Question Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:08 pm
ok well you answered my question the other day and im asking you personally because i like the advice you gave me. well the guy i like hsa a girlfriend and he flirts with me all the time, but he also flirts with my friend and at this dance he almost danced with me, this is a really long story by the way, and he like started picking my friend up and twirling her around and stuff and she knows i like him and she was like flirting back with him and i really liek this kid and i know im supposed to like back off for alittle bit but i cant bc he is in like 4 of my clases and on my bus and he always talks to me and i really like him. am i like overreacting? or am i like over obsessive? i just really like the kid, and i've never had a boyfriend before and i thought he would be my first except that he has a girlfriend. and im almost 15... and i feel like a retard because i dont have a boyfriend yet and all of my friends have had one since like the 7th grade and im a freshman now. please help .. thx <33
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SWEETXLOVE answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 2:11 pm: sweetie dont feel like a retard because you havent had a boyfriend! i havent had one yet and im turning 16 in like 5 months!! yeah some people may think 'wow that girl is weird..hasnt had a boyfriend?' but guess what? you cant let it get to you! your just taking your time..like me =) your waiting for the right one and when he comes along its gonna be love ♥ im always in your situation, yeah i like this guy but then my friend always likes him too and she always flirts back. i do get mad like you and no i absoultely dont think you are overreacting and definately not obsessive. you just like this guy alot and there is nothing wrong with that. how long has this guy been going out with his girlfriend? because he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with other girls? haha dont know how long that relationship is gonna last..but if you feel he is worth it i would definately wait for him and his girlfriend to break up and then you can make the move! keep talking to him, and then maybe he will be like yeah i kinda like this girl, BOOM im breaking up with my girlfriend. lOl you never know hun! just be very outgoing and flirty! go out and have a good time and be sure to smile! im sure you will have no problem tho sweetheart im sure your beautiful! well if you need anything else just let me know im always here to help! good luck!
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