Ok so there was this girl i went to a dance with a while back. i had actualy jsut met her earlier that day and at the time i liked her but it wasnt really a major thing. we were planning on going out again after the dance but she kept avoiding me. i had asked her if to tell jsut tell me if she didnt like me but she said she did. a while after that i just gave up i fugred she was playing me or something. any ways its been a while and i really thought i was over her but every once in a while something will remind me of her and ill start really wondering what happened and feelings i didnt even have back then will start rushing at me. if it matters im 18.
anyways i have a two part question
1. what do you thing happened in the first place? shes not teh type to play a guy?
2. what can i do so taht i dont start thinking about her everytime soemthing remidns me of her?
*Ask_Emma* answered Wednesday September 22 2004, 1:03 am: She might have been avoiding you because she was shy. Since you still have feelings for her even if its been a while ask her out to a movie or something like that, not exactly on a date just as friends you must really love her to still be thinking about it all that time, but if its long gone my advise is to move on. [ *Ask_Emma*'s advice column | Ask *Ask_Emma* A Question ]
darkconfessions answered Monday September 20 2004, 4:03 pm: 1. Some girls test guys to see how they'll react in a situation. If you can't recall you doing anything wrong than perhaps she is just testing you. She could have found someone she might have liked better but that's a doubt because women are usually straight forward. You could, on the other hand have done something you didn't think was insulting but she took it the wrong way.
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