heart. If she takes it well, that's great, and you should definitely pursue the relationship with the guy you really like. If she is still mad at you after that, you have to decide what's more important - your friendship, or the guy you really like - and that's your decision alone.
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Alright, first you need to talk to your best friend and tell her that you were only in your room to get clothes and you didn't know that he was going to kiss you. If she is your best friend, she should believe you and understand. Your best friend is probably going to dump her boyfriend, your ex-boyfriend, because of him "cheating" on her by kissing you, so you should just wait. If you like your ex-boyfriend and he likes you, then yes, you should go out with him but not until your friend says it's alright too because she may have feelings for him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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ok first off talk to your friend about it tell her that u still really like him and all tell her all the stuff and wat all happened and i think u should go out with him
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