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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)

hey! well i like those stupid little quizzes haha my friends and i always do those..they're fun! um like tips on how to do stuff.like hair and makeup..things like that. personal stories from teenagers like us are always good! well if you need anything else let me know..hope i helped!
♥ Kristen

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ok well you answered my question the other day and im asking you personally because i like the advice you gave me. well the guy i like hsa a girlfriend and he flirts with me all the time, but he also flirts with my friend and at this dance he almost danced with me, this is a really long story by the way, and he like started picking my friend up and twirling her around and stuff and she knows i like him and she was like flirting back with him and i really liek this kid and i know im supposed to like back off for alittle bit but i cant bc he is in like 4 of my clases and on my bus and he always talks to me and i really like him. am i like overreacting? or am i like over obsessive? i just really like the kid, and i've never had a boyfriend before and i thought he would be my first except that he has a girlfriend. and im almost 15... and i feel like a retard because i dont have a boyfriend yet and all of my friends have had one since like the 7th grade and im a freshman now. please help .. thx

sweetie dont feel like a retard because you havent had a boyfriend! i havent had one yet and im turning 16 in like 5 months!! yeah some people may think 'wow that girl is weird..hasnt had a boyfriend?' but guess what? you cant let it get to you! your just taking your time..like me =) your waiting for the right one and when he comes along its gonna be love ♥ im always in your situation, yeah i like this guy but then my friend always likes him too and she always flirts back. i do get mad like you and no i absoultely dont think you are overreacting and definately not obsessive. you just like this guy alot and there is nothing wrong with that. how long has this guy been going out with his girlfriend? because he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with other girls? haha dont know how long that relationship is gonna last..but if you feel he is worth it i would definately wait for him and his girlfriend to break up and then you can make the move! keep talking to him, and then maybe he will be like yeah i kinda like this girl, BOOM im breaking up with my girlfriend. lOl you never know hun! just be very outgoing and flirty! go out and have a good time and be sure to smile! im sure you will have no problem tho sweetheart im sure your beautiful! well if you need anything else just let me know im always here to help! good luck!
♥ Kristen

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Ok well here is my story. I am a 16/f I have a 5 month old baby boy with this wonderful guy! Here is where the problem comes in, today me and him were talking about our relationship. (We date) And well he broke up with me. We have been together for 2 years! I am head over heals in LOVE with this boy! Like honest to God there is no question about it. What should I do? Because he said that he feels really bad because he hurt me I mean he cried because I was crying (because he hurt me by breaking up with me) Well I just need someone to tell me why he would have done this!! I really love him and he really loves me, I don't know why he did it and I want him back. HELP! Both he and I didn't want our relationship to affect our child. That is why I am asking. I think our break up might affect the baby...What can I do?

well sweetie im so sorry to hear that! i think that either he will see that breaking up with you was the wrong thing to do. but if he doesnt i still dont think this is going to affect the baby because i mean that is his child, and if he cares about you and the baby enough he is gonna come see it and take care of it too and he is gonna get back together with you hun! you should try talking to the guy and ask him why he broke things off with you, and just ask him what he thinks he is going to do about the baby. hope everything works out! if you need anything else just be sure to let me know!
♥ Kristen

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on myspace does anyone know how to get more then just a top 8, like a top 16. ive seen other people with it

http://www.r4wr.com/friends
that website should help you out!
but it does take time..so be patient lOl
♥ Kristen

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Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year.

of course! my parents were high school sweethearts and they still love each other haha all is well! so i definatley believe that they can last throughout adulthood!
♥ Kristen

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hi my name is jess im 13. well i constantly have these feelings that i wamt to die and i have no purpose for life. i play as many sports as u could think okso thats not really helping. i get really stressed easily and i cut myself once over a boy. I really need the best ways to handle it im getting really stressed and i cant enjoy myself. if theres any way i can handle it without having to talk to someone because i would sound stupid. please help
jess

aw sweetie im sorry! eveyone has a purpose in life =)
the best way to handle stress is
FRIENDS ♥
they are always there for you! you and your friends should go to the mall, go to a movie go out to eat..anything! please dont cut yourself again..its not worth it!! just go out and meet new people..have a good time! hope this helps. if ya need anything else let me know hun!
♥ Kristen

