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guy friends
Ive started at a new school last week on september 8(im a freshman)in my old school i was the type of girl who hung out with guys alot and guys were always talking to me but here they dont ive only talked to like 3 guys that are in my classes and we dont evan talk in the halls!all im asking is that ive only been there for 5 days eventually when things start to like flowing better(cuz were all a lil confused still)do guys start talking to people more?
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yeahh some people are just shy. Or think of those girls from your old school who dint talk ta guys .. grr think how they felt all that time. But this question is about you. What I personally have to say is either one their terribly immature and you need to find some good guy friends outta school or you havent been talking to them enuff. By the way you tell the story i think its definetly that they're immature... :-/ stupppppid guys!
gl sweetie
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in high school, everyone's pretty much new. wait a few more weeks and everyone will be so much more talkative and outgoing. especially the guys.
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You're a freshman. That's the year when everyone your age is walking down the hall simultaneously thinking the same thing..."OMG I HOPE I DON'T GET RAPED AND KILLED BY AN UPPERCLASSMAN." Which pretty much went out in the 80's. (Or did it? Hahaha) Anyway, if you expect true friendship, love, or wild hott sex with strangers to occur in the first week, you have a lot to learn. Wait til you're a junior or senior, then random sex with strangers happens ALL the time. (Not Guaranteed.)
Just lay back and let the world rotate for a few weeks. If "those guys" act anything like me you will notice them becoming more laid-back. And then if they're really like me, they'll make comments that offend the teacher and make everyone else laugh.
Just try to be somewhat outgoing, but not too overbearing. People will warm up; they always do.
If all else fails take off your shirt. That helps people relax.
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Yeah they do but it does take a while. Sometimes you just have to be the one to start a conversation or do something interesting to get them going. Im sure the boys are thinking the same thing you are. Dont worry, when things calm down they'll be more outgoing. Hope this helped!!
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Exactly u answered your own question. lol..after a month or so everyone will start to get more comforatable with eachother and you sure to make more guy friends..at least thats what happened for me. Try to focus on having gurls as friends too, its good to have a mixture of both. hope i helped answer your question..xoxo
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I was in the same situation, it's kind of hard to find your friends because you don't know the way around the school. I think you should make a quick map of the inside of the school (just as best as you can) and try to figure out different ways to get to your classes, and maybe you can see different people. Also, try hanging around your locker a little bit more. One of my friends who wasn't in any of my classes ended up having the locker right next to mine.
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