there are these girls..Paty and jessica. okay well paty and jessica ALWAYS get mad at me for no reason. Dude, and im on these girls basketball team and I fouled one time and i said.."oh i dont rlly care." you no just because it was my first one. and paty goes to me "WELL WHAT THE FREAK...YOU SHOULD CARE." and she wouldnt pass me the ball at all. But this one time at school, i didnt get such a good grade on my socical studies test...(if was a D) & the est was on the whole book *well the stuff we covered* and Jessica comes up to me and goes " (my name) wat did you get? & paty butts in and goes I got an A+ and Jessica goes Me to"...and then they ask me again and i said "no" and then when our teacher wasnt looking they grab my paper and started making fun of me. Please helped
SOrry its so long BUT PLEASE HELP ME *
Sincerly,
crushed/MAD
Ps: there is a ton of more stuff that they have done to make my life miserable
Kels answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 9:18 pm: maybe she has problems at home
alot of people who have problems at home take someone else down with them beacuse it helps them to feel better when they see someone else suffering!
dont ask, i know, it makes no since! but w/e
just try to be nice ! and ignor them, you know whats true and whats not!
DarkSoul answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:59 pm: you really got to stand up to those snotty girls. I hate peoples like that! Tell them that if they don't stop you are going to tell their parents. or somethin' like that.
lostinside answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:58 pm: Try to stand up for yourself and tell them off. Tell them you're sick of how they've been treating you like crap lately. You seem like a very nice girl! Try to ignore them, they don't deserve a good friend like you. You can find much better friend than them!
mn731 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:06 pm: wow they are bitchess..just ignore them because i've gone through people like that too.. [ mn731's advice column | Ask mn731 A Question ]
rememberxforever answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:30 pm: WHAT LOSERS!! they need to get a life.i bet they think they are very cool but really if they are so cool why do they spend so much time bugging you?? stay far away from them. tell your friends about them if you need to vent. if you dont have any good friends and you REALLY want someone to talk to you can IM me at: rem3mberXforev3r...
karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:19 pm: What a pair! I don't know how you'd go about avoiding them but I'd stay away every chance you got!
These to are bullies.Do not say a thing to them when they pick on you.Totally ignore them.If they know they are bugging you they will continue. If you ignore them maybe they will move on. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
EJ47 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:18 pm: Ok. These two bimbo's Jellatin and Potmonkey? Grade A++ preppiess. Doomed to an existance of being seen for their breast implants and totally -self-centered attitudes. Doomed to be attracted to men who dont like her and say they're gay to get them off their backs. All they need is to get la -- erm, get an attitude adjustment.... and no I don't mean fight them, even if it does make you look tough, women who get into fights over being laghed at or other small tihngs is... unappealing. So, do what I did. Ignore alllll of the jocks/preps/people who think they're cool because they have this one kind of shoe or a GF. If they talk to you, just look at them and smile then go back to whatever you were doing. It's that easy. People who are assholes get ignored ^^ <3 EJ [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
LindasCounsel answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:09 pm: Dear crushed,
Okay, first things first. I would stay as far away from Patty and Jessica as I could get. From your letter, it sounds as if you are socializing with them a little bit. (just a little?) Trying to get their approval maybe? People like Patty and Jessica are a dime a dozen and they are using you to make them feel better about themselves. Don't buy into it. It's not worth the heartache.
It's a funny thing about approval. When you act as if you don't care about it, that's when you get the most. So, if you want to change the reactions of these girls to you, you'll have to have a little self-control and change your own reactions to them. Don't let them see you get mad at yourself. Because that's what's happening. They are playing off of your own insecurity. So, the fact that you didn't get a good grade on your test...you know what you have to do to get a better grade. It's nobody else's business. And certainly not 2 girls that have nothing better to do than to criticize and put down others. The self-control part? This is a doozy....Ignore them.
Good luck sweetie.
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
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