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boyfriend?
sorry if this is difficult but im 13 (almost 14) and have never had a boyfriend. My firends tell me all the time im beautiful and i dont think im ugly or anyhting. the thing is ive had offers and stuff, but never really felt like i should be doing it. maybe its form my parents influence but up until now i didnt see anyhting wrong with it. whenever i think about it makes me feel as if no guys want me and that something is wrong with me and then i start to cry and feel really bad about myself?
what im asking is 3 questions
1. is there something worng with me?
2. should i be doing something to help me get a boyfriend
3. what things do i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
1.No freakin way! Nothing is wrong with you your just waiting for the perfect person.
2.If you want a boyfriend then yes.
3.Go out with your friends or just start talking & flirting with alot of guys.
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rachel says :: ohkay ... first off there is nothing wrong with you. there are lots of girls our age that have never had a boyfriend. you dont need to change yourself just to get a boyfriend, so the answer to your second question is no there is nothing you should be doing. you basically just need to be yourself and not worry about getting a boyfriend. if someone you like asks you out i say go for it but dont let getting a boyfriend (or having one once you get one) control your life.
hope this helped you! ♥ us
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1. no there is not anything wrong with you
2. theres not really anything you can do but be more out there and seem interested in someone.
3. find a boy u like dnt jus grab the first available one. find one you like and flirt with him
there couldnt be anyting wrong with you if youve had offers it probably just didnt seem right at first but now it does. also dont feel like you need a bf just because everyone has one or your friends have one. the right one will come around when its time. hope i helped! if u need anything else leave one in my inbox!
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theres nothing wrong with you! you said that youre beautiful and youve had offers. if you arent comfordable with having a boyfriend right now then dont force yourself just because "everyone else has one" or "youre 13 now and its that age" . just wait til the right one comes around, and in the mean time it wont hurt to mess around with a couple of the 'wrong' ones! lol!
--KALIE
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