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Is it really that easy?
This may be a stupid question to some, but I thought I might as well ask it.
Is telling a guy you like him really as easy as some people make it sound? I mean, I'm pretty confident and outgoing, but with guys, I can be pretty shy.
I like a certain guy... I mean, I'll talk to him and stuff, but I can't tell him I like him unless I KNOW he likes me, too. I doubt he likes me back, personally. But some people are just like, "Tell him!" and I don't know if I should. So... should I, how, and is it that easy? Thanks in advance.
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People make things sound pretty easy, most of the time. but NOT everything IS easy. But in this situation, it kind of is.
To me, I would come up to the guy and tell him I like him before he falls for another girl.
Sometimes I would start a friendly conversation, then when there is a good timing, I tell him. How I feel about him. But if he doesn't feel the same way, I would tell him I would still want to remain friends.
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People make everything sound so easy but really it matter what type of a person you are.First have one of your friends talk to him and somehow bring up him & you liking each other & see what he says.It`s easy when you are confident about it all and if your not it`s not so easy.Find out if he does like you & it will make things much easier! If he does then totally go for it,don`t even wait.♥
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The actual act of telling him IS really easy. The hard part is building up the confidence to do so, and it's really, really hard. Harder than trig, even. You may consider writing him a note, which does take some of the pressure off. Or perhaps squeezing your eyes shut and tensing your whole body up for a minute, then slowly relaxing, just before you do it. You don't have to make eye contact with him, which also helps some. And it's okay to sound awkward at first, for example, randomly shouting "I LIKE YOU!" in a freakishly loud voice. After that, you can calm down and it will be easier to say "I've been to shy to tell you, but I have a crush on you, blah blah blah." in your normal person voice. There's no way to make it easy...just less hard.
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Actually coughing up the guts to do it is not always easy, but once you do just say it, you'll see it was pretty easy after all. Yes once you do it you'll see it was no big deal. So yes go for it - leaving your feelings unspoken is the quickest route to a heavy heart. Just go up to him, get his complete attention, and let him know. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well, its not easy by no means but you've got to take the risk, do you like this guy enough to take the risk? or you could always tell him by email or a note. Good Luck
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ansley - it is different with every person, to some people its really easy, but to some people ((even sometiems the most outgoing)) it can be really hard and it all comes with who you are. If you feel very strong about the fact that you like him, go ahead and tell him ... or if you want to wait and see if he likes you back thats cool too or you can send him little hints to let him know that you like him .. but without actually comming out and saying I LIKE YOU!! lol im not sure that will help, but i sure hope so!
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PS:: good luck!!
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