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Hey1 I'm "the one and only" and i'm here to give you the best advice possible!(even though i'm a blonde!lol)feel free to ask away.BTW i'm 13 (14 in june woo hoo!) and i'm goin into high school next year (woo hoo!!)
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How bad is it that I hate my husband's parents and they hate me? Will this ruin my marriage?
I'm not married yet....heck i can't even drive!! but my parents are going thru the same thing. every little thing that happens, my dad's parents blame my mom. it hasn't affected my parents relationship because my mom doesn't do anything that will suggest that she's upset that my grandparents hate her. she acts completely normal and is really nice to them so they have no reason to hate her. you and your husband's relationship shouldn't be changed...it's the relationship between you and your husbands paernts that will be affected. i guess what i'm trying to say is- be nice to them and respect them even though it will be really hard because u hate them. then they'll have no logical reason to hate you! you have to be the bigger person....also remember that these people are your husbands parents and he loves them!
good luck!
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~De1NdOnLii~
ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..
i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :(
this is a toughie.If you hate seeing him with someone else, you still have feelings for him. also, your new boyfriend might be a great bf but do you like him? if you don't then you shouldn't be with him. don't lead him on. if your ex said he loves u and always will, what the heck is he doing with another girl?!tell him how you miss him and just talk to him about it. see how he feels about maybe getting back together. remember, "don't settle for someone you can live with, look for someone you can't live without" obviously, you can't live w/out him....tell him how you feel! follow your heart!
~De1NdOnLii~
ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now...
You didn't do anything wrong that night. It's not your fault he likes you and not your friend. If she's obsessed with 3 other guys, she'll probably get over it quickly. It sounds like he really likes you......i wouldn't worry if I were you. She doesn't sound like a good friend anyway if she's talking bad about you behind your back. Next time she says or does something that's rude, tell her how you feel. She'll get really mad and everything but she's not worth hanging around. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
~De1NdOnLii~
okay so this is the same person about the girl with the bulimia friend. okay i told her parents but they are like on drugs..so they really didn`t care.. i told my parents & i thik they might help.once they get there butts off the sofa..but like yea my friends is really really really mad at mee for telling on her but atleast she won`t die..right?
Your friend might not appreciate it now but what you did for her DID save her life. She's probably just upset because now her parents know and she didn't want them to. Once she gets over the fact that you "told on her" and "betrayed her trust" (which you didn't) she'll really appreciate what you did. You saved someones life for heaven's sake!!!!!!! don't worry if she's still mad after a while....it'll probably take her a while to get over it if she's really mad. just keep being a good friend to her and don't act any different and things will get better i promise!!!
~De1NdOnLii~
What do you do for clammy hands?
Wash ure hands and use a "non-moisturizer" hand lotion. Also, use baby powder to soak up the moisture you have on ure hands. Hope I was able to help! Good luck!
~De1NdOnLii~