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I have this guy-friend that I've hung out with since 5 grade (I'm in 9) and he is really smart and nice and funny, but not all that cute. I really like him (like, I want to date him and such) and I think he likes me because he always comes over to talk and comments on my outfit or my latest quilt design, and today at lunch my friend Tai said he was staring at me, but he might just be acting that way because we're friends. Does he like me like I like him or not? I'd like some input from guys on this one. (link)
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I am a girl, but to me I think he likes you. I think this way because 1. he stares at you (or so your friend says) and 2. he compliments what you are wearing and such. Sure, your friend would do that stuff, but do you think your friend would be caught staring at you? Maybe you should tell him you like him or ask him if he likes you!
-Brianna
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15 F
My problem is I'm not sure how to act around guys that like me. I have had only 2 guys that have told me they like me and both times I've kissed those guys.
Like I'll meet them at a dance, and we slow dance I have no problem talking and being with the guys but after the song ends I don't know how to act. If I see the guy later and he is around me I will just look up and smile and nod my head...I had a guy thinking that I was some exchange student because thats all I did. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally outgoing and friendly. I love to be around guys but I never know how to act with guys that like me because 1. I don't have much experience and 2. I'm nervous.
Normally I only crush on guys and never even think that there is a guy watching me, so when that happens I'm at lost.
What would be some good ways for me act NORMAL around guys that like me? (link)
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Hey, you are just shy... and that is normal. I get like that too when I first meet someone. Just be yourself and open up a little. Don't think about being nervous around them and have a good time. Flirt and talk with them. Hope I have helped!
-Brianna
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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost? (link)
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Depends on the mother, some start showing after like 3 or 4 months. Some take about 5 or 6 months. And sorry but can't help you with the second question!
-Brianna
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i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...? (link)
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What can you and what exactly is the question?
-Brianna
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when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest? (link)
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There is no certain time when your chances of getting pregnant are up the most. You can get pregnant at anytime. Well, you ovulate 10 days before your period, so your chances might go up a little. Not much though!
-Brianna
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Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
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LOL! That was funny sorry. No girl that I know is afraid of a boner.
-Brianna
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13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how? (link)
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Okay well in my opinion 13 is way too young to have sex. Just accept the fact that he had sex, you can't do anything to change that now. The past is gone! Anyways, if he really likes you and cares about you he will wait until you are ready to have sex. If he does pressure you and you say no and he gets pissed or whatever, he is deff. not worth your time. Don't do anything that you will regret in the future.
-Brianna
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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please! (link)
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Wow, you are pretty much screwed! Sorry. But I think that you should really tell your boyfriend. Would you not want to know if your boyfriend cheated on you? No. It was a mistake you were drunk. He might or might not forgive depending on what kind of a boyfriend you have. Just be very apologetic about the whole thing and tell him that you really do love him and you never meant to hurt him. Good luck! Oh and go to a gyno to see if you are pregnant or have any STDS or anything!
-Brianna
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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley (link)
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Go for it. If you really like him and really do want to have sex with him, than why not? Love knows no age.
-Brianna
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
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Putting a tampon up there does not feel like a guy fingering you. You can't even feel it. It does not really loosen it up, your period itself is stretching and loosening it up. It depends how far you put the tampon up there to pop your cherry!
-Brianna
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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?! (link)
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It could be that he does like you and he is too shy to come and talk to you rather than bump into you. I find it rather cute that he is doing that! Lol. Next time he does it, try and talk to him or something, maybe he really does like you!
-Brianna
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If it matters, I'm seventeen, and a girl.
Okay, so I've been really close with this friend of mine for about two years. Then all of a sudden, she decided she was too good for me. She dwells in every issue she has until she makes herself depressed. She's getting all "emo", for another thing, and pushing EVERYONE away, except our mutual friend, who happens to be a guy.
Now, she even admitted to him that she had a crush on him for awhile, but she "got over it". Somehow, I don't think she did. We're in a choral group and she always manages to position herself next to him, which bothers me - not because I like him - because I'm used to hearing his part in my ear. I'm used to listening to him. We always used to practice together for concerts, we sit next to each other in choir because we blend, and all that.
