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my b/f and i have been together for a month and last weekend he already had plans (he really did) then he felt guilty for not being with me then when i asked him what he was doing that day. then yesterday, i asked him what him what he was doing tomorrow (today) and he already had plans to spent the night at friends house. the excuse is legit but i really want to spend time with him. today, we would be going to see a movie with a bunch of friends so should i invite his friend too? (i know him and im alright with him going) or should i just let him go and not do anything with him? i need to know soon! thanks in advanced!
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Make plans for the future and if he keeps like delaying them talk with him. I wouldn't take his friend, unless you bring one of your friends with you.
-Brianna
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Ok...this may sound harsh to you but it has to be said. He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out!! (a quote from one of my favorite books - mentioned in my column) And trust me when I say these things I've seen it all!!
If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will. Men don't forget how much they like you so PUT DOWN THE PHONE! You ARE good enough to be asked out!!
There is plenty more I could say, but I don't think you could handle it all at once! lol. Let me know if you'd like to and I would be more than happy to share it with you.
Best of luck!
~ Amanda ;)
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well if you feel ok with his friend being around like because you want to be with him. but if you feel like you too should just be together them leave it as that
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Invite his friend if you feel that it will stop your boyfriend from going. The key to every relationship is communication, and if you stop hanging out you are never going to go anywhere in your relationship. Trust me, I know this from past experience. You'll start making friends with other people and see less and less of your boyfriend. So every chance you get to do something that you think he might like, invite him. Remember, you're dating him because you want to spend MORE time with him, right?
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