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Ugh. i dont really know
ok theres this guy like ireally like. and well i thought he liked me too. like he called me like twice a day all the time. and he would like choose to be with me instead of hanging with all his other friends. and like when his friends would call and stuff. hed just be like im busy right now and hung up. but like its really weird bc these past couple of days hes been kinda i dont know i guess you could say just avoiding talking to me or something. i really dont know i dont get him. one day he likes me the next its like he isnt the same person. but it really sucks bc im completely in love with him. and he just ..is starting to kill me basically. like yesterday he got on, on aim..and he didnt im me..i imed him..and he didnt answer so i was just like screw it w/e. im not going to be like all up in him saying like why arent you talking to me and stuff. im not going to be like this annyoing pest. or w/e. so today he gets on again. and then i asked one of my firneds if he was responding and stuff. and she was like yea hes talking to me. so i was like ok well w/e. and like 2 hours later he signs off. without saying anything to me. so of course i have to think what am i doing to deserve this and stuff. i hadnt done anything to him at all. and i know for a fact in the begginning he liked me. cause hes best friend told me he did. but now im thinking i was just getting my hopes up wayyy to high. i love him more then he'll ever know. like now i cant stand talking to him but yet im still completely in love with him. i love the sound of his voice, and the way he says my name. im just completely head over heels with him. but hes just like ignoring me. and my christmas was defintaly ruined just by him. and i cant get over him cuz he seriosuly was the only thing that meant something to me. i know he needs space. but thats what im giving him. and then i know that once i give him so much space. he just wont be there anymore. and you cant imagine how much i need him in my life. and it sucks cuz i honeslty dont know what i did. and i know i prob. dont deserve it. but i really dont care. i love him so much. so yea. please help!
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tell him how you feel cause his friend was probaly making that up to get him to have a girlfriend but if you tell him how you feel maybe he will start to like you. if he doesnt start to like you with all you did try and find someone new but get over him first cause thats not fair to the other person tell your friend to ask him if he likes you since he talks to her i dont know just try what ever else comes to mind.
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First off, I have been there. It sucks. All you want is a little attention and it seems as if you get nothing. Every little thing just seems to make it worse.
Second, stop torturing yourself. The more you think about it, the worse it will be. You keep sucking yourself back into this sadness that you don't deserve. I realize that it is easier said than done, so try venting frustration. The way I vent when it comes to stupid boy stuff is I play No Doubts Exgirlfriend and I sing it really loud and jump around as if I were Gwen. It actually helps. Heh.
Here is what you need to do, ask him in person, face to face (not online) if something is wrong. Tell him that this whole ignoring you thing is bothering you since he has never come to you with anything that would spell out a problem. Ask him why he isn't talking to you, but he is talking to your friends.
This is much better because instead of just wondering over and over in your head, you will find out what is really going on. Hopefully he will answer you and not do the stupid boy thing. If he does do the stupid boy thing, be happy that you aren't with him. You may think he is your world, but trust me, he's not. You have friends, interests, and fun to be had without his sorry ass. And if his sorry ass still ignores you, then I bet that there are lots of other cute boys you can pay attention to. I bet THEY aren't sorry asses. That sorry ass.
Sorry, for some reason I can't stop saying ass now. Ass. Ass, ass, ass, he is an ass.
That was so retarded, you HAVE to be laughing, at least a little.
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