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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend for my ex-boyfriend because he said he still really liked me. And I love this kid I mean he`s already cheaten on me and I do believe in second chances. But, he likes this other girl to well really...he told people shes just there to get some but he really does care about me he said he still loves me. So, now he`s totally ignoring me for this other girl STILL he doesn`t even give me hugs at the end of the day n e more and he doesn`t flirt with me n e more either. I dunno how to get his attention I look my best everyday and he tells me I look good but I know thats not all he wants and everyone tells me he should go out with me but he just wont do it but he says he likes me! im just sooo confused...how do i get his attention to the point he`ll be like damn...im gunna ask her out ... hehe thats want I want or at least for him to talk to me or hug me! PLEASE HELP!

Aw !! Mk well guys act all cool in front of there friends and think they are the shyt when really they aren`t.He seems like he is the confusing type.. and have one of your friends be like hey okay do you like her and he will say yes and have them be like well she isn`t waiting around all fuckin year!For the hug just give him a hug 1st but.. I`m going to be honest he maybe just wanted you to break up with your other boyfriend because if he really did love you he wouldn`t even think about other girls..so have a good friend talk to him. ♥

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ok i dont want to tell you my name becuase i think you might know me but anyway i need some help. my boyfrend has gone...further than me and i was jus wonderin how that would affect our relationship...i mean if he starts goin too fast should i just let it go becuz i love him so much or say slow down and later on do more n more stuff with him?

Well alot of guys done more than girls because they are just..HORNY! lol..well it shouldn`t have a huge effect on ur relationship.If he starts going to fast be honest and tell him he is and I`m sure he will slow down.If you really like him do stuff with him but don`t take nothing too fast!..I don`t have a clue who this is..♥

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villy i love ur hair how do you do it like that?its always perfect and i like it what do to it

Aw thank you ! lol..uhm to be honest I don`t do anything to it ..when I get out the shower like i just brush it..and put spray in it and let it air dry.Then fron there I straighten it or just leave it..♥

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i am soo confused about this one guy. me and him went out and now we are just friends. he keeps on seeming to flirt w/ me but when i flirt back he doesn't like it! i Don't get it, i am really confused. Can anyone help me and tell em wahts going on. My best friends mom said that he is immature and if he was older he would be able to tell that i like him back, but i don't know if i do. I mean i WANT to be friends w/ him but i want to be able to flirt w/ him too. You know? but i dont get why he does that? any answerS?

He probly does that because he knows you like him and will do it just to piss you off.So what you do is for a week for two don`t flirt with him at all,& if he trys do what he did to you.♥

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ok well i just broke up with someone..and now im single.and happy.so now EVERYONE is asking me who i like.its getting so annoying..so my past 2 bfs stil like me.this random guy ..and my best friend.now my best friend is cute..and we can talk abut everything..i had no clue he liked me.this is really hard for me..and now i no he likes me.but everone thinks i like him but i don't, and even if i did i couldn't cause i don't want to ruin our friendship.im so confused. i don't no if i like him..i neeed help

To me the best boyfriends are the ones you know alot about and known them for a while.As much as you don`t want to like him I think you should.He likes you so I think you should do the same.But before you two start even thinking about goin out you should tell him what ever happens at the end you don`t want to ruin a good friendship.Just give him a chance..♥

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some guys that i know.. not really MY friends.. but we kinda have some same friends.. text me and are like "ur flat" .. and i think they all think that. and i know i shouldn't care and whatever but is that all anyone thinks? it's so annoying and idk what to dooo

i rate highhhh

Ugh those type of guys piss me off!Just ignore them as you can see they are immature and don`t have a life so they just pick on you.If they keep on doing it and you don`t ignore it tell them to stop if they still don`t make fun of there dick size say there are tinyy..pisses guys off alot.Don`t let them get to you tho. ♥

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Sorry its long, but I need help. So, I'm 15, and I have a boyfriend, "George". And he isn't the type to get jealous. But I flirt with other guys. And I don't feel bad about it, and shouldn't I? Also, yesterday I almost kissed this guy "Miles", and I wanted to kiss him. And besides all that I like this other guy "Ryan". So now, when I'm around "George" I'm really quiet and not myself, cause I'm thinking about "Ryan". I don't know what to do. Is this normal even? What should I do?

I`m sorry but you have got to break up.If you did that..then that means you didn`t really like him.Imagine if you were in his place..Just break up with him.It`s not normal to just go kissing another guy while having a bf and not feeling bad about it.But it`s normal to flirt because that`s just how girls are.I think Miles likes you alot so go for him after you break up.♥

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i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?