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I took my first school picture..
the eye doctor said that after getting my first glasses this summer my eyes might get a little light sensitive
they got REALLY light sensitive on picture day.
I ended up blinking in my school picture.
I freaked out, then took retakes.
They came back today.. eyes closed.
I already talked to the yearbook sponsor. She said that I can bring in a picture of me and they'll scan it into the yearbook.
But there will be a different background and stuff and it will be at the end of the yearbook.
I have this AMAzing picture of me and i want to put it in, but i'm not sure if people will laugh at me or anything or talk about it if it sticks out.
Should I have stick out or not have a picture in there at all?
I rate 5s for constructive answers.

definatley put the picture in there! i mean who cares if it sticks out..some people might think its pretty cool! if they make fun of you, then screw them there just jealous because you look better than them! hope all goes well sweetie
♥ Kristen

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Whot for hair style should I have when I swim and bathing??
Everything I ever had slides out! The bun fell out one time =/ ooh...sounds stupid, I know! But I hate those Bath Hat!! Never gonna use them ;P
So what can I do with my hair instead ? How do YOU put up your hair ?

i put mine in a tighter messy bun..more towards the top of my head haha. i dont care what i look like just as long as my hair stays in! hope it works for you =)
♥ Kristen

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why do people like to follow fashion trends?

people like following fashion trends because they want to fit in. even if they have something super cute but its not in style then they wont wear it because they are afraid of what people will say. i personally think its stupid because i think people should be able to wear anything they want without being made fun of!
♥ Kristen

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i want to get my belly button pierced but should i get it on the top or bottom.. i know a lot of people have it on the top of the belly button but how about on the bottom.. will it still look good and do people have the bottom pierced?

well i personally have mine on the top..but thats just a personal preference! usually most people do get it on the top but i think it looks cute both ways. if you like being unique then i think you should get it on the bottom!
♥ Kristen

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Okay
So basically I live in Arizona
and it's pretty warm here year-round
& a few of my friends have heated pools and they throw x-mas/newyears pool parties.
Problem is:
I kinda lost my bathing suit and I need a new one.
Anyone know where they sell juniors (xs,s) bathing suits?
online,in stores, I don't really care.
Websites are helpful =]

hmm lets see.. i would try
american eagle
walmart
target
victoria secret
& pac sun
hope ya get what your lookin for hun!
♥ Kristen

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Okay so I love leg warmers.
Where can you find some cute ones (I live in Arizona so it's kinda hard to find cold-weather clothes)

i know all these stores do:
abercrombie
hollister
target
aeropostale
american eagle
& gap
if ya need any more stores let me know!
♥ Kristen

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hey. i was wondering where you can get those sweatshirts that are just like PLAIN. have nothing on the front, the back or anything. JUST PLAIN. they can come in like..black white and gray. if you guys know where you can get them. please let me know!! :)

walmart maybe footlocker? lOl
hope you find what your lookin for!
♥ Kristen

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ok im going to a basketball game today with my friends & idk what to wear..like should i wear a long sleeve, a hoodie, hair up, hair down, hair straight, hair curly, make up, no make up, etc etc. if you have any ideas let me know.

thanks!!

i think you should wear some cute jeans..maybe some ripped ones..with a cute tighter t-shirt! i would wear my hair down and straight, just because thats how i normally wear it lOl and definately wear make-up but not too much! maybe just some eyeliner, mascara and some bronzer/blush and lipgloss! uMmm.. i think thats it! if you need anything else be sure to let me know! you'll look gorgeous sweetie!
♥ Kristen

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hey yall...this question is pretty blunt, but im in need of it. What are some good flirting tips or a great way to get guys to notice you. ima nice girl, not ugly, but sumtimes it seems the guys always go for the bad girls. sluts...yeah but anyway it seems like all the guys id consider liking, i dont kno how to talk to them or let them kno i like them. any tips?

