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ok this gurl likes me and i like her yadda yadda yadda...but she says taht she doenst know if she can take it the next step because i dont go to church regularly...if i did, then she said she would take our relationship further...but i hardly ever go to church...and i usually work on sundays...wat should i do?
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What the, it shouldn't matter if you go to church or not.... unless, her parents said that she can't see you unless you go to church more then you do now. Church doesn't hurt you so just try to go every saturday or wednsdays they have church then also. Good luck
-Katie-
Plus just tell her how you feel about her.... it shouldn't matter if you go to church or not you like the girl and she likes you.
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Tell her how you feel!! Church or not..I'm sure you're a GREAT guy who can treat a girl just as well as any other guy can! Tell her that you respect that she does go to church everyday, and she should respect that you dont. If she can't accept that than she's not worth it because she'll just try to pressure you into more things in the future! Try talkng to her though. Good luck!! x0x0x0x
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...well, obviously, religion means a lot to her... and it doesn't to you. Even if it's not a huge problem between you guys now, it will be later. You should date someone who's about as religious as you are, so that it's never a reason to fight.
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Tell her you're Jewish.
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dude she's lame.
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Theres really nothing you can do..i mean if shes looking for someone whos very religious u shouldnt change who you are and whether u go to church or not unless YOU want to..maybe if u giv her a good explanation she'll change her mind..otherwise its time to move on..xoxo kara
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You should talk it over with her. Tell her that you really would go to church but because of your job you can't. If she thinks that's not a good enough reason, ask her what you should do.If she wants you to make time to go to church, then ask her what you should do. It's really not your fault you have to work on Sundays. I'm a Christian, 'n I go to church often. 'N I also work. At first my working hours got in the way of me being able to go to chruch. I talked to my boss 'n asked him if I could come later to work. Maybe you could try that. Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped.
-tori
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Religion is 100% your choice. She shouldnt hold it against you just because your diffrent than her. I could see if she thought it was a big deal if u guys were like having kids or something but it shouldnt be a problem for her. If she really liked you then your religious practice shouldnt matter to her.
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Dont go to church just for her..going to church is for God..If you cant go to church because of work and stuff there is nothing you can do..
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If you're seriously thinking about attending church more often, try to get your schedule changed. Where do you work? Chances are your boss would let you off on sunday morning for church.
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