im 13 and a female. me and my family might be moving away and i told my best friend (hes also my crush) and he started crying and told me that he loves me. i had him over to play the next day and whenever we were alone we huged and kissed but we arent going out because we both have other people. after the holidays we both said that we are going to dump our boyfriend and girlfriend. im afraid he might ask me out. what if he does i really love him but if i move it isnt that far and ill be able to talk over msn but it would be weirder... please help me!
boyproblems answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:25 pm: well it sound like you really love him so i think if he asks you out then you should totally say yes you seem like a good couple if your both willing to break up with your other relationship to start one with each other i think you should date him b/c you can still talk and most likely see each other hope i helped love boyproblems [ boyproblems's advice column | Ask boyproblems A Question ]
babyygqirlx3 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:52 am: heyy hunn,,
I think that if he asks you out, you should say yes because if he is your best friend, how weird could it get. He is nice to you, and he already has kissed you and he obviously cares about you. N E guy that cries over you and really means it (( and not like psycho )) is def worth it. I think you should go out with him. And if you arent moving too too far away you can always visit him. He's your bff, of course your parents wld let you. Just go for it. Good Luck!!!
naimee answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 10:08 pm: Long distance relationships are really hard, and I've encountered one, too. I didn't mind it, because I knew that I was being faithful towards him, and I THOUGHT he was being faithful towards me, because I trusted him with everything I had, but he found a new girlfriend, one that actually lived in the same state as him, that he could see all the time. =[ I suggest long distance relationships for some couples though, because if you have a STRONG FIRM relationship, then it doesn't matter how far you two live apart, all that matters if that you have each other. If he asks you out, simply say no. Say you don't think a long distance relationship would work out, but you want to stay close with him because he means so much to you. [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 8:35 pm: Well if you think you`ll be able to see him then go for it.. But if there just going to be talking on the phone and internet chatting then i`d forget it.. your only thirteen you don`t need to really worry about this right now.. Maybe try meeting someboyd where you move too and continue to be friends with this guy.. If you aren`t moving and stuff then maybe try going out with this guy.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
rockchick544 answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:36 pm: you should definately go out with him because u both love each. Talking to him on msn wont be weird at all... i have friends (girls and guys) that live very far away from me but we have really fun conversations online! so dont worry about it. And if it is kind of strange then you can talk to him on the phone! And there is always the possibility that you won't move at all!
hope i helped-
~Kris~ [ rockchick544's advice column | Ask rockchick544 A Question ]
SWEETXLOVE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:35 pm: sweetheart if you love him and he loves you then i dont see a reason why you two shouldnt go out! dont be scared..you should be happy that you found someone! i dont think the moving thing will have a big effect on your relationship with him because you can still talk over the computer and also on the phone right? well goodluck hun! hope all goes well. if you need anything just make sure to leave one in the inbox!
♥ Kristen [ SWEETXLOVE's advice column | Ask SWEETXLOVE A Question ]
HCOxBABE answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:26 pm: Don't be scared if he asks you out. He loves you & if you love him back, then go out with him if you want to. If you're not moving that far away from him, then your relationship can work. If you feel weird talking over msn with him, then you guys can talk over the phone. [ HCOxBABE's advice column | Ask HCOxBABE A Question ]
shopoholicgrl answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:26 pm: If you really like him and you are breaking up with your boyfriend, then that would be a good thing if he asked you out right? Why are you afraid? If you really like him and he likes you then that is a wonderful thing. If you move and it isn't that far, then things shouldn't be that much different. Good luck =]. Ask me if you have any more questions! [ shopoholicgrl's advice column | Ask shopoholicgrl A Question ]
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