-thanks guys!

hey sweetie! well what you can do is first go up and talk to him..always smile! guys always fall in love with a girls smile, twirl your hair, just be confident in yourself guys also like that. or you could go up with a group of friends and start talking to him, just be outgoing and friendly, like sometimes touch him or play with his hair..give him hugs =) cute stuff like that! if you need any more tips just let me know! hope all goes well hun.
♥ Kristen

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7 months ago i moved to maine. from florida well i left my ex down there and i really love him and he loves me just not as much as i love him. well im 17 and ill be 18 in october. over the summer i plan on going to florida to visit. well i really don't want to come back i hate it here so much. i have like 5 friends and it just sucks.

i dont have alot of money to live on my own with but i have tons of family and friends or even my ex that i could move in with.

I'm wondering if i should just drop the idea or try n talk to my parents about it.

just so you know my ex and i are not together because i cannot do long distance relationships. But i do love him.

Tell me what you think. and ill Rate you

well i think you should talk to your parents before you do anything! im not sure about the whole moving in with the ex-boyfriend idea..because things might not work out so well and then you have no where to live..or you will have to move back to Maine. maybe your parents will see how much you dont like it in Maine and will move back to Florida..or even let you move in with one of your family members down there! see how things go =) hope all goes well sweetie! if you need anything else be sure to let me know!
♥ Kristen

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I'm not sure what category this really goes under, but I was curious on birth control.. Does it just make pmsing on a certain schedule so you know when? does it stop it for a certain amt of time? How does it work?

ok i know all about this! yes it does help regulate your period so that you know exactly when you get it..the exact day! so thats pretty sweet and it like makes your periods not as bad..if you have a heavy period then the pill is going to help make it not so heavy. well if you need anything else just let me know hun!
♥ Kristen

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I like this boy a lot..hes constantly all i think about..he almost seems perfect to me ...like nothing is wrong with him..and although everyone has imperfections i just dont see them..well he knows i like him but he doesnt know that i think hes like perfect , but he just doesnt seeem to care or anything..he has a girlfriend but they been goin out for like 1 week..i just want him to care that i like him and not hurt me and like rub in my face that he has a girlfriend..so what do i do?

I rate 5 for any help

aw sweetie i kind of have this problem right now..except for the perfect part. buuuut if he is perfect for you then he will dump his gilfriend and it doesnt seem like this kid is a jerk so i bet he is not going to rub it in your face. but all you can do is keep talking to him and hang out with him "as friends" for now since he has a girlfriend lOl but he will soon realize that he likes you more than his girlfriend! hope i helped hun, and if you need anything else let me know!
♥ Kristen

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ok i like this kid right hes totally hot~~~ He knos i like him so it became weird so we decide to be friends w/e in the whole deal! but i wanna be more than friends. does any body have tips or ways i can get to like me????????????????

ps ..... no smart ass comments. i am not ugly either!

im in your situation right now! what you can do is flirt with him alot..smiling is the number one thing that a boy falls for!! umm do your hair and makeup nice dress cute/sexy but not slutty so you will get a reputation. hang out with him alot..if he has aim and you do..talk to him on there and be like yeah we should hang out sometime! when you get more comfortable with him give him hugs and stuff. well hope i helped sweetie! if ya need any more help just leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen

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im 13 and a female. me and my family might be moving away and i told my best friend (hes also my crush) and he started crying and told me that he loves me. i had him over to play the next day and whenever we were alone we huged and kissed but we arent going out because we both have other people. after the holidays we both said that we are going to dump our boyfriend and girlfriend. im afraid he might ask me out. what if he does i really love him but if i move it isnt that far and ill be able to talk over msn but it would be weirder... please help me!

**sleepiesheep**

sweetheart if you love him and he loves you then i dont see a reason why you two shouldnt go out! dont be scared..you should be happy that you found someone! i dont think the moving thing will have a big effect on your relationship with him because you can still talk over the computer and also on the phone right? well goodluck hun! hope all goes well. if you need anything just make sure to leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen

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