Anyway, so the main issue I have is, what do I say to her, if anything? She suddenly decided she was too good for everyone except one guy - oh, and her "college friends" which are her only "real" friends. Most of my friends are in college, and I still don't act like that.
I almost want to confront her about her pompous attitude, and about her supposed crush on our friend, but it would make everything awkward, I know.
What would you all do in this situation? I'm just curious.
I rate ones for stupidity and fours for bad grammar and spelling. =)
Thank ya for your opinions. (link)
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That sucks that your friend is acting like that. In my opinion, I think you should confront her about it and ask her if she likes this friend. Also, tell her how you feel about her and you not being as close as you used too. Even if it would make it awkward, it would be better if you talked about it rather than leave it locked up!
-Brianna
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I ADORE MY MOTHER! and i feel a little bit bad about writing this, but i think i should because i dont noe what to do anymore. let me begin... i go to an all girls school, and towards the end of last year and over the summer was when i really started meeting guys. so, the first times she would sit right next me and watch what i was saying. and she still duz that. she doesnt sit by me when im on the phone anymore, but this summer i was on the phone w/ my first love, she would sit there and listen to everything we said. but, she still sits by me when i'm online and i dont noe what to do. cuz, now its beginning 2 feel like a security to hav her there because i dont noe what to say to guys. and when im on the phone, i do! and she updates my profile and goes to places for quotes and puts them in my profile while im @ school and makes me invisible. and i dont even like the quotes sometimes. i've tried talking to her. and ive tried to get other people to talk 2 her... like my aunt, and a friend of mine. and when i tell her, "im gonna tell tia," she goes, i'm not afraid of ur aunt. and she duznt listen to my friend either! i dont noe what to do anymore. when i talk 2 her, she says she'll stop and then she doesn't. i cant change my passwords b/c she'll get mad. but, she's a single mom and i'm her only child. i understand that we're close, like best friends, but i'm 14 years old and i need a little privacy
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Tell your mom the way it makes you feel. Tell her that she wouldn't like it if you listened to her conversations and talked with her friends and whatever when you weren't home. Good luck!
-Brianna
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my b/f and i have been together for a month and last weekend he already had plans (he really did) then he felt guilty for not being with me then when i asked him what he was doing that day. then yesterday, i asked him what him what he was doing tomorrow (today) and he already had plans to spent the night at friends house. the excuse is legit but i really want to spend time with him. today, we would be going to see a movie with a bunch of friends so should i invite his friend too? (i know him and im alright with him going) or should i just let him go and not do anything with him? i need to know soon! thanks in advanced! (link)
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Make plans for the future and if he keeps like delaying them talk with him. I wouldn't take his friend, unless you bring one of your friends with you.
-Brianna
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This might take awhile...but my ex boyfriend and I are talking again about going back out. Our past relationships...were good but then it wasn't. We broke up a couple of times. The thing is, he's a smoker...weed! Awhile ago...he use to do it constantly, then every other day. Then once a week, thne now once a month. I know he's trying, but not hard enough. The other day, I asked him..."What's more important? Your weed..or me?" He replied "Your more important then anything" So I was happy. But still I'm in confusion. We want to go out, but then again, rumors will start up and bets will be place on how long we would last. He's Qb of our Varsity football team(which is huge), and I'm well known for who i hang with, and the sports i played. In other ppls eyes, We look like high school sweethearts. Its just how do i tell him i wnat to be with him, and i like him so much, not the hundred other guys who ask for my number or gives me theres! They don't mean anything to me...just friends. But like what can we do to have a better relationship? how do i know if he's sincere about his feelings for me? How do i know it'll be different? Sorry it's so long, but thanx so much if your able to help me! (link)
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Well, if he really does like you how much he says and you ask him to quit, he will. Atleast he will try, it could be hard for him. Give him time a support. Who gives a shit what people think of you guys, you have went out before! Good luck!
-Brianna
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Ok, so I went out with this guy, let's say in like November. Well we broke up after about 2 weeks and it was squashed, didn't talk much, started dating other people rather quickly and such. We've been hanging out recently and have had sex, but he has a girlfriend, and yes, I do feel used, but the way he acts and talks towards me, really sends me mixed signals and I'm not sure as to what to do. Any advice?
