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perverted friend
i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?
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Since you talked to him about there isn`t much you can do.I don`t want to sound rude at all but he IS 15 & most guys do that..it`s normal.You shouldn`t let it bother you.Most guys are like that ♥
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Just tell him the consequesnces of getting caught. Tell him he could get in huge troble. Say, people your age shouldn't be doing that and say you don't like it when he does it.
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There's really nothing wrong with it. At our general age, we have a LOT of hormones. A teenager's sex drive is at his or her peak at this time. It's natural for him to be curious about sex and/or the female body. And it's okay for him to enjoy what he sees. When we look at pictures, our bodies react. For example, a picture of a kitten might make someone feel physically good, whereas a picture of a dead kitten might make them cry. Being horny isn't perverted at all, it's just another mood like sadness and good cheer. I don't mean any offense by this, but it really sounds more like your problem than his. If he's sexually harassing you that's one thing, but if all he's doing is looking at porn, that's really his business. I understand that you're concerned for your friend, but it's not hurting him (although this is up for debate), and it's most likely not hurting you. Trust me, if you stop worrying about it, the problem will go away.
And just to reassure you, I've been reading pornography for five years now and nothing bad has happened.
EDIT-Thanks for the advice, but I really don't care if you find me attractive or not.
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Honey, I hate to say it, but all guys are like that. It's not perverse, it's hormonal. =P
You say you've talked to him. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you asked him to stop, or something along those lines (if I'm wrong, lemme know, but that's my assumption, based on the way you speak of the situation).
Since every single one of my guyfriends enjoys to look at pictures of women (they did this when they were fifteen, too), I'm gonna say you're gonna have a damn hard time getting him to stop.
What you might do is ask him not to discuss it with you. Let him know it bothers you a lot when it comes up in conversation and whatnot.
Honestly, though, it's perfectly normal for a fifteen year old guy to do something like that. It's not a bad habit - hell, some girls I know even look at porn. Guys are very visual. They like to see things. There's nothing wrong with it.
In any case, instead of trying to get him to stop completely, I would just try to get him to stop bothering you with it. That would probably be considerably easier for him.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Tell him straight up that if he doesn't stop you can't hang out with him because his habit has gone too far for your liking and it makes you uncomfortable.
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by "i dont not want to be with him" do you mean? maybe i just read it wrong or something... but anyways.. hes a guy and you cant really do much about it. i mean... boys will be boys! hell grow out of it sooner or later, but for now just ignore whatever he says.
-- KALIE
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He's 15, and intrested.
Its normal.. so he's more horny than you?
Leave him alone. Just ask him not to be so perverted towards you.
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