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Iam kind of confused.
Okay the past days I've been thinking about this. There is this one guy that I REALLY like but I don't know whats better having a frienship with him or have a relationship with him. I don't really know whats better. He likes me but my fear is that I might someday lose him and I don't want to lose him NEVER want to lose him. So I need you guys some help here.
<3 Lauren
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I would be friends for a while and flirt and see if he starts to like you. if he does, ask him out.
kathryn
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You should have a relationship with him because if you don't, you're always going to wonder what would've been.
"I don't want to lose him NEVER want to lose him" --Well, that seems almost near to impossible right? I mean, assuming you're a teen, you're going to want to have plenty of relationships before you find "Mr. Right". I think what you mean is--You don't want to get hurt. Well I'm sorry to tell you this, but sometime in your life, you're going to get hurt eventually.
Anyway, back to your question, you should go out with him. Take a risk & you never know what may happen. Who knows? He may be the love of your life OR he may just be a guy that passes through your life and makes you stronger.
I hope everything works out!
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That happens alot.If you don`t go out with him your feelings for him will get stronger and stronger so sooner or later you will have to go out with him.First tell if that even if something bad happens at the end that you don`t want to screw up the good friendship.Then after you tell him that go for it & go out with him. ♥
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I know exactly how you feel. Let me tell you about my experiences and my freinds. I went out wiht my guy freind and we broke up. Nothing was the same ever again. We hardly ever talk now and I totally regret going out with him. If you both really liek eachother go out with him and if something happens that you need to make up promise eachother that you will stay really good freinds and work hard at it. Call him and etc. Staying freinds though is always good too!!
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I would tell him how you feel just tell him everything you said in that paragraph about never wanting to lose him and that you really like him and see how he reacts. sorry I can't help more but hope it helped!
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