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Heyyy, I'm Mary:)
I've been on here for over four years--Ask me anything, and I'll try my best to help you out. :)


Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)


I'm always willing to listen/lend a helping hand. Inbox me and I will be sure to get to you as soon as I can.


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i wanna get a lip ring but i think ppl will think weird of me because im the type to wear abrecrombie everyday. can sum1 tell me the pros n cons about liprings ?

Don't get a lip ring..you'll regret it in the future..and also if you're into the abercrombie thing then why would you want a lip ring in the first place? AHH SORRY IF I SOUND CRITIZIING

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i know this is a crazy question...should you curl your eye lashes before or after putting on mascara?

after..defintely

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ok well on friday there is this dance at columbus(an all guys school) and my friend told me about it and told me to go w/ her and her b/f who goes to the school. i can't take my b/f because guys that don't go to the school aren't allowed to go. i want to go to the party though because i've been dying to go to one lately but i know that if i tell my b/f i'm going w/o him he'll get PISSED since its an all guys school and i'm going by myself bcuz he's really overprotective. what should i do??

Don't tell him...or you could tell him and he could freak..I don't understand why he's overprotective though..He needs to learn to trust you or it won't work out..

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my hair is real thick.. and if i let it air dry it becomes frizzy and wavy. when i blow dry it, it has to be straightened too to look decent.. does anyone know any ways for my hair to stay straighter and smoother?

straighten your hair with a straightrning iron..be sure to use hair stuff that keeps it silky and smooth (catwalk 14.95 @ tony & guy)

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Hey guys! i just started going out with this boy who is absolutly amazing... he's perfect for me, and is soooo sweet and increible i love him !lol.. we've only been going out for a month but already i've like fallen for him. But i was wondering, what are some tips to keep it going realy well? becuase i don't want to loose him. He also likes me a lot too, but i just want little things that could make him more attachted or somthing. Thankss

Just have alot of fun when you're around him and just keep leading him along with surprises..and be yourself!

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I need help with my hair. I just got it cut with an Ashlee Simpson style and I was wondering if anyone knew how to fix it (straight) and also I want to do the bang thing she does. Where she pulls them up and it looks like a big bump on her head. (I know it sounds crazy but I have a pic if u dont know what i'm talkin about.

If you want it straight, straightening..but be sure to use conditioner and hair products that will protect your hair and keep it feeling silky..(I recommend Catwalk..14.95 i think at Tony & Guy)

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ok umm my friend is not eating. she says she eats infront of a big group of ppl but then when she is only around a few ppl she says she does not eat. she drinks energy drinks like crazy and i tell her to stop drinking sooo many b/c you can die if you drink too many, and she is not even doing a energy when she drinks them.and i have told her to start eating and stuff but she won't she wants to loose wait, and i said to just workout and not to starve yourself and yeah. i am really worried about her. she is always tired b/c she is not eating and she is not getting her calciam or however you spell that and it makes her tired so she drinks a Red Bull.i don't know how to help her. should i tell a parent if i tell her to stop and she doesn't?? please help me
concerned best friend

Yesss tell someone before she kills herself..This could lead to like anorexia or something...

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

Well I'm only 14 but I want two girls and their names will be Katelyn Annabelle and Kasey Rachel or Ashlee? idk im still deciding loll

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Are you suppose to pop your pimples or not? And the same with Black heads? What are you suppose to do. I use this blackhead scrub stuff and it makes my blackheads bigger. Is that giving me a sign to pop them? I seldum get pimples with white heads. And usually I accident pop them. Is that bad?

Oh no don't pop them unless you really have to and it's really big! ahh sounds gross i know but if you pop it, you might leave scars and the bacteria will go into your skin making pimples for the future..and you should probably stop that scrub stuff..lol hoped i help

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there are these girls..Paty and jessica. okay well paty and jessica ALWAYS get mad at me for no reason. Dude, and im on these girls basketball team and I fouled one time and i said.."oh i dont rlly care." you no just because it was my first one. and paty goes to me "WELL WHAT THE FREAK...YOU SHOULD CARE." and she wouldnt pass me the ball at all. But this one time at school, i didnt get such a good grade on my socical studies test...(if was a D) & the est was on the whole book *well the stuff we covered* and Jessica comes up to me and goes " (my name) wat did you get? & paty butts in and goes I got an A+ and Jessica goes Me to"...and then they ask me again and i said "no" and then when our teacher wasnt looking they grab my paper and started making fun of me. Please helped


SOrry its so long BUT PLEASE HELP ME *


Sincerly,
crushed/MAD

Ps: there is a ton of more stuff that they have done to make my life miserable

wow they are bitchess..just ignore them because i've gone through people like that too..