Since you talked to him about there isn`t much you can do.I don`t want to sound rude at all but he IS 15 & most guys do that..it`s normal.You shouldn`t let it bother you.Most guys are like that ♥

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This may be a stupid question to some, but I thought I might as well ask it.

Is telling a guy you like him really as easy as some people make it sound? I mean, I'm pretty confident and outgoing, but with guys, I can be pretty shy.

I like a certain guy... I mean, I'll talk to him and stuff, but I can't tell him I like him unless I KNOW he likes me, too. I doubt he likes me back, personally. But some people are just like, "Tell him!" and I don't know if I should. So... should I, how, and is it that easy? Thanks in advance.

People make everything sound so easy but really it matter what type of a person you are.First have one of your friends talk to him and somehow bring up him & you liking each other & see what he says.It`s easy when you are confident about it all and if your not it`s not so easy.Find out if he does like you & it will make things much easier! If he does then totally go for it,don`t even wait.♥

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sorry if this is difficult but im 13 (almost 14) and have never had a boyfriend. My firends tell me all the time im beautiful and i dont think im ugly or anyhting. the thing is ive had offers and stuff, but never really felt like i should be doing it. maybe its form my parents influence but up until now i didnt see anyhting wrong with it. whenever i think about it makes me feel as if no guys want me and that something is wrong with me and then i start to cry and feel really bad about myself?
what im asking is 3 questions

1. is there something worng with me?

2. should i be doing something to help me get a boyfriend

3. what things do i do?

1.No freakin way! Nothing is wrong with you your just waiting for the perfect person.
2.If you want a boyfriend then yes.
3.Go out with your friends or just start talking & flirting with alot of guys.

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i am a female age 15 and im dating this guy and i dated him in the past and my grandmother told me i had to break it off between us...now that im seeing him she doesnt know and if she finds out i will have to break up with him AGAIN!...how do i convince my grandmother to letting me date?

Since she made you break up with him before I`m sure she will make you do it again.So don`t even tell her or bring him up.Then she never will find out & you still can date him! ♥

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ive know nt his boy for awhile now, we met last year. he lives with my friend and there was a party that we were both at and he kissed me, a few times. and everything seemed fine. he would call me or i would call him until like 3 days after the party he hung out with his exgirlfriend now he wants nothing to do with me. and i really like this guy. what do i do? he doesnt get the fact his ex has a boyfriend, shes only using him. but he told me not to talk to him. did i do something wrong?

You did nothing wrong!His ex seems to be a slut so yea he will go to her.He probly just wanted someone to make out atthe party with.He is a typical jerk.I also think his ex is really jealous of you two so that`s why she said that.What you do is don`t even bother talking to him totally ignore him & then when his ex dumps himhe will come to you and then don`t go to him and let him know how it feels.Don`t even worry! ♥

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Is being forced to makeout sexual abuse in any way? For example, if you're making out with a guy and he doesn't let you pull away when you want to.
And if it isn't sexual abuse, then what is it?
I'm just wondering.

Uhm..it depends.He might just take it as a joke,but if if someone didn`t want to make out then they don`t want to make out and shoudln`t be forced in any way.So it kinda of is.♥

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I'm about to start soccer and you need to do alot of intense running. Well I'm a horrible runner, because I have a sort of breathing problem that the doctor knows about and everything. however, this does not excuse me from the training (running). I also get really nervous when I run with other people, and so now im extremely anxious about starting soccer. What should I do to calm me down? 15/f

You shouldn`t let anything stop you form playing something you like.I have breathing problems and I still play.Don`t even be nervous because there is nothing to be nervous about.Yes you run a tons but just take it slow for the first few times then go faster no one will say nothing because that`s how alot of starters do it.♥

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Im 14 almost 15 and I havent had my first kiss yet. Is that okay. I understand that a lot of people have had their first kiss like younger or sumthing. Is it okay that I am waiting for that right person. I dont want the guy I have my first kiss with to be all like wow you havent had your first kiss yet and all. Anyway Its okay not to have it yet right??


Thanx I rate High

Yea that`s okay..you just are waiting for the right person.That`s good you think like that because some people can`t even remember there first kiss..which just proves that it was a waste.So it`s fine. ♥

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ok so yea i like this one boy nd ppl are like he is shy you shouldnt go out with him but i like him nd hes soo sweet nd cute nd everything dont you think i should just give him a chance? all the girls think hes hott nd everything but they say hes to shy ?? do yu think they are just saying that because they are jealous or something please help me !! love yu xoxox

I honestly don`t think people are saying it because they are jealous maybe he is just really shy.Either way I think you should go out with him,and give him a chance..and if he is too shy then just talk to him about it.You said he is hott so score ..just give him a chance. Love ya too. ♥

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Okay the past days I've been thinking about this. There is this one guy that I REALLY like but I don't know whats better having a frienship with him or have a relationship with him. I don't really know whats better. He likes me but my fear is that I might someday lose him and I don't want to lose him NEVER want to lose him. So I need you guys some help here.

