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I don't know what to do.


Question Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:40 pm

Ok well here is my story. I am a 16/f I have a 5 month old baby boy with this wonderful guy! Here is where the problem comes in, today me and him were talking about our relationship. (We date) And well he broke up with me. We have been together for 2 years! I am head over heals in LOVE with this boy! Like honest to God there is no question about it. What should I do? Because he said that he feels really bad because he hurt me I mean he cried because I was crying (because he hurt me by breaking up with me) Well I just need someone to tell me why he would have done this!! I really love him and he really loves me, I don't know why he did it and I want him back. HELP! Both he and I didn't want our relationship to affect our child. That is why I am asking. I think our break up might affect the baby...What can I do?

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LadyGoodman answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:54 am:
I don't want to sound like a bitch, but you never considered this possibility? Do you really expect a 16 year old boy to know what he wants, let alone be mature enough to take responsibility for a serious relationship AND a child? You're going to need to start planning your own life without him because he probably won't always be there. Most who become fathers when they're teens don't stick around. Hope for the best, but expect the worst. Good luck.

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Askme247 answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:39 am:
Well if you guys were REALLY in love then I think you should talk to him about why he broke up with you. I mean you guys have a baby together and the baby is the most important thing right now. If he really cared about you and his child he would give you an explanation for him just dumping you out of the blue. Hope I helped..

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SWEETXLOVE answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:24 am:
well sweetie im so sorry to hear that! i think that either he will see that breaking up with you was the wrong thing to do. but if he doesnt i still dont think this is going to affect the baby because i mean that is his child, and if he cares about you and the baby enough he is gonna come see it and take care of it too and he is gonna get back together with you hun! you should try talking to the guy and ask him why he broke things off with you, and just ask him what he thinks he is going to do about the baby. hope everything works out! if you need anything else just be sure to let me know!
♥ Kristen

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TimmyTM answered Wednesday December 28 2005, 12:20 am:
If he wants a relationship with the kid, then he will. It's that simple.

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