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ok here it goes my best frind in middle school since 6th grade (she was in 7th so when she came to high school she kinda forgot about me i gueess and now that i am in high school i figured that we would be friends again but that dident happen when i asked her about it she just said she was 2 different she had tried things that i haddent but she didnet know thati had so i tryed to tell her and she just like i dont know but now i see her every day in the hall and she smiles at me and itryed to talk to her but she seemdis interested
why is she sending me mixed signals .....
yes i know what ur going to say well shes not a very good friend then but.... i want more than that

help if u can (sry if i sounded like a bitch)

~blundered blonde~

Wow I know EXACTLY how you feel..I have a "friend" who always says hi to me in the hallways but we can never have a real conversation because she would ditch me for someone else...and ignore me around other people..i'm still trying to figure out what to do about it so sorry i'm not of any help right now..

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im 15 and theres this guy (also 15) and we both like each other. At least he says he likes me. right now we're kind of in a friends with benefits position, we dont want to go out becasue he smokes and drinks and i cant deal with that. the thing is, he tells me he wants to be more and that hes trying to quit, and i tell him i wanna be more too..... but the next day he goes tells all his friends that i wanna be more than friends and he leaves himself out of it., i just dont know if i can trust him, or why he does this. any advice?

oh wow..i'm against the smoking and drinkking thing but if that's what you like to go for, then do it if it makes you happy..and maybe he left himself out of it because he isn't that interested (no offense) or he doesn't want his friends to know that he's interested..idkk sory for the bad advice

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I just started cheerleading this year and it was really hard for me to do anything, like tumbling or stunting, because I have like no upper body strength. This is mostly because of my wrists, they're weak and crack a lot. I did gymnastics about a year ago but it made my wrists worse. What I want to know is, is there anyway for me to build up some arm strength so I can start doing gymnastics again?

oh wow maybe go see a doctor or something?

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When I walk in my bathroom, theres always poop on the toilet. I think my dad does it because my pets don't use the toilet. LOL. I know it's gross but how can I find out who is doing this. (It's not my sister or my mom either.) HELP!!!!!!!!!!

hahaha that's hilarious..ummm maybe watch the bathroom..like after someone goes in, go in there and see if the poop is on there??? hahah

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My sister is 18 and has recently been kicked out by my mother due to dumb issues. Now I love them both, but my sister is telling me crap about my parents and my parents are telling me crap about my sister. They basically want me to pick sides. Do I pick my parents that have raised me and that I will be stuck with for at least 4 more years? Or do I pick my sister because shes like my best friend?

don't pick any sides..if they can't understand that then explain to them why..i'm sure they'd be reasonable

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okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....

help me please?

oh wow i am so sorry about your mom...maybe you should talk to your counselors at school or something..just know that you're not alone with this and if people truly care, they will do anything to make you feel better..sorry for the bad advice

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So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

don't go after another guy's girlfriend..i mean imagine if you were his girlfriend and another girl was trying to be with him..just let things go the way they're suppose to go and maybe it will work out for you..sorry if that was bad advice

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Hey I was just wandering what you thought about this one. Sorry it might be kinda long but I really need your advice.

-Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks exactly today. He is like really stupid and kinda weird so I dont know what I want to do. Half of me wants to dump him and the other half doesn't. I know that he really really likes me and that if I break up with him he might even cry. Today on our field trip some of his friends were like joking around and told me that he dumped me (and I knew he didnt). He was like what?!? I would never dump her. And yesterday he bought me this really cute stuffed animal (dolphin) because he knows that I love dolphins.

-Please someone help me I really need it!!

aww that's soo sweet..but maybe you need to sit down and have a talk with him and make sure he knows that you guys should still be friends..hope that helped..

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well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.

Well if you guys love eachother, then don't worry about it..just tell your friend how you feel.

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well you see i have this problem well i thinh im in love with kid and well lets just say his older but not by much and well yeah we flirt and all but im afraid to persue because well im not aloud to care for him my family will diown me and im not the kind of gurl, who lays out easily so please help me

yeahh i totally agree with the person above

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