That happens alot.If you don`t go out with him your feelings for him will get stronger and stronger so sooner or later you will have to go out with him.First tell if that even if something bad happens at the end that you don`t want to screw up the good friendship.Then after you tell him that go for it & go out with him. ♥

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Well okay, me & this boy went out 4 like 7 weeks & well he kind of cheated on me, but he really tried keeping it from me b/c he really cared about me. Well, when I found out,& I went BAZURK & I broke up w/ him & we still liked each other but he really wanted a break 4 a little bit & I really wanted 2 get back w/ him & I couldnt wait but while we were on this break he started liking this other girl too & she is a girl that all the guys like & will do n e thing w/ them & I knew I had a slim chance now! & its not really fair but he was ignoring me 4 her & called me once a day & her probably like 10 times. I felt horrible & I just gave up & this other boy started liking me so I hooked up w/ him quickly & I kno I still had feelings 4 this other guy still but I hid them & this new boy was literally OBSESSED w/ me & I felt guilty b/c I was constantly thinking about my ex so I finally find out that my ex still REALLY likes me & the other girl was a "booty call" 4 him just you know 2 get "some" & he really wanted me back just not @ the second & so I broke up w/ my b/f & stuff & so hes out of the picture but this boy still is trying to do stuff w/ that 1 girl but I kno its just for no reason & he still cares about me I just dont want to wait b/c he said it'll happen soon just in a little bit! I really dont want to wait! wat do I do to get it [as in going back out] to come faster! & he said I need to be a little bit more bossier cuz I let him get away w/ too much! how do I be more "bossy" & get him back quicker & make sure he doesn't cheat on me agin!! plz help me I kno Ive said a lot but I really need help here!! I really love this guy still! thanks a BUNCH!

Aw okay since wow you seem like your totally in love with him and would basically give up the whole freakin world to be with him it might be a little easier.I think the only reason why he wanted that one other chick was to make you a little..jealous.And I so can tell he likes you alot.He just wants action like any other guy that`s how all of them are so that`s probly why he is doing all that with the girl. Since he said you need to be " bossier " you kind of have to be meaner and not let him get away with stuff as much.Since you seem super sweet it might be hard for you but just be meaner to him & if you do get in a arugument make sure you win! & he will be like oh damn she is bossier.If he told you that you need to me bossier that means your to nice to him just kinda me bitchy but not alot. Also just call him or talk to him online or were ever you talk to him and tell him you don't want to wait your whole life & you hate waiting around,and just see what he says.The more you talk to him and flirt the more he will like you so keep on doing it. I really hope I helped and I think it all will turn out good. ♥

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This might be long so sorry! Ok, I have a boyfrend lets call him Mark. Mark and me have been going out for about 7 or 8 months. Recently, all of my friends have been calling him gay and bisexual and they are telling me to break up with him because he is "Mr. Flirtacious". I love Mark sooo much and my friends just dont understand, and they kept bothering me about him so i told them that i broke up with him but i really didnt. Then i told one of my friends that i really didnt break up with him and she is REALLY mad at me!!! We arent really "friends" anymore and i dont know what to do. I know lying is wrong...but should i chose my friends or the guy? thanx for any help i rate high!!!

Well this once happened to me sorta.If you really love Mark then you love him and no one should get in the way of that.If they were true friends they shouldn't even start that. You just need to talk to your friends and tell them you love him and feelings you have for someone can't just go away.If they understand that's great if not then you need new TRUE friends.♥

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a half. One time, he just kept telling me how he wanted to kill my friend Dan because he flirts with me and always asks about hooking up.He's also really mad because I'm sleeping over my friends house and Dan's sleeping over too, but not in the same room or anything.I'll tell my boyfriend to STOP and all he does is keep on talking about killing him like I didn't even say anything in the first place. Then, I told my boyfriend some things and I told him I only wanted this to be between us. So he just goes to school (we dont go to the same school) and he goes and complains to two of his friends about it. Then one of them calls me and starts interrogating me about the situation. What can I do? He barely even listens to me.

Ah sounds so familiar kinda.Okay well since he so called wants to kill your friend Dan you have to talk to him *( ur bf )* even if he wants to or not. Tell him you don't like it when he says that he is going to kill Dan and if he doesn't stop you don't want to keep goin out with him.Or something close to that..just give him a little wake up call.If he doesn't listen then he isn't a good boyfriend at all.♥ Good luck.

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