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okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?
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ok if her parents on drugs sorry to tell you its not a goood house and she shouldent be there but talk to her just say if your going to hurt yourself to loook pretty then that is soo sick ask her why she wants to do it and if she wont talk to her i tackled one of my friends in the doorway and pinned her on the floor i said if you dont wanna listen to me hen i will just stay here till you wanna talk but you neee dto talk to her then have her and her parents talk to her but she need s to eat and if her parents arent going to do anything have her stay with you or go to rehab where she can be watched and will get better
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Right!!! Years (yes, unfortunately years) from now she/they will understand that you were only trying to help.
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Wrong. Your friend is <b>still</b> in trouble until she admits that she has a problem and is willing to get help. Your parents, even though they may be concerned, can't make this girl get help. It is ultimately up to her parents to check her into a place that will help her with her problem. Mental disorders play a big part in any disorder, and your friend will need psycological help to get through this. She can't do this alone, and you can't help her either. It is better for you to get your friend help, then for your friend to suffer from long term health problems, or possibly even death. It is a shame that her parents can't take a more active role in her life and help her before it is too late. Try talking to a counselor at your school, because neither of her parents are willing to step up 100% to the plate.
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Right, its good for you to tell someone because first of all your helping you and second is because your giving her the help she needs to over come bulimia, with a little support she should get over it and be back to normal in no time.
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she will eventually thank you for giving her the chance to live... after some therapy.
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great job for telling them, i had to do the same thing my friend was cutting her self and i told the school counseler and boy was she mad for the first few days but then me and my friends make jokes about it and everything was okay ! she will get over and glad that you told ! your a good friend for doin that
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Good job for trying to tell someone. It's the right thing to do, and real friends would do something like that. I would tell a teacher or your guidance counselor at school, I think they'd help her out. Goodluck.
Hope I helped!
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tell someone at school.. they will have to go thru the parents then social services, but it will probably help ♥
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Right, it's good that you care about her enough to try to help her. Maybe she'll understand if things get better.
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Your friend might not appreciate it now but what you did for her DID save her life. She's probably just upset because now her parents know and she didn't want them to. Once she gets over the fact that you "told on her" and "betrayed her trust" (which you didn't) she'll really appreciate what you did. You saved someones life for heaven's sake!!!!!!! don't worry if she's still mad after a while....it'll probably take her a while to get over it if she's really mad. just keep being a good friend to her and don't act any different and things will get better i promise!!!
~De1NdOnLii~
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i totally agree...you did it because you care. Your being A better friend telling someone than you would be to just let her hurt herself
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tell her that your worried about her and you want to help her s0o you dont lose her i hope everything works out! good luck! =)x0x
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