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i flirt a lot....and I have a boyfriend
Sorry its long, but I need help. So, I'm 15, and I have a boyfriend, "George". And he isn't the type to get jealous. But I flirt with other guys. And I don't feel bad about it, and shouldn't I? Also, yesterday I almost kissed this guy "Miles", and I wanted to kiss him. And besides all that I like this other guy "Ryan". So now, when I'm around "George" I'm really quiet and not myself, cause I'm thinking about "Ryan". I don't know what to do. Is this normal even? What should I do?
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Break up with that boy. Have fun, you're 15. You should flirt and kiss and have fun, no boyfriends. Please just enjoy it, be a girl.
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well, what i would prob. do, is i would just dump George because hes obvisly not the preson you like, and you seem to enjoy being single more then having a boyfriend, and yet every loves to flirt its normal but yet again, not to kiss someone when you have a boyfriend, thats cheating and thats a path you shouldnt go down, and if you dump george then you can flirt and not have him hanging over your head, you can tell ryan your feelings, and like miles also, now but if you tell ryan your feelings and you guys go out, and i dont think should flirt a lot, you can flirt a little, a normal amountt and hang out with ryan and stuff, but if that happends ditch this miles guy, but if you go with miles then ditch ryan.
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I`m sorry but you have got to break up.If you did that..then that means you didn`t really like him.Imagine if you were in his place..Just break up with him.It`s not normal to just go kissing another guy while having a bf and not feeling bad about it.But it`s normal to flirt because that`s just how girls are.I think Miles likes you alot so go for him after you break up.♥
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Definately think about breaking up with him.Right now a relationship doesnt seem right for you..almost kissing this one..having felings for that one..its not right to any bf/gf no matter if they are the jealous type or not. Nothign gets me madder than seeing someone who is in a relationship getting reallly flirty like that...the whole liking others,almost kissing others, sitting in others laps,talking flirty to them, the list goes on
my advice..think if you were in your bfs position. its not right is it? i would break up with him .
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In respect to your boyfriend, you need to tell him all of this. Relationships without communication are doomed to fail. Whether or not you still have feelings for him, you need to tell him how you feel and about these other guys and what you felt.
You owe it to him to be honest and let him know if you like other guys - I'm sure you'd want him to tell you if he liked other girls, right? So tell him and ask him what he thinks about it. Yes I know it sounds weird, tough, and probably something you might not want to do, but trust me on this one - do it. Think things through. If either of you don't find this to be fair, then perhaps it's best that you do not continue to relationship.
You should follow your conscience. Go for the other guys if you want, or stay with George, but if you decide to stay then try not to flirt. It really is up to you, so talk to George about it first and take things from there. Hope that helped and good luck.
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If you are having feelings for other guys then you should break up with George.
I'm not able to tell you if what you are experiencing is normal but I can tell you my personal experience.
I don't have feelings for other guys who aren't my boyfriend.
Below are the answers to your questions in the additional info.
1)Him telling you to kiss him, says that he either wants to be friends with benefits or that he likes you.
2)What you did isn't good because I don't think physical contact (for example: hugs, kisses, etc.) is good for a relationship.
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ansley says - now this is just my opinion but if i were you i would break up with George, because you aren't being fair to him or yourself, if you like other guys, you still shouldnt be with George if you arent being true to him, hope this helps!!
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