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I've ruined everything
Today everybody forced me and my boyfriend to kiss and we did but I totally freaked out as soon as I felt his tongue and jumped back going: Ew! He got really pissed and ran off. I thought everything was over until I saw him and we hugged and he said it was OK. Now he's gone cold on me, hung up on me and switched his phone off. I think I've runined everything but I like him so much. I need help and fast.
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well when you see him just sit him down with you and explain to him why you freaked out. he is prolly just upset and embarassed because you said eww in front of eveyone. but its no big you just werent ready. if he cares about you and he really likes you then he'll understand.
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Just talk to the guy and explain y u freaked out. If he cares about u then he will totaly understand.
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Well if u can see him in person then sit down and talk with him and tell him that u just weren't used to it and just were surprised that it all happened so fast. Tell him that u like him alot and that u were just alittle freaked about the kissing part. Talking always works some how or another. Good luck with him and I hope he will understand that u still like him alot.
~*Michelle*~
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Hey, you were just nervous 'n you weren't ready. However...the "Ew!" reaction wasn't very smart to do in front of everybody. It wasn't right for "everybody" to tell ya'll to kiss anyways. Just go over to his house 'n explain to him that you were just nervous, 'n that you're sorry that you reacted that way. If you can't go over to his house today, wait 'til school tomorrow. He should understand.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped!
-tori
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Heh. I think it's funny that you think that's gross. If you didn't want him to do that, then MAYBE you shouldn't kissed him, HMM? You gotta admit, it was quite rude of you to say "EWW", considering he IS your boyfriend and all.
~Laura~
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well tomorrow in school i suggest you pull him aside and talk to him. you shouldn't be scared to kiss him either. it's just the fact that you were doing it in front of your friends that scared you. tell him that you're sorry for how you reacted and you were just really nervous. if everything works out for you... drop one in my box and i'll give you tips on kissing if you want... hope everything works out!
..::..emily..::..
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it was wrong first of all for your friends to tell you to kiss, but he's probably EMBARRASSED cause you said ew. that's why. and since you were in front of a whole bunch of people he was probably really pissed off!
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If he truly care about you, and BELIEVE me, you will find out soon enough, then he wont pressure u into kissing him just yet. if you've been going out for quite sometime now and you still dont feel comforatable kissing him, then maybe theres somthing telling you that you arent ready for a serious boyfriend yet. give it some time it'll come to u on its own. And if he's giving u the cold shoulder and acting all shady its definitely time to move on girl! ..xoxo kara
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Lord, what a horrible situation. I can't believe you would succumb to peer pressure like that. Look, you're obviously not old enough or mature enough to be dating, much less have a b/f.
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