My problem is I'm not sure how to act around guys that like me. I have had only 2 guys that have told me they like me and both times I've kissed those guys.
Like I'll meet them at a dance, and we slow dance I have no problem talking and being with the guys but after the song ends I don't know how to act. If I see the guy later and he is around me I will just look up and smile and nod my head...I had a guy thinking that I was some exchange student because thats all I did. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally outgoing and friendly. I love to be around guys but I never know how to act with guys that like me because 1. I don't have much experience and 2. I'm nervous.
Normally I only crush on guys and never even think that there is a guy watching me, so when that happens I'm at lost.
What would be some good ways for me act NORMAL around guys that like me?
o0xbrianna answered Monday April 18 2005, 8:27 pm: Hey, you are just shy... and that is normal. I get like that too when I first meet someone. Just be yourself and open up a little. Don't think about being nervous around them and have a good time. Flirt and talk with them. Hope I have helped!
dwarp answered Monday April 18 2005, 7:59 pm: Just think of this, if they like you, then you must have something all the other girls don't. Show confidence in yourself because that's probably what they liked about you in the first place.If you're confident and know that you are better than all of those other girls, they will see that in you and it will also give you the courage to walk up to them and strike up a conversation. If you talk to them more, you'll start to be friends with them and maybe decide if you like them or not.
As for the experience thing, the only way to get more experience is to have more experiences. So take every chance you get to get to know the guys that like you, because it may lead to a relationship! If they're walking in the hall, ask them how their weekend went, or talk about something that has to do with the way he knows you. (ie: if he met you in band, talk to him about band and eventually lead to other topics)
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