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moving..
7 months ago i moved to maine. from florida well i left my ex down there and i really love him and he loves me just not as much as i love him. well im 17 and ill be 18 in october. over the summer i plan on going to florida to visit. well i really don't want to come back i hate it here so much. i have like 5 friends and it just sucks.
i dont have alot of money to live on my own with but i have tons of family and friends or even my ex that i could move in with.
I'm wondering if i should just drop the idea or try n talk to my parents about it.
just so you know my ex and i are not together because i cannot do long distance relationships. But i do love him.
Tell me what you think. and ill Rate you <3
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if you are 17, then you will probably be going to college soon. talk to your ex and pick a college in florida that you can to to together. i think that you should give the long distance relationship a try since you both love eachother. but if you can't do it, don't. just follow your heart on talking to your parents if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. i hope i helped! good luck! <3 <3
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Before you abandon your life in Maine, you should really make sure that when you go there, you'll be financially secure and whatnot. If you're moving down there, you need a backup plan down there.
Like, if you move in with your ex, but for some reason need to move out, you should know before you even go if you have DEFINITE backup, because I've had friends who thought their family would let them stay with them but didn't in similar situations.
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I think moving back, is not only the best idea, but it's so wonderful, too! Although I agree with the person below me, moving in with your ex boyfriend will make it really difficult, because where would you live & who would support you if you two broke up again? I used to live in PA and now I live in TX, and I feel the same exact way you do, and I'm so glad that I'm only 15, because this decision must be SOO hard. I'm sorry that you have to go through with it. But, I think you should definitely move back, your hearts in Florida, and that's where you should be, with someone you love.
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well i think you should talk to your parents before you do anything! im not sure about the whole moving in with the ex-boyfriend idea..because things might not work out so well and then you have no where to live..or you will have to move back to Maine. maybe your parents will see how much you dont like it in Maine and will move back to Florida..or even let you move in with one of your family members down there! see how things go =) hope all goes well sweetie! if you need anything else be sure to let me know!
♥ Kristen
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Theres only one explanation, follow your heart. Moving in with your ex could be bit of a problem for one if your relationship doesnt work out where do you go next? and second even if you guys get along really well now, living with them could be different because you see all their flaws and habits. Talk to your parents they may let you if you give a good enough explanation, when they ask who your going to live with make sure its someone they know and trust very well that will help make things a bit easier. Good luck!! i hope things work out for the best!
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