Question Posted Tuesday September 14 2004, 11:53 pm
Can someone tell me what it means when this happens ? There is this guy that I like in my 4th period class ( I'm a freshman who just started high school and he's a junior , senior , or whatever . I know nothing about the guy except the he likes emo rock music , his name is Kyle , he hangs out with all the emo crowd at school , likes Chances Are , hates hardcore , and likes to draw ) But, he keeps looking at me . ( Maybe it's because I keep sneaking glances at him . But , he does look at me . I've seen him looking at me more than once in class ) But , one way I wore a pink bandanna in my hair ( I'm emo to . But , not in the older crowd because the emos at my school are mean . Emo means emotional . Like the guys wear tight girl pants , have high-lighted hair , kinda long hair , with longer bangs . They like music like Taking Back Sunday and Dashboard Confessional ) and the next day he had a black bandanna . Also , I started rolling up the bottoms of my pants of his pants and so did he like the next week afterward I did it .
And I think the funniest thing is when I showed up one day without my messanger bag and was just carrying around my binder . ( It was Friday ) Monday he showed up without his little messanger bag also .
I think he also knows where me and my friend Jestina like to walk around . Because one day he was half way across the school and then he walked back to our hang out spot . This seems kind of strange ....... Can anyone tell me what this means and if he likes me or not ? Also , what is a good way to talk to him ? I'm REALLY! shy and I talked to him 3 times ( making a fool of myself of course ) And he started this stuff ( IMPORTANT NOTE : after my so called "friend" told him that I liked him ) Now , hes kinda avoiding me which is kinda weird ... someone help me! Sorry this was kinda long ....
Ally
Toxicxoxo answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 2:29 pm: i think that you should go up to him and say hi one time in class, ask him how his day is going. dont go up with any of your friends though. if some have already ruined it and made him avoid you, i would do it by myself. there is no need to be shy. if you guys have the same style and listen to the same music then ask him what stores he likes or what new cds he has gotton lately.
hope i helped
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Jermhatespants answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 12:29 am: Shave your head completely bald. This Kyle fellow will be so impressed by your lack of conforming to what society wants that he will be putty in your hands. I'm completely serious. Do it. Also get a tattoo of a question mark on your forehead. If you're underage and can't bribe the local tatoo parlour guy or girl, just get a bowl of ink and a needle and use that. [ Jermhatespants's advice column | Ask Jermhatespants A Question ]
Crystal49 answered Wednesday September 15 2004, 12:17 am: It could mean he's obsessed with you and wants to be just like you, or more than likely it's just a coincidence. I'm not him, so I have no idea what he's thinking, but it's possible he may like you. He just doesn't know you that well yet.<br>
You said you're both emo, so that should instantly give you some ideas of things to talk about. Talk about music. Find out what kind of songs or bands you both like. Ask him or friends of his about some of the stuff he likes. Find things you have in common. Just try and establish somewhat a friendship with him. If he knows you like then he may be somewhat intimidated. Give him time to adjust to you. If he does like you, he'll make a move when he's ready. [ Crystal49's advice column | Ask Crystal49 A Question ]
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