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my best friend likes the guy i like
ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now...
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Your friend is immature and needs to grow up. Her brain is in her panties, and that is the only think she is thinking about right now, herself. It is not your fault that she obbsesses and oogles over every guy that looks good. If that was the case, and you had to avoid anyone she liked, then you would be without a boyfriend for as long as she was your friend. I always believe in the quote that <b>'guys come and go, but friends are forever'</b>, but in this case, your friend is being selfish. If she can't be happy for you that a guy likes you, then what kind of friendship material does she possess? You need to tell her that she is being selfish and inconsiderate of your feelings, and that if she was a true friend, then she would be happy for you.
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your friend is jealous! u have 2 decide between making her happy or making him happy
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weel u are the lucky one arent you, just make sure that the boy doesnt get in the way of your friendship!!!
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Okay, although your friend doesn't find it fair that you sort-of-but-not-really stole from her, it's okay. She's got 3 other guys and the rest of the single guys at your school to choose from! Yeah, so it wasn't the nicest thing for you to do, but it's okay. I think you should just stay with liking this guy, you can't control your heart. Just try to be polite to your friend and help her get a boyfriend, then you both can be happy! Hope I helped! Just remember to follow your heart!
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You didn't do anything wrong that night. It's not your fault he likes you and not your friend. If she's obsessed with 3 other guys, she'll probably get over it quickly. It sounds like he really likes you......i wouldn't worry if I were you. She doesn't sound like a good friend anyway if she's talking bad about you behind your back. Next time she says or does something that's rude, tell her how you feel. She'll get really mad and everything but she's not worth hanging around. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
~De1NdOnLii~
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well ets see about that friend,she doesn`t really seem like a good friend. maybe because she is jealous.have atalk with her or something.anyways that guy seems great ;) but do you liek him that much just to lose a friendship over? is your friendship with your friend not as or less or greater than that guys?
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Seems to me like you need to worry less about who likes who and more about how your "friend" treats you!
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Dont do anything. You did the right thing by calling him up and telling him whats going on. She's just gonna make a fool of herself looking all hott and trying to impress him. Dont worry about it...I would worry about how a "friend" would talk crap about you and stuff.
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