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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?

follow your ♥

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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out!

okay, well if she did that, she's probably attracted to you, so i'd just talk to her, and be completely honest.

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Ok, I have a b.f. in Arkansas, and we met once and i really love him. He has no email, and i can't call guy's. I don't know if we should still be together or not. I mean i've only had fealings for him, out of all the boys i've met, which iz like three. Wat should i do. I love him.

HHHHHHHHEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPP

I rate 5's for anyone who reply's
Thanx

okay.. please don't take this wrong, but if you met him once, i think its impossible to truly love love love love him. you "love" the thought of him, but.. would you die for him? would you change your whole life? i'm sure if he doesn't have an email, and he hasn't heard from you... he probably moved on [i know, its hard to hear]. and don't just.. get a bf the first day you meet him, take your time. i really hope i didn't offend you, but i just had to tell you.

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this guy i like alot is giving me really mixed signals! somedays he flirts w/ me alot. then, the next day he wont even look at me! and i really like him! And, he might like me! but this guy is really confusing!!! What do i do?

he probably does, guys love to play games.

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ok so there is this guy and i kind of know him so i one time me and my friends were out and we saw him so we stopped to talk and we talked for a while and me and him just clicked. so i told my best friend.. BAD IDEA. so she was talking to him on instant messaging and his profile was I WANT THAT GIRL _ _ _ _ _ _ and my name fit! so she was like who is it? who is it? and he is so sick of her now.. but finally he was like ok its this girl named amanda from another school. that was about 2 months ago. today she instant messaged him and was being mean and they were talking and then she was like o sorry i forgot u love amanda and he was like why do u care? and she was like guess y and he goes one of your friends like me and she was like ?who and he goes (my name)? and she goes nope (so he wouldnt know) and then he wouldnt talk! o and hes always staring at me and smiling in class so my question is do you think he might like me and should i tell him i like him or anything like that? thanx

did you HEAR your friend talking to him? or did she tell you? if she told you, she probably did say you did, because it sounds to me like she likes him.

otherwise, if hes smiling and staring, GO TALK TO HIM! make normal convo, i'm sure he'd love it.

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people told me about squats and lunges for toning legs.. what are those? please explain..

plus.. spring break is a week and a half. i want to get up every morning, weight lift a little, stretch, and go walking. approx. how long should i fast walk, to tone my legs, how far, and how fast will it work?

i need to look better in a swimsuit in other words, please respond fast, ill rate high!!

okay, i'm going to be honest, nothing will really really help in a week and a half, but tae bo and tennis would be amazing, and will start working on you quick, so you might notice a small difference in a week. ♥ if you are still uncomfortable, get a sarong for your bathing suit! good luck

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okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?

tell someone at school.. they will have to go thru the parents then social services, but it will probably help ♥

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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz?

okay well sorry but if this is true you should be with your bf now .. not on advicenators. miracles happen ♥

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how do you make the little hearts by some peoples names... i have copied and pasted but only a question mark comes up.

i know how to make it with © in the font symbol but i don't think you can use html in your posts to change the font.

thank you for your help!

its &-hearts;

but take out the - and thats it =]

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okay at the end of the year we have a 8th grade dance..and this guy asked me to it just as friends and i said yes because we've always been pretty close..but i found out that he flashed girls twice in the same day..@ school! soo yeah it just disgusted me and i don't want to go with him anymore..but i don't know what to tell him. and thats where the problem enlies.
i rate good. unless your a dumbass about what you write back. thanks.

Is it true? If it is, its not really.. well.. attractive, but yanoo .. give him a chance and if he does anything to you ditch him ♥

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well, ive been thinking about running every morning this spring break, because i dont have anything to do so i mind as well stay in shape.

i want to run every morning, but i dont want to lose weight, i want to lose how i LOOK, like my legs. my mom said that if you walk fast, a couple miles, it will tone your legs and butt, make them tighter, and better looking in a swimsuit. is this true? if not what workouts can i do to make them betteR? thanks so much, i rate!

