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i miss my ex...but i have a boyfriend now
ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..
i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :(
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It sounds like you both really like each other still, even if you are broken up and have moved on. And what a lot of girls do is once they break up with one person, they move on to some one new in order to cope with the gap of single life. I think thats what your situation is.
I'm not sure a double date would be the best thing to do. If you still have feelings for him, staring at him across a dinner table with another girl will definately not help your situation. My advice is, that if you two truly care about each other, shift that positivity into a strong friendship instead of a relationship. You can hang out and talk and be yourselves like you use to do, except this time around you won't be together. Try it out and see how it works.
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Hmm ... wow, it's a really bad feeling when you start to miss an ex. It's perfectly okay, though, even if you do have a boyfriend. You've probably been missing your ex because it just sunk in that he really wasn't YOURS anymore. It's a really great thing that you two still talk though. I really can't come up with an idea as to why he might say he loves you and always will though. Maybe you were his first TRUE love, and we all know that our first true love stays in our heart forever and always. Or maybe he's beginning to like you again. Either way, I think you should go through with the double date, and try to make the best of it. Hope i helped, tell me how everything goes!
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I've been here before not too long ago either..well minus the double date. If you truly care about your boyfriend, then stay with him. He might be the person to help you move on. But if you like your ex more than not liking him, then get single and tell him the truth. If it doesn't work out, then you'll eventually meet someone that will help you realize why things didn't work out. But don't double date. It'll just make yourself feel miserable!
♥ Always,
Maria
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awWwwWww...! i know EXACTLY how you feel! if he said he still loves you and you still have feelings for him- you guys should totally get back together! trust is the most important thing in a relationship! hope i helped! ~allie
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this is a toughie.If you hate seeing him with someone else, you still have feelings for him. also, your new boyfriend might be a great bf but do you like him? if you don't then you shouldn't be with him. don't lead him on. if your ex said he loves u and always will, what the heck is he doing with another girl?!tell him how you miss him and just talk to him about it. see how he feels about maybe getting back together. remember, "don't settle for someone you can live with, look for someone you can't live without" obviously, you can't live w/out him....tell him how you feel! follow your heart!
~De1NdOnLii~
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Dont double date. He just wants you to get mad because he has a girlfriend now. That is the worst idea ever...double dating with ex's. Ahh, save yourself and dont do it. I think if your happy with your new boyfriend, and hes happy with his girlfriend..you should let it go. Obviously it wasint meant to be. You had your time and fun..and you need to realize relationships dont last forever. Dont focus on your ex so much, focus on your new boyfriend! Maybe one day in the future you'll go out again, who knows. But just wait it out and stay with your boyfriend now. Good luck and sorry if I didn't help much! Keep me updated if you can!!
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