Ok so there was this girl i went to a dance with a while back. i had actualy jsut met her earlier that day and at the time i liked her but it wasnt really a major thing. we were planning on going out again after the dance but she kept avoiding me. i had asked her if to tell jsut tell me if she didnt like me but she said she did. a while after that i just gave up i fugred she was playing me or something. any ways its been a while and i really thought i was over her but every once in a while something will remind me of her and ill start really wondering what happened and feelings i didnt even have back then will start rushing at me. if it matters im 18.
anyways i have a two part question
1. what do you thing happened in the first place? shes not teh type to play a guy?
2. what can i do so taht i dont start thinking about her everytime soemthing remidns me of her?
i'm not trying to be rude, but you probably did something to piss her off...
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I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
thnx
as much as you don't want to hear this, YOU could step into your dad's life. at least make an effort. don't just wait for him to baby you. you should make some father-daughter plans with him. and don't be so defensive towards him. and if he's still an ass, you need to seek a family counseler.
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I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help?
well pimples are still pimples no matter where on your face you get them. i use St. Ive's appricot scrub and it works SO well it usually makes any pimple go away by the next day cause it like, scrubs it off i guess?
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ok well yesterday morning i woke up and i had this thing EVERY1 has like stuffy nose sore throat and coughing . well this morning i woke up and still had it so my mom let me stay home and she stayed home with me and took care of me. well then i just layed in bed and i got this TERRIBLE stomache ache under my breasts and it hurt SOOOO BAD! i was rolling in bed screaming and crying it hurt so bad! so my mom got me a heating pad and put it on it and like 10 minutes later it went away after ive had the stomache ache for about 20-30 mins. my ? is - what was wrong bc ive NEVER had a tummy ache like that before. and has anyone had that b4? oh and i was sweatin REEEEALLY bad! plz respond! oh ANY1 who answers i rate 5!
wow, thats intense you almost definitely have something more than a cold. maybe like a stomach virus or the flu or something? see a doctor!
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I dread going to school everyday. I hate it this year and its not my 1st year of highschool. I hate mosta my classes and the people in them...i can never get motovated to go and plus my school sucks big time. My parents always say "well having my job is worse" but my school sucks pretty hard. I hate it and sumtimes i even wish it would burn down lol. Is there sumthin that i can do to not dread it so much?
i used to hate my middle school too (it was public school) and it was terrible, i had problems with almost everyone and so many people hated me for no reason. and every morning i'd wake up and hate going to school. but i was just nice to everyone and stuck with all my friends and it was okay for the most part. now i'm in high school and i love it cause i go to a catholic school high school. so if you really hate your school, i'd suggest transfering to a private school or a catholic school. that way everyones wearing the same thing and people are usually SO much nicer there, and have good disipline and stuff... but i hope everything works out with you!
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i have 3" zits all over my legs with 1" whiteheads.how do i get rid of them?
pop those bad boys.
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Hello all,I'm new to this site and I need advice so I'm hoping you guys on here can be helpful. Here is my story..
Me and this girl (I'll call her Mallory) have been talking for about a month now. She asked me to go with her to her homecoming dance next weekend (we attend different schools). Well,I told her yeah until I found out who was gonna be there. This guy I have alot of beef with will be there,and I know all he's gonna do is start mess and try to get me to fight him. I'm not gonna fight him at the Homecoming dance because I don't wanna get arrested plus that'll just make both of us look low life. Besides that,she goes to a private school which means alot of preppy people will be there. All in all,I really don't want to go,but I already told her yes. What should I do?
it's stereotypical to not want to go because there's lots of preps there. i go to a private school. it doesn't make anyone preppy or not preppy. second, don't go if there's gonna be a guy who you have problems with. i would just avoid the situation. but since you already told mallory that you'd go, you pretty much have to go, or you'd be an ass. i'd say go. she deserves better than to be stood up.
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Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this?
yeah he probably likes you. you should take it one step further. go on a date or something.
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Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE
well if the condom didn't break, i don't see why you would be pregnant
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i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?
make sure you have a bottle of ibruprofin. and soft foods handy. i think the level of pain depends on the person, but on a scale of 1-10 for ME it was a ten.
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I know this is weird...but how do you speak gibberish? In most of the classes, when the girls are all talking about something serious, they start to speak in gibberish to piss off the teachers/guys. I don't know what they're saying but I want to learn so I will know it, so can anyone tell me how to speak it?
yeah i'll teach you. it's really easy once you get the hang if it. give me your screen name and i'll tell you.
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Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally
he has a thing for you. but he's shy...
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Ive started at a new school last week on september 8(im a freshman)in my old school i was the type of girl who hung out with guys alot and guys were always talking to me but here they dont ive only talked to like 3 guys that are in my classes and we dont evan talk in the halls!all im asking is that ive only been there for 5 days eventually when things start to like flowing better(cuz were all a lil confused still)do guys start talking to people more?
in high school, everyone's pretty much new. wait a few more weeks and everyone will be so much more talkative and outgoing. especially the guys.
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there is this boy who b sweatin me..everywhere i go he follow..but he is a nice friend.but sometimes he just get annoying. How can i tell him to back off..but without hurting his feeling?
i'm going thru the same problem. there's always really annoying people who follow me. and honestly, i don't know what to tell you. i just avoid them. walk fast. and they get the hint.
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i have a dance this friday and i dont know wut to do w/ my hair. i have straight, thin, brown hair that goes a little past my shoulders. thanks!
do something hawt, like... make a zigzag part, and crimp little pieces. put ribbons in it and stuff.
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ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?
dude she's lame.
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my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. He's a great guy, dont get me wrong, and i love him... but we have been together a long time and the cracks are starting to show. To top it off there is another guy i am interested in, and it has been heating up slowly for a while now with him. I am really attracted to him. I dont know whether to risk it and get with the new guy, or stay with what i know...what do i do?
just as almost all teenage relationships begin to fall apart... so is yours. i think you should talk about it with your current boyfriend.
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Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.
it was wrong first of all for your friends to tell you to kiss, but he's probably EMBARRASSED cause you said ew. that's why. and since you were in front of a whole bunch of people he was probably really pissed off!
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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh
yes you definitely should. since you don't know if you're going to come back or not (god forbid) you should try to live your life to the fullest and get all the things done that you want to do before you die. best wishes.
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i just started at a new school last week september 8th the first day i noticed this girl,jasmine had all the same classes as me me not knowing anyone decides to be friendly and say hey im new and i think we have the same class want to walk with em there and jasmine f*ck no f*uckin girls are stupid so i was like w.e and just went to class later dureing that day i realize she in every one of my classes!i didnt say anything to her the next day in Health we had to ask everyone what there favorite show was mine was boy meets world and she yells out boy meets world is like 70 years old her is full house and this kid dustin says yea and so is fullhouse she gos ya well at least its good and today she made fun of my friends outfit and my voice and just other stupid things....im very girly i dont have that many friends becuase im new but im making it it always seems like im the kind of girl that girls like jasmine love to pick on(she thinks she all that)but why do you think shes doing this she dont evan know me?and what am i spose to do next time shes talkin crap bout me?
wow I am SO sorry. i really am. you didn't do anything to her and she has to conduct herself like that. it terrible that shes so mean to you. you are continuing to do the right thing by just not saying anything mean back because that will just make other situations arise. please just avoid her and don't give her any attitude back. she's one of those people where i just wish someone would just PUNCH IN THE FACE you know? ugh once again i am really sorry.
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