It will, but tae-bo and tennis will probably help quicker ♥

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i want grow little more, i know its naturel but i feel like there is something help u grown little.. there is i know anybody knows

Theres a pill, but I don't think it would be very smart to take it. I've heard milk helps, but I think its really your own growth rate.. try ask.com and it will calculate your "supposed adult height" You have until you are about 17ish!

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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky..

I am so sorry about this. You have to try telling her that shes hurting herself, and really..last resort.. you have to tell her parents. You cannot let her die. You have to tell someone. Good luck, and with the right guidance your friend will recover ♥ Don't be afraid that she will get mad, she probably will, but she will thank you in the end.

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I use to love to read and get lost in it. now I jsut can't seem to becouse my mind keep wondering off, i can't seem stay fucus to read.. how i get my intress back?

Try reading a mystery, or THE GIVER. It's a great book! ♥

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im boring how can i make myself seem or be more fun?

Think about the things that truly make you , well ... you! And try to focus more on them, don't be shy in a social situation, just.. BE YOU ♥

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hey i asked earlier about possible duets for dating couples for the talent show..well today everyone was like saying my boyfriend is gay because hes a good singer, and they were like, guys dont sing. only a couple people said it though. and today we went and watched the seventh grade talent show and i sat next to him and all the little seventh graders were saying it to.. well some of them. it's getting really annoying, what should i do? i mean, im not gonna break up with him because i love him but i just wanna make them stop.

♥ I would never say that! I mean, there just JEALOUS of his good voice apparently! Don't worry about it, ignore them, or tell them to stop cuz he's really not, I mean look at Jessica and Nick. Is Nick gay? NO. ♥ GOOD LUCK IN THE TALENT SHOW! I'm SURE you will both be amazing, ignore the jealousy.

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before i say anything, i know it may seem like im thinking too much of it but i just wanna know.

okay well today was the talent show and i wanted to sit next to this kid that i like but my stupid vice principal called people by the color of their clothes((so elementry school)) and i couldnt catch up with him. but anyway when my friend corey asked him he said he might, and then he got up and walked over and tapped me on the shoulder and just went back to his seat?? so anyway i didnt seem him again until we went to class after the talent show, so all during class he was looking at me when i laughed or smiled and he laughed or smiled too. and then he isnt really firneds wirh the boy who sits nect to me but he went over and started talking to him, and then i got up and went to wait by the door until the bell rang and he went over there too and talked to someone else he isnt really friends with and then he flicked my hair before he went to his homeroom the opposite way as mine. and then i was walking to the bus and he usually is ahead of me but this time he was at my side, and then i lost site of him, but he was like leaning my way when he was next to me, and i dont know does this mean he likes me?

He just might ♥ give it time, keep talking, try to build a little friendship, and see where it goes!

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Does anyone know any websites that tell you how much you're supposed to weigh at a certain age? if you do please give it to me!! thanks

It depends on your height and weight.. try looking up a BMI calculator, it'll tell you the healthy weight you should be at!
♥ HOPE THIS HELPS

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i have to do a oral presentation tomorrow and i am NOT good at this at all. when i start talking i usually forget and i dont know what to say next so i bascially stumble, so i need GOOD tips on how to focus and i do have notecards butt i cant use them alot so PLEASEE help me !!!

BE CONFIDENT. Say "I AM THE MOST GOREGOUS PERSON IN THE ROOM" and believe it. As long as your confident, it will ALL work. GOOD LUCK ♥

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my xboyfriends brother just died today, and i i'm not dealing with it very well. i just dont know what to do, it feels like no matter who i talk to i cant lift up my spirits. my boyfriend right now has been doing everything he can to help me, but its not working. even people who arent my friends are helping me, im just not making any progress. what should i do??

I'm so sorry to hear about this. Theres nothing you can do, except think of good memories of him. Once again, I'm sorry to hear this, but time will help, no it doesn't heal the wounds in your heart, but it will get easier to accept, but it never is completely easy.

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