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Boyfriend Troubles
my boyfriend and i have been having troubles. He's a great guy, dont get me wrong, and i love him... but we have been together a long time and the cracks are starting to show. To top it off there is another guy i am interested in, and it has been heating up slowly for a while now with him. I am really attracted to him. I dont know whether to risk it and get with the new guy, or stay with what i know...what do i do?
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Hm... well, it looks like it's time to move on. You're not tied down to this guy, and "staying with what you know" is a close relative of "STAAAGNAAATIOOOON". You're not married, so go ahead and date the other guy. If it doesn't work out, oh well, it simply wasn't the right person. Dating people is a reflection of who YOU are, so what would being too timid to try something new and possibly rewarding say about YOU?
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A great quote said "The greatest risk is not taking one"
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So u should take chances otherwise your gonna wonder "what if" and that other guy might not be ther forever. In the end its up to you.
Be careful and good luck
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just as almost all teenage relationships begin to fall apart... so is yours. i think you should talk about it with your current boyfriend.
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first of all, you have to look and see if the troubles you are having is over stupid childish stuff, its not worth fighting over. here is what i figure, how can you love someone, and fight everyday, its not possible, and you cant love someone and be interested in another guy, so dont lead on your boyfriend, tell him the truth. let him know whats going on, you can never go wrong with honesty.
Good Luck
-Josh
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Okay you say you love your boyfriend.... then stay with him, because if you love him and he loves you then you two can get through little "CRACKS" together and survive! You know everything almost about your boyfriend and you love him so i am voting for you to stay with him. If you stay with your boyfriend then talk to him about you being worried that you two are growing apart and you don't want that to happen. If he is anything like my man then he will not listen that easily so all you have to do is through him on the ground and sit on him and talk to him that way! lol.... good luck
-Katie
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I'd think about where things stand with your boyfriend. 'Cracks' start to show with ANY relationship - after a significant amount of time together, you leave the honeymoon phase and enter the reality of loving another flawed human.
If your boyfriend is worth it to you, you will stay. If he is not, then you should leave.
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Being in that situation really sucks, what I would do is take a break from your boyfriend and see how things go between you and him and you and the other guy, that way you can see who you really want more, tell your boyfriend that you want to take some time and to give you a week or something, he should understand
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