Signed,
Second Thoughts? (link)
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You should really talk to him. Maybe he is using you because maybe his girl friend won't put out. On the other hand, he could like you. Just tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same! Good luck!
-Brianna
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When ever I like a guy.. they like me a lill bit and then they just like 1 of my BFF.. I am popular in my school and have a bunch of friends! but why is it whenever me n a guy start to get to know each other.. oneof my friend comes along n he starts to like her? is there anything I can do to keep a guy hooked? n to stay likeing me?
Sincerely,
Confused Lover (link)
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Maybe your friend is like luring them in! Who knows?! Some people get more people attracted to them automatically. Just flirt with them and I don't know, do what your friend does!
-Brianna
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I'm sorry guys because I just didn't know what to title this. I'm a 14 year old female and I've been having some problems lately and I was hoping you guys could help me figure out what to do. While I was out to dinner with my youth pastors, I accidentally let it slip that I cut myself. After that, they were all worried and concerned and stuff. I didn't quite see what the big deal was at the time because I'm not trying to kill myself, I just like the way it feels and it really helps me through the hard times. Well, one of my youth pastors has been checking up on me recently and I don't want to tell her, but I cut. She tells me I can call her if I ever need anything or if I ever want to talk, but I find it somewhat hard to do that. I just feel like I'm slipping away from God, my friends, and just everybody. I don't know what to do. I keep lying to her and telling her I'm not doing it, but the truth is, I've done it one time since we've started talking about it. I don't want to tell her because I know if I do, she'll make me tell my parents and there is enough drama going on in my home life that I don't need to bring this into the mix. I know I shold probably go see a therapist, but I don't like the thought of sitting in a stranger's office and telling them what's wrong with my life because then I feel like a crybaby and it would just be weird to tell a stranger that kind of stuff. I'm just at a loss of what to do because my youth pastors think I'm a good kid and stuff, but they don't know the stuf that I'm hiding from them. I guess my questions are: should I tell them? if so, what should I say? how can I get 'reunited' with God? I would really appreciate your answers. Thanx in advance! (link)
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Sweetheart, you really should tell someone. It really is a big deal when you need to conflict pain among yourself to feel better. You really need to tell your youth pastor. You can tell her not to tell your mom and maybe she can help you get through it. But even if she does tell your mom, she can get you help. It is that serious! Good luck.
-Brianna
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What do you think about these baby names:
Mattilynn Nicole
Jake Ryan
Zachary Daniel
Rylee Elizabeth
Twin girls :
Ashlynn
Joshlynn (link)
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I like Rylee Elizabeth alot. It is really pretty. I don't really like the other ones, but Ashlynn is pretty too. Joshlynn isn't that good of a name.
-Brianna
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hey every1. right now my life is so totally like the movie The Notebook, if you've seen it. K so there is this guy who goes to my school and a lot of people don't really like him at all because he is sort of full of himself and annoying. but for some reason at the beginning of this year i really really liked him. i only told a few of my friends though, because it was really embarrassing. then i found out that half way through the year he had to move to Hong Kong. i was really sad and his last day at school , my friend told him that i like him. he said that he liked me too.anyway overtime i kind of got over him and started to like this guy named Ben. Ben has been like my best guy friend for a really long time. anyway he asked me out and i said yes. i was so happy, until Jamie (the guy who moved to Hong Kong) CAME BACK!!! anyway now he is being really sweet, and trying to get me to like him again. the thing is, Ben sometimes ditches me for computer games and stuff, but Jamie never does, hes really sweet now. i don't know what to do at all though because Jamie is moving back to HK for good over the summer, so i probably wont see him again. so i could either break up with ben and spend the remainder of my time going out w/ jamie, or i could stay with ben since i will never see jamie again. no clue what to do! help! (link)
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I love that movie! Lol, but anways I would deff. go with the Jamie guy. You saw on the Note Book how she went with her first love. Also, the other guy ditches you for a freaking computer! Good luck and make the right choice!
-Brianna
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